how can i avoid myself from having to like a someone?

Question

cuz then i dont want to start talking to her then fall in love with her slowly and then end up breaking up and stay heartbroken for a long time how can i avoid liking somenone

Answer 1

You could always spend your entire life living under that rock. But it would be a sad existence. Human beings were made to love each other. Life is a long road to travel alone. Sure we make the wrong choices sometimes, and we DO get our heart broken every so often. But if you are lucky, you will get your heart broken lots of times before you find "the one", and you'll probably break a few hearts of your own on the way. But each "love" you have is a lesson learned. Don't hide and avoid life, jump in with both feet. Sink or swim. It's more fun that way.

Answer 2

It's really hard to do that, and I would think nearly impossible. For me, it definitely took time to just learn how people are in general. I guess you can say that...it's unfortunate I'm becoming a people-hater and it's easier for me to just suddenly stop having an attraction to a certain someone. I think the thing to do is just to learn about people, and learn to hate them because humans are so cruel to each other.

You can also look at relationships another way... Just know that if someone broke up with you, it was probably for the best anyway and there's always someone better. Or maybe not better, but it doesn't hurt to be around. I don't really know...it's kind of hard to explain if you don't understand my reasoning.

Answer 3

Just be their friend. If you can easily get bruised in a relationship, then defenitly take slow steps. Don't date so much, just pick out a girl who could be your potential partner. get to know her as a friend. Let her make the first move on wanting to be serious with you. Other than that, find some activities to do on your free time. Hang out with the guys, therefore you don't have to think about whether you are going to want to look for girls or not. Take life one step at a time!



Krazy Libra

Answer 4

Get a vasectomy, because your body will keep entailing towards its sensual needs, it's the natural state of man. Otherwise venture into the educational realm, addict yourself to a form of strenuous discipline. But it still doesn't fully work like I love chemistry so I keep doing chemistry and try to keep myself busy with it during my lectures, but unfortunately there is such a preety girl that sits right in front of me and that kind of ruins my attention, my study at any rate and the amount of attention I allocate to it.

Answer 5

Best way to aviod falling for someone is to have no contact with them. Don't call them, write them, see them, ect....it's really hard at first but in the end, you'll forget about them.

Answer 6

Ask yourself what you would ever need a woman for. If the answer is "nothing," you won't have to worry about it any longer. That's what I did in relation to men.

Answer 7

just stay away from them. make them not like you, then you won't have to worry about a relationship. call them names or insult them whenever they are around. spread mean rumors about them. flatten their tires. oh, wait, maybe the last one was taking it too far..

Answer 8

become a hermit and remain in your room for many years haha

Answer 9

been there- done that

i tried that but u cant
=c

Answer 10

that is life!!!!!!!!!
and if u like her u wont break up with her!!!!!!!!!!!!
give it a try!!!!!!!!!good luck!!!!!!!!!!