Family & Relationships - 11 December 2006

My friends tell me that I should let him go cause its best for the both of us! ButI really really dont know what to do....Please help!!
AKA Just be a best friend and try not to have
~Despreate Girl~

2006-12-11 13:47:15 · 22 answers · asked by dewthedude7 1 in Friends

2006-12-11 13:47:09 · 22 answers · asked by brownbeads 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it okay to caress my turtle at night! Im in love with him and i like to show him affection. Please dont call me a sicko i just love animals.

2006-12-11 13:46:47 · 8 answers · asked by PASSIONS 2 in Singles & Dating

I like one of my close guy friends. Well, he keeps telling me that 2 of my friends he met, he thinks theyre hot. Well, he keeps calling me, bugging me. But my friend seems to think that he's trying to get my attention. He called me recently and we're play fighting for around 30 minutes to and hour. Have any opinions?

2006-12-11 13:45:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 13:45:46 · 5 answers · asked by drewfranklin4 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-11 13:45:15 · 10 answers · asked by nkirshman 2 in Singles & Dating

My bf has been married and divorced. Sometimes he says he wants to marry me after a couple of years together but then sometimes he tells people he never wants to get married again at all.I don't know what to believe. I would marry him. He knows that. I have never thought about getting married to anyone before.

2006-12-11 13:44:56 · 5 answers · asked by slvrcss 1 in Marriage & Divorce

About 3 months ago I hooked up with this guy I knew for one night. But, we kept talking for another month until we decided to start a relationship (which has been going great for 2 months now)

However, The other night at dinner he told me that during the month we were talking (before our relationip officially started) he slept with another girl. He said that it was a mistake and he felt absolutely nothing for her.

I'm not sure how to react. Should I feel hurt even though we weren't technically in a relationshp?

2006-12-11 13:44:37 · 6 answers · asked by biscuit 2 in Singles & Dating

Last june i have had the biggest crush ever on Miley Cyrus im 3yrs and 1 day older than her,it is normal to have a crush for so long?

2006-12-11 13:43:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

of woman hood? Why is it so hard for a simple man like myself to understand where they are coming from? Did I miss a class in college?

2006-12-11 13:43:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girl for 1.5 years told me to hit the road but I think she talks too much to her friends about men and took their advice on this one. I have met them and they always seem bitter. Our problem was my work schedule. I have a demanding job that has required 10-12 hour days (some at home too) so I am sometimes a little frazzled. It won't always be this way, and that's why I work so hard. She has more free time than me and seems to always want entertainment. now it turned into a "you can't commit" thing with her. I know a lot of it is coming from her friends. we haven't spoken in 3 weeks since she dumped this on me. What is she thinking about now, or expecting me to do? (I know there will be some cute comments and I do have a sense of humor so bring it on. lol). Thanks.

2006-12-11 13:42:57 · 17 answers · asked by keepingitgoing 2 in Singles & Dating

The sister had a crush on me for years and now wants to see me and I'm not sure how to feel about it. She's very attractive and nice, but i hated her sister (which is why i dumped her).

2006-12-11 13:42:26 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 13:42:25 · 9 answers · asked by doin2much 1 in Singles & Dating

This one girl, who's shy almost always has a girl friend with her. i have trouble already trying to ask her if we should walk to the train together alone, but I dont want to embarass her in front of her friend. I need a way (I really dont want to tell her friend to off) to get my girl with me. (I dont really know her and we talked a couple of times)

2006-12-11 13:42:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 13:41:34 · 9 answers · asked by jmla 1 in Friends

I know I'm straight (I love one of my guy friends) and I know I'm not lesbian because I've never been attracted to a woman and the thought of me kissing another woman or doing anything sexual with them makes me unhappy to say the least but when I see something on tv or hear something or read something thats like two women having sex makes me like...exctited. Is this normal? Because I'm 100% sure I'm not homosexual but I don't know why that makes me excited. Is it normal?

2006-12-11 13:41:34 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there is this guy who i know for 5 months now and we don't talk that much when i am sad he always asks whats wrong and somethings he wants me to sit by him and talk and in my birthday he actually give me a rose and choclate (my bf didn't do anything) and the whole day he treated me like a princess. i moving to a new school and he didn'tknow and he found on sunday out but he didn't go crazy and and on monday he said he will miss me and he huged me and give me a present. i don't know how i feel about him and i dating someone and i really don't how he feels about me because all my guy friends do that and one kissed me and now i am clueless

2006-12-11 13:40:59 · 5 answers · asked by believerchick 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 13:40:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I was married to a wounderful man for 5 yrs. till I messed up.We got a divorce. 2 years ago we got back together,not married just living together. Now he wants a "time out"to see where his head is at he says.What does this mean and how can I do this when I know in my heart we belong together.Someone please help me to understand what he wants and why.

2006-12-11 13:40:13 · 22 answers · asked by ekhkygirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He Only said nice things like God bless you,etc..besides that he was NEVER fresh.One day i asked him ,if he has kids, said yes and that was divorced.I said me too, he got so happy,grab my hand, kissed it and said he was going to be my b/f and i was going to be his wife.I only smiled.He invite me to dinner,i said i was going to let him know.After that, i didn't see him for 3 weeks,he said you missed me right ?i didn't respond,we just talked a lot.He said well, u know what i want,what he told me when we grabbed my hand.Wasn't he to fast??He have called twice, and i wasn't home,,and now why he hasn't call ????????? I want to see him ,or hear him.what do u htink ????????

2006-12-11 13:39:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 13:39:08 · 18 answers · asked by panda16_4life 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 13:38:28 · 5 answers · asked by fantasticgirl 4 in Singles & Dating

I feel really mean because im 1. a snob and 2.a favorite picker,
my mom died when I was 2 and ive had a step mom since I was 4, I really love her, but we argue every day, I used to do alot of small things for her, ( when I was 7) like make little cards for her or pickup pretty leaves, and now since ive grown out of that I try to show her that I don't want any other mom but her, but I don't think its that clear,...I feel so bad, ive tried everything, but somehow I always do something to provoke an argument.

2006-12-11 13:38:24 · 12 answers · asked by Cheshire-grins 2 in Family

My boyfriend sometimes get insecure about our relationship. I tell him he's sexy/handsome and there is no other man I want. But he is always saying that he doesn't deserve me or I'm too pretty to be with him, that I can do better than him. I'm trying to get him to understand that I don't care about the other guys thats trying to holla at me, all I care and all I want is him. How can I make him realize this?

2006-12-11 13:37:21 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

should i get my ex boyfriend to go out wit me again?

2006-12-11 13:37:13 · 5 answers · asked by lol 2 in Singles & Dating

She gets out on December 20th, she'll be fine except for some broken bones that have to heal. Most likely we'll end up getting back together, but what are some good ideas to get her for Christmas?

2006-12-11 13:37:01 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-11 13:36:43 · 2 answers · asked by roxy133 1 in Singles & Dating

i love this guy but he is about to get married and we were friends for the pats 8 years first we were just friends but leater i fell in love with him and one day after we met he said that he likes me so i though that he really loves me now but when i told him that i love him he said that we are just friends so if any one can help me please i need the answer very soon .

2006-12-11 13:36:36 · 16 answers · asked by nargis 2 in Singles & Dating

I just broke up with my BF of 4 months 2 days ago. I've been suffering big time. The first day I was crying all over the place. Thing is, he's everything I want in a bf and long-term partner, but I haven't consistantly felt that "ease and flow"/Natural chemistry/passion and intense physical attraction. He's cute but I just don't feel "it", whatever it is. Did I break up too early with him before finding out? I think after 4 months I should know by now or that natural chemistry would have kicked in but I'm starting to second guess myself and If I'm going to get back with him - the sooner the better I guess, right? But what if it never kicks in and I end up breaking it off again and hurting him yet again? It kills me to hurt him again, but if we work out and the passion/chemistry comes than thats a great reward. I miss him so much. He would lay his life down for me. Do I just need to get over this phase and stick to my decision or get back with him and see if "it" kicks in? Thank you :)

2006-12-11 13:36:31 · 7 answers · asked by Violet Wisdom 2 in Singles & Dating

Guys, when you stare at a girl when walking pass her, do you think she's pretty?

What are the reasons why a guy might contantly look at a girl, like being able to pick herout of a crowd, and make eye contact with her...then when the girl looks at him, he doesn't look away?
When you walk pass her and stare at her, what would be the main reason? What if the girl was an acquantance, a total stranger, or a person you see once in a while around school? (Boogers don't count) I don't think he's staring at me cause of my looks because I don't think I'm pretty at all. We made eye contact three times before. The first and second time, he looked at me first, and the third time, I looked at him first, then he looked at me for one second, then looked away. Why do you think he looked away this time?

2006-12-11 13:36:21 · 5 answers · asked by asdfjkl; 1 in Singles & Dating