Family & Relationships - 11 December 2006

what do u think about forbidin love ? =\

2006-12-11 14:08:45 · 7 answers · asked by valor 1 in Singles & Dating

He will tell my son he will be at school programs, birthdays, etc. then fails to show. My son is 7, we live 1 1/2 hours away from the dad, my son is then crushed when he does not show. He will say there isn't the money, then will have a new high priced gadget the next time we are there. This past summer, he missed my son's birthday and then when we went to see him, he told my son he had a present for him, and then never gave it to him. His mom (father's) will send stuff for my son to him and my son never sees it. I could care less about the items, but my son is excited to know his grandma thinks of him and then is hurt when there is nothing there. I am tired of covering for his father, and do not know how to hold him accountable for his lack of being there.
Note: I am remarried and have a wonderful husband that treats my son like his own. He has raised him and been his Dad since he was 6 months old. It breaks both of our hearts to see my son hurting when his father fails to show.

2006-12-11 14:08:34 · 12 answers · asked by mlhartke792000 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

With a two siblings already and their mother was committed with another man.

2006-12-11 14:08:18 · 11 answers · asked by franky pau 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Or how many are with somebody and want to get away for the holidays??

2006-12-11 14:08:07 · 8 answers · asked by 800 bound 5 in Singles & Dating

The real reason behind your divorce? He told her it was because I cheated "twice" that he knew of. Not true! He is the one who cheated, and he is also addicted to porn, to the point where he would talk dirty to women in chat rooms and look at naked women, oblivious to the kids standing behind him watching.. When I confronted him he called the kids little liars to their faces. He would also leave the kids home alone for hours (the oldest was 10) while I was working the evening shift. Would you tell her the truth or would you let her find out on her own? To add fuel to the fire, this woman got in my daughters face calling her nasty names and told her ,if you think you are still daddys little girl, you got another thing coming. Should I let her find out the hard way. or drop the bomb on her?

2006-12-11 14:08:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I really like this girl in school. She is in all of my classes and i see her everyday. She is what you would call "popular". I am not really that good friends with her friends, but all of her friends know i like her. I try to talk to her and become friends with her, but i always seem to have trouble saying the right stuff to her and often just make myself look retarded. I've talked to her online about asking her out, but she said we were just "friends". I like her too much to give up on her, what do you think i could/should do?

2006-12-11 14:07:37 · 1 answers · asked by K-Deeznuts 4 in Singles & Dating

I am in love with my husband, but at the same time I am in love with a friend from high school. And as always it seems my friend feels the same way.

2006-12-11 14:07:16 · 16 answers · asked by FyrTygrr 1 in Marriage & Divorce

o there is this girl @ school who was cutting herself and she hurt another girl cuz she was carring the razor blade with her and she tryed t take it from her and got a really deep cut on her finger... so i got really worried that she was going to go farther then just cutting her self so i told my teacher and she had the girl was was cutting herself get some help but now a couple of the girls friends r pist pff and want the kick whos ever *** told on her and im afraid that they r going to find out that it was me but im really good friends with the girl but my teacher told me that i did the right thing...what do u think??? plz help...

2006-12-11 14:06:58 · 41 answers · asked by b93cheerbear 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Cause thats how I feel. And many people these days do some sick ****! Some are even Bisexual or Homosexual. In my opinion these are discusting lifestyles. I'm just not into it. To me sex just seems outright nasty. I don't hate gay or Bisexual people, but I hate their lifestyle. It just seems like the world revolves around sex , money and fame. I would prefer to be the guy that nobody has ever heard of. I hate it. I prefer to be alone. Many say this isn't normal. But I don't see it that way.

2006-12-11 14:06:42 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Sounds weird, I know, but anyone have any romantic ideas for spending time with someone in a truck? For reasons, we cannot really go out in public, but we do like to hang out in his pick-up truck for hours. I thought about bringing my laptop and making our own little drive-in. We listen to music. We can't hang out on the tailgate because it's winter! What fun things can we do together while alone in the truck, BESIDES sex?!

2006-12-11 14:05:58 · 10 answers · asked by pfwqjkhk 2 in Singles & Dating

she has some class with you (to someone else) , and really emphasizes it

does it mean she likes you?

2006-12-11 14:05:43 · 4 answers · asked by Nick723 3 in Singles & Dating

so this guy i dated a couple of times about 2mths ago,just called me out of the blue and left a message asking me to call him to meet up again.Id tried to contact him a few weeks ago but he never replied and now says sorry and that he was busy. I still think about him all the time cos i like him a lot, should i call him back or is he just jerking me around?

2006-12-11 14:05:30 · 6 answers · asked by ella 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 14:04:47 · 14 answers · asked by kathleen c 1 in Singles & Dating

ok well um my friend told my parents that i was having an affair with my teacher just because we are really good friends like just friends and i am really smart in his class.

should i stay friends with her or just move to another school!

plus me and my teacher are just really great friends nothing like that!

2006-12-11 14:04:21 · 16 answers · asked by lxitachixuchihaxl 1 in Friends

My mom divorce my dad (her choice) last summer. She still feels she should be included when there is a gathering at my home with his family. It is awkward for me, my father and other relatives. She doesn't understand this and feels I am being mean by not including her in every function. Yet, she never brings it up when it is an event with just her that my dad wasn't included. I always host Christmas and my kids birthdays, those three times everyone is invited at the same time. Why does she feel there needs to be more than that. If she wants to maintain contact with my aunts, uncles and cousins she needs to do it on her own. Not with me as the go-between. Any suggestions, as she is simply mad at me right now?!

2006-12-11 14:03:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

would you ask out a girl you merely flirt with? or would you wait to really get to know her?

2006-12-11 14:03:40 · 19 answers · asked by confused 2 in Singles & Dating

There is this boy in my class that i like he says he doesnt like me do u think he likes me

2006-12-11 14:02:44 · 17 answers · asked by brownsuagr569 2 in Singles & Dating

i really like this boy and i'm trying to convice him in a note that we sahoud go out. i have to give it to him toomrow but im stuck help me please

2006-12-11 14:01:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well what would you say if you thought you were in love but parents couldn't stand him and you started to think hes to old 6 years older then me what do i do

2006-12-11 14:01:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We are really good friends, but not the kind to do anything physical together. What can I do to get this? I just want a little contact.

2006-12-11 14:00:59 · 15 answers · asked by joshatgrace 2 in Singles & Dating

I really want to send my girlfriend flowers at work, but she works at a restaurant (a sit down place like applebee's or chilli's) and I didnt know if it would be strange to send them to a restaurant or not....

Has anyone that has ever worked at a restaurant recieved flowers there? Was it awkward or sweet??? Thanks for your opinions...

2006-12-11 14:00:18 · 10 answers · asked by circlecirclesquare 1 in Singles & Dating

i like this boy and he is mean 2 me and i asked him y he said he is mean 2 all this friends. i hav 2 classes w/ him band it the longest. he i older then me wat should i do

2006-12-11 14:00:13 · 5 answers · asked by in luv 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 13:59:15 · 9 answers · asked by Denise G 2 in Singles & Dating

Both girls and guys answers are appreciated .

2006-12-11 13:59:04 · 11 answers · asked by marine522 2 in Singles & Dating

14, kept in contact for a couple of years, then you confront her when she gives you the cold shoulder. After, you have confronted her about it, she deknyes it, and then she keeps avoiding you. What or how would you feel?

2006-12-11 13:59:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

There is this guy who I really like. He said he is not ready for a relationship right now but I really want one with him. We are what you call dateing. I think Im the only one he is seeing at the moment though. So here is the thing. I have tried to show him that I have feelings for him but he never notices them or he acts like he dont. I rub his back for him and i try to do little simple things to show him I feel for him. When we make love we look each othrer in the eyes. But sometimes it seems like he is not really there. He made the coment once that something did not feel right but we did it any way. Im so sweet to him. I care for him. I offer to babysit his kids so he can rest. Is there any thing I can do to really get him to realize I have feelings and want more. What is going on here???

2006-12-11 13:58:41 · 19 answers · asked by lady bug 2 in Singles & Dating

for me)She never liked me but it has gotten worse since july when i married "her" husband.Now its almost unbearable.They share joint custody but Matt always has to call sue and ask her permission for me to do anything with his son(example taking him shopping alone or attending a school fuction)If she says no than no it is.Once i sent a note to the teacher about homework and she found out and sent a letter to the school board saying i am to have NO contact with HER SONS school.The worst part is matt will not back me on any of these issues. He does not want to make any waves with her so he just goes along with whatever she wants.We spend almost everynight fighting over this and he will not see my side(he has told me to just accept it or he will leave me,period)Should i just back off and allow her and matt to do all the things with thier son like b-day/x-mas/school functions and i just stay out of the picture?Please i would like to here from others in blended families on what to do

2006-12-11 13:58:30 · 7 answers · asked by valmakey0768 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

how do i get over him. its so hard. and it seems impossible. and please no stupid remarks.

2006-12-11 13:58:14 · 7 answers · asked by jessicacd91 2 in Singles & Dating

If you guys dont know my situation by now read all questions! My Wife called me today and she is thinking about taking me back! Im happy but she said the only way she would is if I got rid of the other females! I guess thats fair, but I dont want to get rid of them. Im trying to figure out what I should do. I really want all of them and I cant let my 18 year old money maker go. Things would be so much easier if they all could get along. Im gonna try to get them to all come to a compromise! Do I have a chance? Oh let me tell you guys something funny, I just got home from work right!I was at the office and there was like nobody there and the little janitor girl comes in, she was about like 20, she saw me and was shocked because usually nobodys there so she asked me"do u want me to leave, i'll come back" I told her to stay and to come sit by me it was so funny, I banged her in my office and left. She looked scared at first but I told her a bunch of lies and she gave it up. She was good

2006-12-11 13:57:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I mean, JUST friends, not friends with priveleges or women you secretly want to have sex with so you pretend to be friends with them. I ask because I recently met a man I would like to be friends with, he's really cool and intellectual, but I can't tell if he is interested in more (and I'm married so I won't give more). Is it possible for us to be friends?

2006-12-11 13:57:27 · 8 answers · asked by advicemom 4 in Other - Family & Relationships