I bought his X-mas gifts before our separation, should I give them to him or take them back? What is morally the right thing to do? Help quick!
2006-12-11 13:21:59 · 10 answers · asked by Amy C2 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give it to him and let him know it's strictly platonic. My sister has been divorced for two years and sends her ex a gift. They have a son though and it's their way of letting him know they can still e friendly.
2006-12-11 13:26:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain and give the gifts--make sure he doesn't get the wrong message, but no harm can come from a gift
2006-12-11 13:25:29 · answer #2 · answered by johnnydean86 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its best avoid meeting up. Giving a present may construed the wrong message. Give the present to someone else. Merry Christmas.
2006-12-11 13:26:26 · answer #3 · answered by SingGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on why you are seperated and if you hope to get back together. If you still care for him and want to give him a gift, you should.
2006-12-11 13:26:52 · answer #4 · answered by Lachelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MORALLY? I don't think MORALS (or a set of values) have anything to do with it. Do you want to give him the gifts? Or is he a son of a ***** who did you wrong? I think you know the answer.
2006-12-11 13:25:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There must be a reason you are separated. Take them back and spend the money on yourself!
2006-12-11 13:25:22 · answer #6 · answered by maddiesmom982001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would return them unless you are trying to get back together?! Even then, take them back. Christmas is still awhile off... If he left you...heck no! I am assuming he did or there wouldn't even be this question.
2006-12-11 13:26:04 · answer #7 · answered by mich 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still love him then I would give them to him. If you don't love him then don't lead him on by giving him gifts.
2006-12-11 13:24:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it to him. It would make u look like the bigger person. He will pbly never use it or even like it, but it would make a big statement about u.
2006-12-11 13:24:34 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take them back and if you reconcile buy him something for Valentines
2006-12-11 13:26:35 · answer #10 · answered by TBAR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋