I am in love with my husband, but at the same time I am in love with a friend from high school. And as always it seems my friend feels the same way.
2006-12-11 14:07:16 · 16 answers · asked by FyrTygrr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I could name at least fifty songs right now that says it is very possible to be in love with two people at the same time. My advice to you would be to listen to a country song called Strawberry Wine. After you have listened to this song you will understand what I'm telling you. Be sure that you are in love with this guy from the past and not just the past itself.Sometimes when life starts getting dull we tend to try and revisit the past to make our selves feel better, Don't throw away your future if it is the past you love and not the guy himself. Good Luck.
2006-12-11 14:21:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe it is possible to love two people at the same time, however, acting on those feelings when you're married will only cause pain and complications for everyone involved. Once you've made a commitment to your husband, I feel you are bound by that commitment. It's a complicated situation, with no easy answer. Do the right thing, and you won't have any regrets down the road. Love yourself, and you will not put yourself in an unhealthy relationship. Good luck!
2006-12-11 14:15:53 · answer #2 · answered by wild_angel_greeneyes_f44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible to love a lot of people at the same time. You can't help who you fall in love with, but you can help how you handle it. Trying to stay friends with the other man is not the best idea...
2006-12-11 14:26:07 · answer #3 · answered by hokiegirlvt79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO doubt about it.Although you say you are in love with Hubby but are you really? You seem that you might be MORE in love with this friend . I know a little about this. You might live with hubby and make love to him but all the time you are thinking and having a fantasy with your other friend. I am in that boat now and its rather shaky now. You have to make up your mind where you need to be and it better be quick. Time is wastin for you. You either divorce and go with friend or just stay in limbo with hubby.
2006-12-11 14:21:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is possible. You have already made a choice though. You need to think about that. How you would feel if your husband was having thoughts about you and some old flame. Your loyalties lie with your husband.
2006-12-11 14:16:52 · answer #5 · answered by easternvesper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a question that is asked by both men and women. Some people will give you different answers on this topic.
I say it is, but my wife says no. I have been there and done that, that is why I am giving you my opinion. If a person has never been there or done that, then they cannot actually give you a honest answer. They will give you their opinion just like some other people.
I hope that you have a Happy Holiday Season.
2006-12-11 14:15:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay with your hubby if u really love him, looking outside the marriage for something u already have is foolish, and can put your marriage in jeprody. once one crosses the line, and cheats, it can never be taken back, can't be faithful to two at the same time, someone always gets hurt, someone always ends up witha broken heart. be careful if you have already found love, as love is fragile, and can't withstand someone else in the marriage. guard what u value, and think it out before u do something that may have consequences u can't handle.
2006-12-11 14:14:20 · answer #7 · answered by jude 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You love people for many different reasons and you can fall in love over and over again But you chose your husband, made a commitment and promised to be faithful. Only you are responsable for your moral and ethics I hope you chose to be a woman and live up to your promises
2006-12-11 14:47:34 · answer #8 · answered by pokey's gumby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is possible to love 2 people at the same time but u need to ask yourself this?.......why is that im even looking for someone else if im really in love with the 1st one bc if he/she made u happy u wouldnt be out looking for someone else to love nor take there place just rember a heart wont lie so apparently you really dont love 1 of them right
2006-12-11 14:15:00 · answer #9 · answered by angel j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to figure out if you want to stay married or not. You need to make your mind up soon. This problem will give you a heartattack. It happened to me. You can only love one. So make up your mind and let the other one go. It will be hard to answer. Remember this, Who makes you feel special? Maybe it's your husband that's why you married him.........
2006-12-11 14:14:53 · answer #10 · answered by resa 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋