What if the boy u like says no?

Question

i told this boy i like him (in a note) he read it and threw it in the trash can. he didnt say anything. then i said, "so u wanna go out or not?" and he said NO!!! i was so embarassed i blurted out "it was a joke stupid" but it really wasnt, i still want him to be my freind but i dont know if he will be. he's also freinds wiht my x, and me and my x are like best freinds. if he tells my x, i'll totally be embarased? what do i do? i still like him!!

i feel embarassed when i go around him..

Answer 1

There are two answers to this, One make him jealous, but personly, I prefer the answer my Drizzle.

He doesn't deserve anyone like you, if he is acting the way he does.

Answer 2

Props to you just for having the nerve to ask!

You're already more mature than 95% of your peers who constantly ask questions here that say "WHAT DO I DO?!??"

What DO you do....move on. There are more boys out there and one much more deserving than the one who turned you down. Face it - not all people like everyone else, and they like some more than others for different reasons; you'll eventually find one that likes you back - you just have to keep looking.

Five years from now, when that first boy realizes that he made a mistake, you'll be the one who tells him 'no' - because you'll be better off already with someone else.

Answer 3

Oh. stop this at once. If he would have liked to go out with you he would have. Obviously not only is he not interested, he is also acting like a complete immature jerk.
You can find someone who will appreciate you and treat you well. He is not the only guy in this world you know.
Move on, and don't be embarrassed, at least you tried, right?
Good Luck to you.

Answer 4

the first thing you need to do is grow up. he said no big woop he's probably not worth it anyway. so what if he tells your friend. Just say yeah i liked him but once i found out what a total a*s*s he was i decided he wasnt worth my precious time. Dont be embarraced he did you a favor by saying no

Answer 5

The TRUTH.YOU CANNOT MAKE SOMEONE LIKE YOU!
Sorry,I know its not fair,but thats how it works.
Move on.Stop wasting your time.If he tells your best friend,chalk it up as a huge mistake and tell her that.She may or may not forgive you.Not much you can do after the fact.
Hopefully you'll have learned a very important lesson.

Answer 6

Try talking to him once more and just let him know that you understand if he doesnt have the same feelings for you but you dont want it to ruin your friendship and if it doesnt work than he is the one missing out on a good thing.

Answer 7

not to sound rude, but if he's not interested, find someone else. it might be crushing to know he doesn't like you even though you still like him, but you have to move on because there is probably nothing that will make him change his mind (and i really didn't want that to sound mean...)

Answer 8

if he said no then let it be, theres other man out here than this guy your talking about. and one more thing you never date your ex boyfriend friends , your asking to be talked about in a negative way girl let it go

Answer 9

well i wont say i think he died as you wrote to me!!!!
but i think tht 2 things can happen there
1) HE doesnt like you
2) He is friend with your X , maybe he doesnt want any problem.. is your x alright but maybe he feels it wouldnt be a good idea and just avoided.

Answer 10

then forget him! he's losing out on something good anyways, but that's his fault. move on to another guy! that's the only way you could get the ex-crush's attention. he'll probably be jealous! :)