Family & Relationships - 11 December 2006

2006-12-11 13:24:38 · 13 answers · asked by Karl0z 1 in Singles & Dating

For the last month, I have been going back and forth with my ex. I mean she has said she loves me does not want our love to die and things of that nature... but is kicking it with this new guy. well I got a new cell phone number last week and kept my old cell as well.. Well she found out and did not want me to give her the other phone back because she wanted a way to reach me. Well today I went and gave her the phone back (and did ont give her my new number). I figured it was the best way to move on with my life since she would not let me. I mean she would call at least once a day saying how she missed me but as doing nothing to sho wit other than spending time with her new friend... so should I have kept the lines of communication open? or wsa I right to just forget about it and try to move on

2006-12-11 13:24:34 · 6 answers · asked by lost_93710 1 in Singles & Dating

I am engaged to a guy who seems to not care.
This behavior has been going on for a long time and I was about to break it off when he popped the question.
I am confused. Why do his actions say I don't care but then he asks me to marry him? In a nutshell, he is always eager to help his friends but not me and is always at this one guys house to the point where I am seriously wondering if he is gay. He also turns me down sexually nine times out of ten and doesn't initiate much and if we do actually have sex I don't get any foreplay 'because he thiks I don't need it' and has every excuse to not have sex. Also, he doesn't do anything for anniversaries, doesn't buy me anything for my b-day, and he only got me something for X-mas because he knew he better because of all the other times he missed.
He said I am lucky I got a 'card' for my b-day because he doesn't even get his own brother anything for his b-day (interesting he didn't mention he doesn't get anything for his sister either.).

2006-12-11 13:24:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-11 13:24:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok my ex boyfriend watches Sex and the City more then me, reads Cosmopolitan every month, cuddles with he's guy friends, and love the movie Stick It. Does this mean he is gay???

2006-12-11 13:23:53 · 10 answers · asked by confussed... 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 13:23:43 · 2 answers · asked by **Jul** 1 in Singles & Dating

I am losing hope in ever getting a girl. I have an anxiety about asking a girl out and have never done it in my life. I can't even start a conversation with a girl, as I have another fear of embarassing myself. I am planning to not ever be with a girl, and I don't really feel like getting rid of my fear. Living alone would be better than embarassing myself. It will take too much effort and too much of my time. I will probably live in Hawaii or something and enjoy my life, alone. I don't know why everyone says it would be bad to do that. Besides, I don't want kids, and I don't want to have to listen to everything my wife, if I had one, wants. I don't know why I have any confidence, as I am tall, well built, and I have been told by a lot of people I'm attractive. I don't know if I ever will get over my anxiety. I might as well give up, seing as I will never ask a girl out. What is my problem, or how can I fix it, if I ever wanted t

2006-12-11 13:22:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I bought his X-mas gifts before our separation, should I give them to him or take them back? What is morally the right thing to do? Help quick!

2006-12-11 13:21:59 · 10 answers · asked by Amy C2 2 in Singles & Dating

what do you guys think of really skinny girls. im 5'4 and 92 lbs ive never been on a diet ive just always been petite

2006-12-11 13:21:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am purely African and right now lying on my bed in West Africa, we met and fell in love when he came for Holidays with his wife,immediately he set eyes on me, he fell off his feet and we kissed right in front of his wife....meanwhile the story is he had issues with his wife so they thought a holiday in Africa will solve it but......Well im glad he is rich.I WILL MARRY HIMMMM GRRRRR

2006-12-11 13:21:24 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

At work there is a cook who is awesome and I have fallen for him, he said he likes me too...but I barely speak Spanish and he barely speaks English...should we just give up?

2006-12-11 13:20:28 · 11 answers · asked by chistoso13 2 in Singles & Dating

He's a guy that wants to date me.

2006-12-11 13:20:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need help with romantic ideas for my husband while he is deployed in Korea. I haven't seen him since we got married in Sept. 2006. I get to spend our 1st Christmas together with him at Camp Humphreys. I leave on the 18th. Any ideas out there?

2006-12-11 13:20:22 · 4 answers · asked by victorianangel 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been involved with my guy for seven years. I no longer want to marry him, no do I see us having a future. He continues to tell me how much he loves me, yet I know he sleeps with other women on occassion. He will never admit to this, yet i know it is true. My question is............Why do men get involved in relationships, pretending to be faithful. The other aspects of our relationship is good. The lying about the messing around made me do the same. Therefore my other question is........... Can we work things out? I told him no, but he seems to think yes. Or should I throw it away and start over?

2006-12-11 13:20:03 · 15 answers · asked by ME 1 in Singles & Dating

Do guys really like girls with watermelons? Is that what it's all about? I mean apples are good too right?

2006-12-11 13:19:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

MY TECHERS MOTHER DIED AND DONT KNOW WAT TO WRITE

2006-12-11 13:18:35 · 2 answers · asked by liliasolis@sbcglobal.net 1 in Friends

I like to refer to relationships like the zoo. You have your lions: passion, your zebras: moods, your peekocks: sincerity, and your bird house: love sweet love. Me and my girl have flames coming out of our tongues we are so in love. He is the only one I wanna breath. I breath her all day long. She breaths me into the night. Don't tell me thats nothing. I now we gotta scooter. Right now we are in the lion stage: passion and fine arts. She set me straight by showing me her intutiviness and brazen beauty and lickerish like leg muscles.

2006-12-11 13:18:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i mean if I was a guy I would rather have a girl who doesnt say "wow im so fat" and "im so ugly" and "let me get some more makeup and sparkles" and "lets spend 4 hours in front of a mirror".

but for some reason I think guys find this ATTRACTIVE?
true??

or would you rather have a girl who doesnt care what people think about her, doesnt mind the fact that her hair is messy, and wants to act boyish every once in a while.

or is that a turn off?!

ah, im confused! help!

2006-12-11 13:17:57 · 29 answers · asked by lala89 3 in Singles & Dating

ok there is tis reallly nice hott girl at my skool i liked her since the first day and i cant even talk to her i even wrote her a poem so pppl tell me how i can get more comfortable around this woman of my dreams...

2006-12-11 13:17:56 · 6 answers · asked by jimmahtimmah 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend clams he loves but yet when he's around his friends it seems as if i dont exist. I also got hurt a couple of weeks ago and he didn't call to ask was I okay. I told him before about this and he said he'll change but he still didn't. I need to know if I should keep him and see if he starts doin right are I just leave him?!?

2006-12-11 13:17:35 · 13 answers · asked by Kourtnyi R 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-11 13:17:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I,m worrying about xmas. I want it to be good for my kids but the thought of sitting at table with their dad is stressing me!!! He,s gota come over, otherwise he wont give them their presents. He,s told them everything he bought so they REALLY looking forward to seeing him!
I,m thinking of painting a big smile on my face on xmas day( like the joker) so atleast i,ll LOOK happy. And my kids might find it funny.

2006-12-11 13:16:46 · 32 answers · asked by NIcole 1 in Family

my crush likes both me & this other girl, lets call her judy.
well i think he likes judy only by her appearence,
but he likes me personality.

bc to be competely honest, judy doesn`t really talk @ all
& she doesn`t really have that much of an exciting personality.

but she does have the body.
so yeahh. i feel really sad,
i can`t change my appearence.
i`m really happy with how i look :)

ugh i really wish he could see that..

is there anything i can do to make myself feel better?

<3
thank you!

2006-12-11 13:16:37 · 10 answers · asked by Taylor. 5 in Singles & Dating

I like this boy. And he likes this girl that is really mean to me. Im not sure if he likes me too. Any tips on how I could act to help him like me? (I know I cant make a boy like me! Just any tips that might help?) Could you also tell me how to find out if he likes me? (Without walking up to him and asking!)

2006-12-11 13:16:25 · 2 answers · asked by Alicia R 2 in Singles & Dating

my sister sleeps around even with my now x husband she has hurt me deeply how do i forgive and forget when it still hurts so much

2006-12-11 13:16:18 · 20 answers · asked by beatrice 1 in Family

i dont know how 2 tell him

2006-12-11 13:16:15 · 6 answers · asked by lasonga m 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi all. A old X of mine has come back in to my life we been hanging out almost every friday an sometimes in the week. she tolled me i was a good boyfriend an ask about my love life. i tolled her am not seeing anyone. an then said if i was what would i do with the person am dateing. we been hanging on each other. is this just caues we not seen each other in some time. or is a hint at something more.

2006-12-11 13:15:47 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Imagine there is a third sex, one that is attractive to both male and female and is necessary for recreational sex and procreation. What effect would it have on relationships, families and society as a whole?

2006-12-11 13:14:56 · 5 answers · asked by Jack S 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

howw do u kisss
sad thing i dunt know

2006-12-11 13:14:34 · 16 answers · asked by elle 1 in Singles & Dating

Haha My 10 year old brother still wets the bed and my mom and dad make him wear diapers. i made him cry tonight and told him that i was going to tell all of his friends. Isn't he a dumb baby.

2006-12-11 13:14:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family