i recently told the guy i like how i felt abt him & he replied with a "i would have said yes,but i'm not looking for a relationship right now" & then we talked for more than an hour abt everything & he opened upto me a lot.after that night,he never came online.
the wierd thing was my personal msg said "it's now or never" & as my friend told me his was "are you the now or never kind?",but i think he was on invisible mode.
the other wierd thing was what his best friend told me.he told me that my crush had said that he thought abt me & then he added that when my crush get's beetter"things may happen" & that there's something else too which he doesn't want to reveal.
bear in mind that my crush does speak to me sometimes but it's hard cos it's an awkward situation.the conversation i had with him the night i told him was the best & he was really sweet abt everything.
thanks for all your answers :^)
2006-12-11 08:59:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why's he acting like this & what is he really tring to tell me?
2006-12-11 09:04:37 · update #1
he is thinking abt you and all? i gues he is interested in you but not ready yet.,,,,,,so i would suggest you just move on and enjoy ur life..if he really likes you and wants you,,he will be the one askin you out.
2006-12-11 09:09:27 · answer #1 · answered by jinie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE WAS PROBABLY JUST HONEST WITH YOU THAT NIGHT. THAT'S OPTION No 1. UNFORTUNATELY OPTION No 2 IS THAT HE DIDN'T FEEL THE SAME WAY ABOUT YOU AND HE DIDN'T WANT TO HURT YOUR FEELINGS. YOU WILL KNOW BY HIS ACTIONS FROM NOW ON. NEXT TIME YOU TALK TO HIM, BE MORE LAID-BACK, DO NOT PUSH HIM WITH ANYTHING! THE SITUATION NOW OR NEVER IS VERY STUPID! THAT WAS YOUR BIGGEST MISTAKE. MEN HATE WHEN THEY ARE PUT TO THE WALL! THEY LIKE TO HAVE ENOUGH SPACE AROUND! THEY NEED AIR! SO JUST WAIT AND IF IT'S POSSIBE- DO NOT SHOW ANY MORE OF YOUR FEELINGSTO HIM- HE KNOWS THEM VERY WELL ALREADY AND IF HE IS INTERESTED-HE WILL MAKE A MOVE!
2006-12-11 17:08:44 · answer #2 · answered by Stella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry if he like u then he would of told u girl just get over him and find someone new and while he supposibly thinking aobut what to say to u , probably by that time ur going to have someone better then him i bet u can do better !!!
2006-12-11 17:04:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe what ever he is hiding, its no good. Tell him its time to end the dog and pony show. If he is not willing to tell you what he's hiding, its time to move on. There are many guys out there that would be up front and completly honest. Good Luck
2006-12-11 17:21:20 · answer #4 · answered by Eric J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Daaaaamn girl. He knows how you feel about him now. He just needs some time to make up his mind. Everytime you 2 talk it shouldn't be akward. Is it akward to you to talk with someone you like? If so, no wonder he isn't to sure of you. You don't seem to be to sure of yourself.
2006-12-11 17:05:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably just needs time to think about everything. Give him time and everything will work out great!!!
Good Luck and God Bless!!
2006-12-11 17:02:22 · answer #6 · answered by Amber R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if this person talked to you and opened up to you he just needed someone to talk to he is on the net my son had a bad exp with that theyre not for real
2006-12-11 17:05:41 · answer #7 · answered by sunshine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really care for this guy keep after him hun,DO NOT let him go.From what i just read you really like this guy....you should keep on after him,no matter what;and if that friend is right,then that guy likes you.Good luck hun and God bless you.
2006-12-11 17:05:23 · answer #8 · answered by bambi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a life
2006-12-11 17:02:22 · answer #9 · answered by armond425 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
You didn't ask a question that I saw...what are we answering?
2006-12-11 17:02:29 · answer #10 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋