why are most girls so girly? do guys seriously like that?!?

Question

i mean if I was a guy I would rather have a girl who doesnt say "wow im so fat" and "im so ugly" and "let me get some more makeup and sparkles" and "lets spend 4 hours in front of a mirror".

but for some reason I think guys find this ATTRACTIVE?
true??

or would you rather have a girl who doesnt care what people think about her, doesnt mind the fact that her hair is messy, and wants to act boyish every once in a while.

or is that a turn off?!

ah, im confused! help!

Answer 1

oh SHUT UP,vay vay! you are drop-dead georgeous,babe!!!! dont be like those girls who get all the attention!!!
they only get the desparate guys. who wants that??
besides, i was talking to "J" yesterday and he said girls dont need to do all that stuff for us!! i will bet savi looks pretty w/o all that make up.

another day, i was in science and JH and i were talking a/b dirtbikes. he said, "yeah, i did the chicks who ride."


so THERE!!
<3 ya

Answer 2

I like a girl who wants to look good for me, but doesn't care about spending 4 hours in front of the mirror just so all heads will spin. It's good to have a girl with confidence that she doesn't have to go around always impressing.

Girls acting boyish now and then makes things a lot of fun. But there is a limit, cause we want a feminine girl not a game buddy. I like em' in the middle. Not too girly and not to tomboyish.

Answer 3

As a guy i more enjoy a female that will allow me to take care of her sometimes, even if she is an independent type of girl, allow me to hold you when your scared, take care of you when your sick, stand up for you when someone is talking **** about you. That is what most guys like from a gurly girl, we can do with out some of the "wow im so fat", but we do like a girl who trys to look good for us, but it doesn't have to take four hours. You know when your ready. Little things if she tries shows us you are really trying to impress us and you must really want to impress us. Shows us how much you care. I might sound contradictive, but yeah we would like it if you don't care what other people think about you all the time, if thats ur style and your confident with it you will look sexy. If a guy is really into you trust me he'll think your the hottest when you are just in your sweats, but when you go the extra mile he'll love you.

Answer 4

I think it just depends on the guy. Guys who don't like, as you call boyish, do not like strong minded women and guy like that are a turn off for me, cause they are shallow. I like men who appreciate my mind first, then my looks. I have had no problem attracting men of all ages, 18 - 55 +. I feel it has to do with my personality but maybe my looks get them first, been told my messy hair is sexy. I don't really care what people think of me.

Answer 5

A tomboy, you basically reported why. Even a tomboy may well be lovable, yet not enthusiastic approximately cuteness while she feels to, so relationship a tomboy i'm getting a woman who's relaxing, who keeps up with me as an equivalent, yet after activities, seeing some soccer on television and stuff, she's waiting for a date, beautiful and in demand as ever. i might get a chum, a lover and a girl chum rolled in one individual. With a girly-severe manteinance woman i might desire to have the sweetheart and the lady chum, yet i might omit the complicity

Answer 6

Girls will always be girls. Being girly has its advantages and I'm sure guys like that. I feel that girls should look presentable thus applying make-up is encouraged. Won't you feel proud when someone comes to you and say you've got a pretty girlfriend? Stop being confused and read more on the likes and dislikes of girls. Am sure, you'll agree with most said.

Answer 7

No guys like girls who are girly in the sense that they like girls stuff, not junior high girl stuff. I don't want a manish girl who sais," Did you smell that? That came from the bean dip I ate the other day." Your examples of what it means to be girly are messed up. You could stereotype masculine girls in a bad way as well. Choosing a girly girl over a manish girl..... I go with girly girl. The only guys who like masculiine/aggressive girls are real timid guys. Then you just have a relationship where she dominates him. The guys eventually turns bitter toward the girl and the girl eventually wants the guy to be a man.

Answer 8

There is a kind of girl for every kind of guy...

My boyfriend and i laugh at the girls with the orange fake tans, fake nails, chunky highlights, Jeanskirt and Uggs. And we also laugh at the guys with the gelled spiky hair, italian wannabes, clubber, and fake tan.

But look, those are the types of girls they are attracted to and same goes for the opposite.

There are so many different tastes that people have that there is someone for everyone!!

Answer 9

Well, im kind of both! Being a girly girl does not mean your insecure either. You have your facts wrong. IIt all depends on the guy.. some will tell u that they like girly girls and some will tell you they like tom boy ish girls

Answer 10

I want a girl that is somewhere in between, but closer to not caring so much. The only thing some guys might find attractive about girls who act the way you described is that they seem ditsy and might be easy to get into bed. Personally, I don't want to have sex with a girl just to have sex with her, there's got to be more there and to her than that. I think girls would have better things to do in life than to waste it grooming themselves silly. I certainly don't like having them waste my time waiting for them to finish.

Answer 11

all boys have differnt taste. i myself am not a true girly girl, yes i do think im fat, no im really truely not, i play sports, i shop at nice clothing stores, as for my hair, i couldnt care less, and i found a guy who doesnt mind what i wear, ifim wearing makeup (which i dont wear) and all that nonsense. a boy needs to like the girl for who she is, and once you find that boy, thats it. just be yourself and sooner or later, a boy will come.