Family & Relationships - 11 December 2006

Self explanitory.

2006-12-11 14:32:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm white and my first love was black...I have dated white guys since we broke up, but I'm seriously attracted to black guys...Just interested! lol

2006-12-11 14:32:55 · 10 answers · asked by *ladybug* 3 in Singles & Dating

But I didn't find that out directly from him. I found out from his co-worker. I feel bad about not asking him directly and ask his co-worker instead without his knowledge because he may not like that I know that he is engaged because maybe that is not my business to know... what do you think of it? Do you think he would be upset that I know about that he is engaged?

2006-12-11 14:32:28 · 28 answers · asked by Raines 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend never wll surprise me, he never will go out of his way to make me feel good. Is there anyways that i can drop him some hints that i want him to be more of a romantic?

2006-12-11 14:32:10 · 8 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband has had an addiction to ponography since very young. He states that he has greatly improved - from 4 to 5 times a day to once a month. I found out about his addiction after we got married. I not too long ago found out that on one of his most recent business trips, he masturbated while looking at ponography on the Internet. I asked him why he masturbated. He told me that the women turn him on.
I am experiencing a wide array of emotions including: confusion, anger, sexual frustration, sadness, shock, etc. I love my husband very much; however, his addiction really bothers me. I have told him that it hurts me a great deal, also him and our marriage whenever he looks at other naked females on the Internet and masturbates. I have also told him to get help and talk to his accountability partner. He stated that he would get help but has not yet.
I have also asked him why he masturbates to other naked women on the Internet. His answer is that I am not there.
Help!!!!

2006-12-11 14:32:07 · 22 answers · asked by Help! 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well there is this GORGEOUS girl and i want to show her how much i am in love with her. I would like to play/sing her a song for her tomorrow explaining how i feel about her. it needs to be a current song that shows how i love her and want her bad. she is into hiphop, pop, pretty much any newer or WELL known songs.

2006-12-11 14:31:52 · 6 answers · asked by eli b 2 in Singles & Dating

on one hand,You have one a person who your heart absolutly melts for,and in the other hand you have a perosn that melts for you. which would you choose? My grandmother always said,"you should always choose the one that loves you more one that you love, its always better for them to love you more."
So what happens to the one that your heart beats for, repress them? Ignore it? forget it?

2006-12-11 14:31:51 · 5 answers · asked by chula1 2 in Singles & Dating

I was so in love with one of my best friends and recently he told me that he liked one of our mutual friends. I was crushed but as he didn't know I liked him, we were still friends like normal and I even managed to keep my hopes high. Then recently our friend found out that he liked her, and now she likes him back too.

Well basically it's a matter of time that they start going out and everything. I don't regret not telling him because if I had, I'd look like such a fool now.

He's such a good friend to me and he makes me so so happy. I can't get my mind off him or the fact that now he's involved with someone else. But don't get me wrong, I'm glad he's found someone to make him happy. I just wish it was me, you know?

Any advice or thoughts on how I should handle this?

2006-12-11 14:31:30 · 10 answers · asked by La 3 in Singles & Dating

Well its been like a week scince this been happening, the phone conversations been gettting really boring and i try to talk about stuff, but it ends up just hearing each other breathe, i want to get off the phone but i dont, but like whats the point if your not even talking??? i mean im comfortable kind of, but i dont want to feel stupid at the same time, but what can i do to make it more funner? plz help me if that made any sense!!!

2006-12-11 14:31:00 · 11 answers · asked by teekapeek 2 in Singles & Dating

I am always hard! even after I have sex with my girlfriend, my wife, and who ever else, it gets right back up. Its embarassing cause I can be out in public and it likes strart rising. I try to have sex alot so that way after I c u m it will stay down for a while but it goes right back up. I mean what do I say to the doctor "my d i c k gets hard to much" I mean this is no excuse for my infedility and cheating on females but it has to be a problem. Is this normal, maybe im just in my sexual prime at 24!

2006-12-11 14:30:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok i kinda like this guy and he is cute and i used to love him which was like, 1 month ago and now i just like him, he is cute but he is kinda weird, i am a 12 year old girl and he is a 11 year old boy, he is from this place and he has a very funky last name he has freckles, brown hair and loves hockey, i am described as, a girl with dark brown hair i have the cutest nose but im not talking about me right know, so back to him, he makes me laugh but i like him on and off, what should i do?

2006-12-11 14:30:09 · 6 answers · asked by destiny101 1 in Singles & Dating

I am friends with this guy he is really sweet, and we have tons in common. He flirts, hugs and is sooo Hot ; I've grown to like this guy.... and He tends to be a bit of a player I have a feeling that I am getting the wrong message. But i have no idea should i just continue to be "just" friends or go the extra step?

2006-12-11 14:29:37 · 6 answers · asked by Califguard16 2 in Singles & Dating

this is PATRICIA not jason im using his account for now. (im his sis)
ok back to the point im not attracted AT ALL to white guys! i like black guys im 14 and im pretty white which is weird because my brother is tan and im puerto rican.
why dont i like white guys i just find darker guys so cute! IM 14 REMEMBER IM A GIRL!. ON MY BROS ACCOUNT PEOPLE!

but why am i attracted to them?also what race are you and what race do you prefer

2006-12-11 14:29:14 · 10 answers · asked by jason m 1 in Friends

I'm trying to find an engagement ring that looks like the legacy ring but i want a price that isnt worth a house. Thanks

2006-12-11 14:28:42 · 3 answers · asked by cherub98902 1 in Weddings

A close friend of mine is the oldest of 5 kids. She's 25, and I'm 27 and met in college a number of years ago. I'm really considering asking her to marry me, but how do I get her parents alone with all her younger siblings in the house? I want to be able to ask her parents if I could marry their daughter, her oldest brother already suspects. Should I ask her parents to come to a nice restaurant, or somewhere else?

2006-12-11 14:28:36 · 15 answers · asked by MattyBoomBatty_98 2 in Marriage & Divorce

okai! he stares at u when ur not looking but u know it..when walking pass u he gives u a smile and stares at the floor pretending not to look at u..when people talk about u to him sometimes he get all funny and sometime he tells people to stop talking about u..u try to ignore him just to see howd he react and he notice that uve become distant. Me, i'd give him a slap behind his head and tell him to make up his mind but what would U guys do? eh????

2006-12-11 14:27:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

No sympathy talk, please. I don't want to hear that there are small girls for me, because I know that. I simply am disappointed about the fact that I'm forced to a limited selection because of my height. People say I'm smart and funny, but it hurts me to know that I can't always show off those qualities because my height (which is oh so important for first impressions) is 3in below the national average.

So my question is to all the ladies, short and tall. Could you please state your height and say whether the fact that I'm 5'7" would be a major concern for you in both a relationship situation and a one-night stand situation.

I'd also get into the size of my member, which is slightly shorter than average, but equally thicker than average, but I'd like to keep this more civilized than that. Besides, this question is really about initial impressions of a 5'7" guy, not how you'd feel in bed.

2006-12-11 14:27:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For nerdy, bookworm types. What should I do?

2006-12-11 14:26:39 · 21 answers · asked by L♥G 5 in Singles & Dating

Mine is losing the one person I really loved.

2006-12-11 14:26:30 · 12 answers · asked by *ladybug* 3 in Singles & Dating

ive been datin this guy 4 bout 7/8 mths n i dunno if he really likes me or not. he always kisses me n everything, but yeah. so over the summer, we practically lived 2gether, but now we dont get 2 c each other that much cus we're both busy most of the time. he sed things would b different if we weren't so busy, but i already surprised him 4 his bday 2 wks ago, but i wanna visit him @ work cus he works alone in a building. i just wanna surprise him n keep him company 4 a lil bit. should i visit him or not, cus i dont wanna make him think im psycho or nething.

2006-12-11 14:25:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 14:25:12 · 9 answers · asked by fantasticgirl 4 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 15 yrs now and we have been through hell together. Everything about our relationship works great but the sex. I thought it was because I lost 120lbs and he was intimidated by that;he does have a slight erection problem but he says he adores me and wants me still but what do I do in the mean time.Any advice would be great I do love him very much and I am just scared I guess.

2006-12-11 14:25:04 · 8 answers · asked by grama 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He wanted a baby after 2 months into a quicky marriage. I really don't know if I love him anymore.

2006-12-11 14:24:54 · 3 answers · asked by Wally 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-11 14:23:58 · 13 answers · asked by ellehcor 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-11 14:23:30 · 1 answers · asked by leigha w 1 in Singles & Dating

well one of my good friend(girl) broke up with her ex-boyfriend earlier this fall. but she is totally not over him. but i really like her and want to ask her out what should i do? she really likes him..

2006-12-11 14:22:33 · 3 answers · asked by Tyler 2 in Singles & Dating

I want to purchase a home in florida but I am separated from my husband. Will he still need to sign the deed since we are not divorced

2006-12-11 14:22:30 · 6 answers · asked by skeeweeburns 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 months. Because we live close and are both night owls we started to hang out at night (Nothing sexual)Well we got caught sneaking out to hang one night and ever since that time his mother has been on my case. Calling me a bad influence and such.never the less, his mom “banned” him from seeing me.(we attend the same HS and have the same Colleges classes )(early college edu.) We refused to do that, and instead pretended like we broke up. Eventually his mom found out and called his dad (who btw has not been in his life since he was 4 but now all of a sudden wants to be a “father”). His dad has been telling him I am trash etc and to dump me. My boyfriend refused and so his family is threatening to put a restraining order on me simply because they do not like mme simply because they do not like me dating their son. I am at a lost on what to do.(Last night, his father tackled him and slapped him across the face because he told him he loved me)

2006-12-11 14:21:45 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I understand it is human nature to love and want to be loved. But I think it goes farther then that. I think we feel our lives will not be complete if we don't love and or marry by a certain time or age. This pressure puts so many people into relationships that are not good for them. Why can't we just enjoy life, our personal lives and enjoy time spent with a lover or a friend and not expect it to turn into a relationship? I have made that mistake twice in my life and I still can't understand why I feel the need to make every encounter a relationship. Just by reading some of the question on here, "I love this guy/girl and I don't know how to tell them, what do I do? "I am suffering because the girl/guy I like doesn't like me back?" "He hasn't asked me to marry him yet, should I keep waiting?"
The list goes on and on. The pain is real, I can hear it in every question as I too have felt that pain. Yet we do it all over again.

2006-12-11 14:21:23 · 17 answers · asked by megabites42 3 in Singles & Dating

I asked a guy out (he said yes), and we made arrangements to get together for lunch on Friday...Is this still considered a date?

2006-12-11 14:20:58 · 19 answers · asked by Steph L 4 in Singles & Dating