have worked with someone for 10 years and then suddenly become attracted to them after all that time because you didn't really know them before?
2006-12-11 09:43:28 · 37 answers · asked by coz_6 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No that is possible. Especially if you never really talk beyond work related subjects.
2006-12-11 09:44:54 · answer #1 · answered by egg_sammash 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not weird at all.. Most of the time it's personality that either makes someone more attractive or less, like the hottest person in the world if they were an egotistical idiot all of a sudden they'd not be attractive at all..
2006-12-11 09:46:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course not!!! goodness, attraction is everything about finding yourself in someone else. If you only got to know them recently, you probably found something new, something that felt like you. something that felt like they somehow understood a part of you that you feel others don't understand. It's cool to find that in anyone. Attraction is great. It's safe. You can enjoy the excitement and then realize that it's just that.
2006-12-11 09:49:26 · answer #3 · answered by f1addict 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No because you never really knew them before, so in a way its like meeting them for the first time. Sometimes we dont even see whats right in front of us.
2006-12-11 09:45:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no because u really didnt kno n e thing about them and u guys jus started to click. but if they thinks that it is weird u might want to bac off for a while. but if they like u u should ask them out on a date or something to get to kno them more. but if it dont work out u should just move on.
2006-12-11 09:49:36 · answer #5 · answered by sasha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's unusual but I wouldn't say wierd. You're probably more attracted to their personality than to their physical features.
I say go for it. What a better foundation for a relationship than genuine attraction to ones personality. That's great!
2006-12-11 09:45:53 · answer #6 · answered by Corn_Flake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i don't think it's weird because some times it takes time to know some one and get attracted to them.
2006-12-11 09:46:05 · answer #7 · answered by Hally berry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The important thing is do you think it's weird. I suspect not. I'm glad to see the folks here are generally supportive, but you need to get to the stage where you feel that whatever you feel is more valid than whatever others feel.
2006-12-11 09:47:25 · answer #8 · answered by jackbutler5555 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eh 6 out of 10
2006-12-11 09:44:53 · answer #9 · answered by Patrick 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Most of the really long lasting relationships begin that way.
Good going! You just may have found true love.
2006-12-11 09:46:11 · answer #10 · answered by Molly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋