2006-12-11 14:23:58 · 13 answers · asked by ellehcor 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My first thought was to tell you that you shouldn't have jumped into your marriage until you were sure it was right for you. But seeing as to how there's no use crying over spilled perfume........ You should be honest with your spouse and tell them how you feel. No one will be happy in a loveless marriage.It's probably better to end it sooner than later. Just don't be a yo-yo, make up your mind and don't keep everyone confused.
2006-12-11 14:29:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with yourself life is to short to be stuck in a relationship you know won't work. If you can so easily fall for someone else then it's time to have a talk with your partner and make a hard decision. In the end being truthful will be good for all concerned. Maybe your partner is feeling the same way too.
2006-12-11 22:30:38 · answer #2 · answered by Wally 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, I don't know from your name/profile if your a man or woman, but from reading your past questions, sounds like you're a woman.
First thing you need to do is seperate yourself from both for a time. Take a trip by yourself, maybe just 1 night in a hotel by yourself, or even better take a friend who knows about the situation (or one who will be non-judgemental about the situation) that you can bounce ideas off of and get unbiased answers from. Think about your future. Can you see your spouse in it clearly? Can you see the other one clearly? Don't let your emotions paint a rose colored future with the other one or vice versa, be truthfully honest, brutally honest with yourself about this.
Next, after this time of reflection, if you decide to stay with your spouse and lose the other, well, that's up to your own conscious to tell them or not. If you decide to stay with the other one, you NEED to tell your spouse, they deserve to know.
2006-12-11 22:38:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you regret getting married? I think you owe it to your spouse to give it a shot before getting a divorce. If you and your spouse try to work out your issues and there can be no resolution, fine...but don't just throw in the towel because the grass looks greener...
2006-12-11 22:28:32 · answer #4 · answered by hokiegirlvt79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on people...stop doing this. You married her because you lovesher right..so when there is problem go work it out!!! no need to be confused just sit down and talk and see where is the root of the problem and solved it.
Make sure, be sure and ensure that divorce is the last option...
2006-12-11 22:28:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you regret getting married...then tell your wife that you are not happy and you want a divorce...so you can be with the other person_
2006-12-11 22:26:01 · answer #6 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY did you get married in the first place?
2006-12-11 22:25:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY DID U BOTHER TO MARRY HER SHAME ON YOU GET OUT OF HER LIFE NOW U CHEATING DOG SOUND LIKE U ARE NOT READY FOR A RELATIONSHIP THE OTHER WOMAN IS STUPID SHE NEED'S TO GET RID OF U QUICK LIKE YESTERDAY
2006-12-11 22:30:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
before you do anything, think about the reason you married her. and see if anyone eles could ever make you happier. so from there its all up to you.
hope it all gose well
2006-12-11 22:33:50 · answer #9 · answered by bria<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's crappy for your spouse, but if you think you would cheat, leave. There is no reason for more hearts to get broken
2006-12-11 22:29:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋