My boyfriend clams he loves but yet when he's around his friends it seems as if i dont exist. I also got hurt a couple of weeks ago and he didn't call to ask was I okay. I told him before about this and he said he'll change but he still didn't. I need to know if I should keep him and see if he starts doin right are I just leave him?!?
2006-12-11 13:17:35 · 13 answers · asked by Kourtnyi R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you have to start a question with "my so called" anyone, I think that person should be dumped.
2006-12-11 13:31:46 · answer #1 · answered by bellbottombleus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how what he is doing is making you feel. Give it one more chance and that's it. I have been there and done that. If I could do it all over again I would leave at the FIRST time any guy made me feel that bad. It's not worth waiting around and seeing if they will change because they don't. LEAVE HIM NOW! There ARE PLENTY OF FISH IN THE SEA! And believe me, there are! You'll meet someone terrific some day and you won't remember who joe smoe was. But as long as you are worried about him you aren't giving yourself room to find a nicer guy who knows how to treat you right. Also, if you leave and he does care he may change his tune and start try to get you back and treat you better.
2006-12-11 13:37:37 · answer #2 · answered by Andrea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend of eight years does the same thing to me when he's with his friends. I'm invisible and he's having a jolly good time with his buds. I used to threaten him up and down, left and right, and nothing worked. It's one of those things you have to realize that his friends came first before you and he's probably a totally different person around them. You either have to accept him for the way his is (if he's worth it) or just get out for your own sake. I just don't go out with him when he's with his friends unless his friends have girlfriends that I can click with. Always remember, you can't change someone no matter how hard you try.
2006-12-11 13:24:54 · answer #3 · answered by emmie8750 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie you have to remember that boys mature a lot slower then females. Guys like to "show off" for their friends. Even though you told him that he acts like you don't exist he most likely doesn't know. When you are with him with his friends and he starts to act like you don't exist pull him to the side and say that's what I am talking about. If you truly love him you'll stay but don't make an irrational decision and regret it later. Or you can just stop hanging out with him and his friends if you are that uncomfortable.
2006-12-11 13:23:48 · answer #4 · answered by Seriously seeking answers! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a plethora of chemicals in the brain that make you feel happy...similar to eating mass quantities of chocolate.
Romantic love exists very rarely.
I'd say you're probably not in "love" persay, but in "lust"
You seem young. There are plenty of fish in the sea, girly. You've got to know when to say "Next!" (hint hint...that is now.)
2006-12-11 13:23:10 · answer #5 · answered by keepmynameoutchamouth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to him. Guys sometimes have this ego thing they have to get over. Sadly, sometimes they realize it too late. COMMUNICATION IS KEY!!! If he gives you a crap answer after you speak to him then just get out while you still can, it would probably be for the best...
2006-12-11 13:26:57 · answer #6 · answered by January Flower 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk 2 him 1 more time and if he doesnt shape up, then leave him
2006-12-11 13:20:27 · answer #7 · answered by ***KellBell*** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a guy raked me the wrong way I left him.
When I guy caused me to feel doubtful I left him.
2006-12-11 13:20:13 · answer #8 · answered by Laela (Layla) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think that if hes like that and you done told him just leave his a$$
2006-12-11 13:20:10 · answer #9 · answered by tiffany s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah just wait a little then temind him and f ythat doesnt work leave him.
2006-12-11 13:19:59 · answer #10 · answered by yo!!!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋