2006-12-11 13:40:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You are not being ture to yourself.You're to busy being a people pleaser and people do not respond well to this.It is impossible to make "everyone" like you.Try to be more honest.
2006-12-11 13:55:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I now realize that you MUST find the balance between making everyone else happy and being happy yourself. Do what is good for you w/out being selfish, and do what is good for others w/out being a sucker. Never ever let people misuse your graciousness, but remember: when your intent is to make someone happy and you succeed the point is they are happy, whether they appreciate it or not---you did what you intended to do.
2006-12-11 21:47:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sincerely I have to answer NO, because I really don't make people happy just so they can appreciate me, I try to make people happy because doing so MAKES ME FEEL HAPPY.
Give happiness to others without expecting a thing- and life will be much better for you. ;-)
2006-12-11 22:14:14 · answer #3 · answered by Taz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make anyone happy. That is up to them as an individual. That would be why your efforts are in vain. You would need to figure out why it is so important to you to try to please everyone. Try a 12 step program for codependency. They do work.
2006-12-11 23:56:55 · answer #4 · answered by Rita T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to feel that way until I stopped doing everything for them.
2006-12-11 21:45:55 · answer #5 · answered by azngurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, i feel bad but i dont let them see i was.
2006-12-11 21:44:52 · answer #6 · answered by totallylost 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋