I have been with a guy for 4 years we have got a child together,yet he keeps meeting woman through dating site and keeps on telling me loves me I walk out on him but i really do love him help.
2006-12-11 09:57:35 · 10 answers · asked by amika_m05 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I will put it straight: maybe it is time to accpt the truth and go on with your life. If he searches other women, he definitely is not a man for you.
2006-12-11 09:59:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
Relationships are about trust and faith Love has become a slang which people use to their own benifit . I know its hard but if he has cheated only in 4 years think can you survive your whole life with him your child might need him but do you need the tension the confusion My advice to you be strong ask him to tell you what he realy wants and then decide whats best for you and your child Get involved in something you enjoy and minimise the time you yhink about him keep yourself busy you will get there
2006-12-11 10:07:38 · answer #2 · answered by nikisha_singh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would sit down and talk to him tell him that it is hurting you when he does this and that you want to be with him but you dont think its right or fair that he does that.. and tell him that you love him, explain that he is hurting you when he does this and if that dont work you will have to think if you can get over this or not.. if not you need to move on with your life and find a guy that you can be happy with but if your not with him make sure you get child support so that he still has to help you with your child it doesnt cost you anything to get that all you have to do is go to the prosecuting attorneys office and file the paper work..
lots of luck i hope things work out for you if you ever wanna talk you can hit me up on my messenger..
happy holidays..
2006-12-11 10:04:11 · answer #3 · answered by Beth m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, put him on his bike and move on. Surely you don't need this type of punishment. He wants you and others, well tell him straight. Just get on your bike and pedal so fast and leave me alone. You will soon find someone better who will really care and love you. There is always something better waiting around the corner as the saying goes.
2006-12-11 10:05:54 · answer #4 · answered by CT 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know it's hard first hand.. i just got out of a 2 year and 10 month relationship. i love him with all my heart, but it just wasn't working out. and for you, it's not working out obviously if your man is looking for other girls. you love him, it's gonna be hard, but seriously you don't deserve that. life is way too short to spend your time with someone who isnt giving all his time to you. there's plenty of men out there who have enough time and decency to be with you and only you and not try to find other women. it's always easier to let go if you have something else to grab onto, so just try and picture yourself with another man who's giving you everything. it's going to hurt but in the end it's the best because you'll be available to find someone else who truly cares about you.
2006-12-11 10:10:37 · answer #5 · answered by lloydbanks214 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's having his cake and eating it you have to end it or sort it out now before you end up putting up with it for the next 20 years you have your child to put first now anyway
2006-12-11 10:05:01 · answer #6 · answered by julie m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on girl, it sounds like wanting your cake and eating it.
2006-12-11 10:02:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You either put up with it or get some self esteem and walk!!!
2006-12-11 10:00:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey listen if he love u he won't goout with other ladies
and i think u should leave him cause he doesn't care about.
2006-12-11 10:02:04 · answer #9 · answered by Hally berry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he aint worth it move on?
2006-12-11 10:05:19 · answer #10 · answered by arthur3home 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋