i love this guy but he is about to get married and we were friends for the pats 8 years first we were just friends but leater i fell in love with him and one day after we met he said that he likes me so i though that he really loves me now but when i told him that i love him he said that we are just friends so if any one can help me please i need the answer very soon .
2006-12-11 13:36:36 · 16 answers · asked by nargis 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
LET HIM GO!!!!
If he is getting married, he can no longer be yours to persue.
Remember the friendship you and he shared and move on with your life.
He wasn't meant for you to be with, or else he would be.
2006-12-11 13:39:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would get over him and accept his frienship. He's about to get married and even told you he wants to be just friends. You can't control his feelings. Let him know you accept his decision and if he can reccomend any cute friends. As his friend he will set you up with a nice guy. Try to move on, you'll only keep in the pain the longer you dwell and think about him in a way you won't have him. There is someone for you, your soul mate out there. you'll find him soon enough - good luck!
2006-12-11 21:39:53 · answer #2 · answered by Violet Wisdom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is something that can make + destroy us. since he doesn't see you in the way you see him, it's just a waste of time. I've liked someone once sooo much, but he never had the same feelings for me, and I said to myself, what am I doing here wasting my time? You have a long road ahead of you and you'll get someone that will want you! love you! Patience is what is needed. So same goes for you, you want to fall in love with someone who will fall right back in love with you.
2006-12-11 21:41:19 · answer #3 · answered by Princess P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's got wedding jitters. No one getws married because they don't want to. There's always an option. Sometimes you can't have the one you want; all you can have is a friendship.
But sometimes, that friendship is much better than a relationship.
2006-12-11 21:38:48 · answer #4 · answered by Wonderpants 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
All you can do is be a good friend, if you really love him, then you would want him to be happy.
Just be a good friend, and do your best, it hurts but the pain will go away with time.
2006-12-11 21:41:12 · answer #5 · answered by Engel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am sorry but i think the window is gone at least for him he moved on he is getting married watch that movie with julie roberts my best friends wedding. just friends mean just friends
2006-12-11 21:40:22 · answer #6 · answered by nelle5217 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think maybe he's not really sure his feeling to you.maybe he told you that he like you so mmuch because of your 8 years friendship.But it's not too late to get him coz he's not married yet..so,do your best
good luck
2006-12-11 21:39:49 · answer #7 · answered by 'popcornz' 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he said he just wanted friendship. that's going to have to be the answer. you can't force him to love you. so, let him go and be happy. don't bother him anymore.
2006-12-11 21:41:44 · answer #8 · answered by tahoegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is he getting married if he loved you? If he still marries her, you need to forget about him or you will be miserable.
2006-12-11 21:38:47 · answer #9 · answered by Xuxu8765548034567680 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
iunoo grl i think you should just let him go.he's gettin married soon i think you sound like a nice person and you should try to find someone who fits you....:)
2006-12-11 21:43:24 · answer #10 · answered by AnjelBaby:(- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋