Well its been like a week scince this been happening, the phone conversations been gettting really boring and i try to talk about stuff, but it ends up just hearing each other breathe, i want to get off the phone but i dont, but like whats the point if your not even talking??? i mean im comfortable kind of, but i dont want to feel stupid at the same time, but what can i do to make it more funner? plz help me if that made any sense!!!
2006-12-11 14:31:00 · 11 answers · asked by teekapeek 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it seems your next phone conversation should be over wut you just told us
2006-12-11 14:33:15 · answer #1 · answered by bdjones_78 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can still call him a lot, just dont talk for a long time. I had this problem too... where it seemed almost frusterating on the phone cuz you had no idea what to talk about anymore. Talk about your day, what you wanna do the next time you hang out, talk about how much you like him, talk about some gossip (we all enjoy that lol) or talk about things youd when you were little, and b4 it gets awkward and youve covered your daily discussion tell him youve gotta go eat or something and youll call him later to say goodnight but thats IT, nothing more than goodnight (dont say that of course, thats harsh lol) Im still doing that with my guy and i find it so much better.
2006-12-11 14:36:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are many books out there on the art of conversation. The problem with most people is they tell the other person what they did today and than the other person tells them what they did. That's not really conversation. Conversation is the exchange of ideas. A good starting point is to be well read ... read the newspaper and know what's going on in the world. If you don't take this step your whole life is going to be boring.
2006-12-11 14:40:00 · answer #3 · answered by Sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just come up with weird questions and make him answer them if you're really that bored. You can learn more about him that way... questions like, would you rather? Which do you like better? And give him two choices. Hard choices, so that way he has to talk about his answer. Or tell him some funny stories about when you were little, or talk about cartoons you used to love, any of that... he should be able to keep the conversation going with his childhood and favorites....
2006-12-11 14:35:05 · answer #4 · answered by F.J. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know the feeling...I do it myself a lot, some days there is more to talk about, just tell him what you think...it works, trust me I know
2006-12-11 14:41:46 · answer #5 · answered by Jimbo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that u should stop talking on the phone cuz it gets boring... be honest. cuz if he asks u if u bore him and u say "yes" thats just gonna make things worse than just telling him he bores u.
2006-12-11 14:35:49 · answer #6 · answered by ryanisalifestyle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound silly and immature. Being on the phone when there is nothing to talk about is like going to the bathroom when you don't have to pee. Grow up and get a life.
2006-12-11 14:35:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
Call once a week or leave him now
2006-12-11 14:32:55 · answer #8 · answered by pirateron 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its time to "hang up" once and for all on this guy. No pun intended...
2006-12-11 14:33:39 · answer #9 · answered by Chuck J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
meet once in a while..... you should like him physically first then only the relationship will stay.
2006-12-11 14:39:02 · answer #10 · answered by P S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to each other in person?
2006-12-11 14:33:34 · answer #11 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋