I HATE holidays and my family and friends are pressuring me into doing things. I really don't want anything for christmas but then they get all mad and I don't like celebrating things since my Grandpa died because it just isn't the same with out him. I am also afraid of getting to deep into relationships, so I've broken all them off within a week because I'm afraid to lose again and I'm sick of crying myself to sleep everynight and nobody noticing that somethings wrong. I want to talk to someone but I can't with anyone in my family and none of my friends seem to care, don't have the money for a therapist, so got any ideas of who i could talk to?? please help
2006-12-11 08:56:26 · 5 answers · asked by roxychyk 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Yes, go to the school counselor. Tell her exactly what you said here. You're guaranteed to get help. Don't waste time, help yourself.
2006-12-11 09:14:08 · answer #1 · answered by ~Jessica~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know any pastors or preachers? Find one, they can help. Also talk to a teacher or student counselor they are also free. You are grieving for your Grandpa and everything has changed. But I do not think your Grandpa would like it if you used his dying as the reason for you to quit living and loving. As long as we are here on earth we will experience losses and pain but that is just a part of real life. No child would be born if women were not willing loose their figures and endure the pain of childbirth. Losing somebody that we love should make us treasure all the ones we still have more. Deciding not to love because you might have pain is like wanting to play volleyball but only if your team always wins...
Please get help and with time you will start to live again.
2006-12-11 17:26:52 · answer #2 · answered by MEAcat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about a priest? Also there are support groups for people who have lost someone. The death of someone close never goes away, but it does get easier, believe me. I lost my father over 6 years ago and it still hurts.
Take care.
2006-12-11 17:07:44 · answer #3 · answered by Sim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A councillor, they are cheaper than therapist's. Check your local community, or information for a helpline. They are there for you to use! and remember it's meant to be the season to be jolly. Would your grandfather want to see you so unhappy?
2006-12-11 17:04:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your in Australia and u have an msn account i will chat with u wildpalomino@hotmail.com
2006-12-11 17:06:38 · answer #5 · answered by wildpalomino 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋