We are really good friends, but not the kind to do anything physical together. What can I do to get this? I just want a little contact.
2006-12-11 14:00:59 · 15 answers · asked by joshatgrace 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, here's some advice...don't go for your good friends. Breakups will only end in bitterness and a lost friendship.
Let her make the first move. You could always show her your softer side, or a side of you she hasn't seen, I mean a good one of course, that could help as well.
It also depends on the type of contact you want.
Just think it over, and think what would be best for your friendship.
Hope this helps!
2006-12-11 14:11:43 · answer #1 · answered by chistoso13 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My opinion is that you befriend her. But a lot of times this does not end well, so u have to play it just right. Befriend her in the way that u treat her a little differently than the way u do your other friends that are girls. Make her be unsure whether u really want to befriend her, or if u have a crush on her. This will most likely make her want to talk to u more and hang out with you more just to find out, and it will spark a little interest in you.
2006-12-11 22:09:23 · answer #2 · answered by velda 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2006-12-11 22:04:20 · answer #3 · answered by Meep, the Kind Wolf 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well...since you are already her friend then you you should know what she likes so start there. Although most times if you have been friends with her for a while it may be too late. What I mean by that is that you may already be stuck in the "friend zone". If that is your case....it won't matter what you do....she will only look at you like a very close brotherly type friend.
2006-12-11 22:04:34 · answer #4 · answered by Pinkie_&_the_Brain 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is what it is......so back off, pal! Sounds like she is not into you like you want her to be. Sorry, but you have to play by her rules.......or you won't even have her as a "good friend".
2006-12-11 22:05:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Booze.
2006-12-11 22:01:51 · answer #6 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can't just get a girl to like you your going to have to get to know her better.
2006-12-11 22:04:14 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Natasha♥ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have no idea. I am a girl and sometimes, I don't even understand "girl language", but "guy language" is even harder to decipher.
2006-12-11 22:03:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
make a gentleman's move and let her know. Say something funny like I know you want me and when you let me know you can have me.....just be yourself and let her know......you'll be fine!!
2006-12-11 22:03:07 · answer #9 · answered by danny_austin4 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow u are me man im puttin this question on watch........good luck
2006-12-11 22:03:19 · answer #10 · answered by Nunzzz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋