I was previously in a high scholl relationship with my ex, we have have already broken up twice and it hasn't even been a month? I recently found out that he was suicidal and that every time a girl breaks up with him he threatens to kill himself and his 1 year old daughter. I also had heard that he might also kill me as well. I didnt believe the rumors until this morning. Every since Thursday he has been trying to get back with me. (We broke up Wednesday.) Today he threatened to jump of the balcony today in the hallway while i was standing right there just to prove his love to me. Luckily he got down before doing so, but I am really scared for his life and mine. What do I do? All though he is insane, I really do have feelings for this guy but I feel as if I cant be with him because of his problems so can anyone help me?
I also feel bad being with him because of our age difference. He's 15 and I'm 17 (but I will be 18 onthe 21st of next month. His birthday isnt until next summer.
2006-12-11 09:43:27 · 11 answers · asked by bdjones_78 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just to clarify, this is HIS daughter NOT mine.
2006-12-11 09:57:41 · update #1
This is very, very, very serious situation. He really needs professional help and support. You cannot provide this kind of help yourself. You need to inform his family and his close friends of the situation.
Suicide threats are always to be taken seriously!!!!
Please call 1.800.SUICIDE for more suggestions as soon as possible!
2006-12-11 09:49:41 · answer #1 · answered by happy4u 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is very dangerous for you and your child. Stay away from him. If he talks to you, be polite (don't insult him, don't laugh at him) but tell him that you can't date him, and walk away. No matter what he threatens to do. Its not your fault if he chooses to hurt himself. But get out now!! It won't get any better with this creepy guy.
More importantly, you and your child are worth more than this.
2006-12-11 17:48:34 · answer #2 · answered by patrick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may have feelings for him, but this dude needs some serious help. I don't know his family situation but you should probably talk to them. It sounds like he's just trying to manipulate people into staying with him, but one of these days he may actually jump!! If you care about him, you have to help him by telling someone who loves him. You can't help him by being with him.
2006-12-11 17:47:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never be alone with him. In reality, he needs professional help. You should tell you parents and you should tell the guidance counselor at school. You need to be truthful and tell them all of it.
2006-12-11 17:51:20 · answer #4 · answered by CK1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST AN OPINION!!!, First call the suicide prevention line. They can help. They are not just for the mentally ill, they are experts in this type of behavior. Also their counselors can advise you on how you can cope with this situation. Please call them. GOOD LUCK!
2006-12-11 17:52:03 · answer #5 · answered by diesel6999999 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really are in a bad diocesan i don't no what to do. but maybe this might work well you could get back with him if your feelings are really deep. then you could help him through his troubles and maybe straiting everything out for him
2006-12-11 17:49:11 · answer #6 · answered by rose k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he already has a year old child????????? well first off, get the child away from him and call the police on him!!! that will get him the help he needs.
2006-12-11 17:46:31 · answer #7 · answered by Joannie W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get back with him!!!!!! THis is sooo serious!! tell someoneeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
a year old girl is involveddddddd
ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
2006-12-11 17:46:30 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell HIS parents whats going on, so they can get him help.
2006-12-11 17:45:12 · answer #9 · answered by sweetie_baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea, u look much tv
2006-12-11 17:48:50 · answer #10 · answered by john r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋