The real reason behind your divorce? He told her it was because I cheated "twice" that he knew of. Not true! He is the one who cheated, and he is also addicted to porn, to the point where he would talk dirty to women in chat rooms and look at naked women, oblivious to the kids standing behind him watching.. When I confronted him he called the kids little liars to their faces. He would also leave the kids home alone for hours (the oldest was 10) while I was working the evening shift. Would you tell her the truth or would you let her find out on her own? To add fuel to the fire, this woman got in my daughters face calling her nasty names and told her ,if you think you are still daddys little girl, you got another thing coming. Should I let her find out the hard way. or drop the bomb on her?
2006-12-11 14:08:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
had she not told your young daughter the thing she told her i would say tell her and sve her some grief.but since she stole a bit on innocense from a young child i say let her find her own way,she does not deserve a break when she is capable of hurting a child like this,that child lost something that day that she will never get back ,so screw the b_t_h....!!!
2006-12-11 17:15:55 · answer #1 · answered by looken4answers 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's likely not to believe you if you do tell her. However, if you can give her real proof, it would get the skank out of your kids' lives quickly.
Maybe you can win all around; let the two of them have each other and find a way to get sole custody.
2006-12-11 22:26:04 · answer #2 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she asks, I'd tell her like it is. Would she believe it? Probally not, people have a way of believing what they want. But, sooner or later she will find out for herself....just like you did. But the truth will prevail in the end.
2006-12-11 22:14:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like the two of them deserve each other. Pick up the pieces and find something better. You are going to be happier in your next relationship because you will be more careful in your choice.
2006-12-11 22:24:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This woman has been abusive to your daughter. Why are you even letting your children spend time with her? Tell her the truth. Hopefully, she'll dump the jerk, and your kids won't be abused by the byatch.
2006-12-11 22:14:38 · answer #5 · answered by LSD 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I was going to tell you to tell her the truth until you mentioned what she did to your daughter. Let the low class B learn on her own.
2006-12-11 22:11:12 · answer #6 · answered by mich 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Let her find out on her own... then sit back and smile knowing that they are miserable. Thats all either one of them deserve !! And btw.. If I were you, I'd put a stop to that stupid c*nt talking to my daughter that way !
2006-12-11 22:22:20 · answer #7 · answered by jenny 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She will see soon enough. Leave her alone and just take care of the kids. Then she will probably want to call you and cry to you about how bad he was.
2006-12-11 22:14:00 · answer #8 · answered by tim b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off their "relationship" is not your business. What he does or does not tell her regardless of if they are lies or not again are not your business. Your ONLY business is your children and the only thing you should confront her on is getting in your little girls face. Let her find out for herself because believe it or not people do change.
2006-12-11 22:16:57 · answer #9 · answered by texas_angel_wattitude 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Since she has been nasty to your daughter - you do not owe her the truth. Just wish her luck with her "great catch" hahahaha!
2006-12-11 22:14:12 · answer #10 · answered by easternvesper 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋