2006-12-11 14:04:47 · 14 answers · asked by kathleen c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because you're obsessed with him.
been there, done that.
one way to cure the obsession, ask.
Ask him.
"Do you really love me?"
Just like that.
yes/no will determine the outcome and your fate.
If he says yes well there you go, a match made in heaven!
If he says "no", and you choose to still be obsessed with him and love him after he told you "no", it' s on you girl.
2006-12-11 14:08:31 · answer #1 · answered by bun223 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's simple. When you aren't sure that it's reciprocal, it's a crush. I know you think it's not, but when you love someone....I mean really love them.....to the point that you are able to see them throw up and help them clean it. I know that sounds gross, but that's when real loves comes into play. It's not when you both look cute and are watching a movie. It's the yucky times when you know you really love someone or they love you. Love isn't just developed with you thinking you know someone. You both like each other first and then get to know the real person and then love comes in. When I was in high school I would pine and profess my love (to my diary) about this guy I was in love with. He didn't give a crap about me. That's not love babe, it's a crush. Find out if he is interested and if not, move the hell on!!!
2006-12-11 14:12:05 · answer #2 · answered by emd1121 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should write down in words on a piece of paper your definition of love. Then you will know exactly what your talking about. Sometimes, you can just be really attracted to someone. Think about them all the time, Want to be with them so bad. That's not love, that's plain old desire.
Love comes with time. When you really get to know someone. If he likes you, you will know with the only true test, time.
2006-12-11 14:08:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. the style you write your digital mail you're even answering your human being question. you're saying you both dont love one yet another and also you reported he requested you to have sex with him. Why ought to you waste a even as, be pals yet take it too a techniques.
2016-11-30 11:21:47 · answer #4 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's simple: our desire `to' love is greater than `to be' loved. Does he love you? Find out. If he doesn't, stuff him. When you exude love the universe has no choice but to return it to you, and often 10 fold. Don't worry my dear. As long as you have love in YOUR heart, you'll be fine. That's a promise!
2006-12-11 14:08:25 · answer #5 · answered by Voldi G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You love him because its chemistry, you are probably made for each other thats why you are attracted to him. Its very scientific but we look at it in a very emotional way. Its part of growing up and its part of being adolescent.
2006-12-11 14:14:07 · answer #6 · answered by P S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always want what we think we cant have. You may not be "in love" with him. Might just really want him to pay you some more attention.
2006-12-11 14:09:21 · answer #7 · answered by SOLO KING 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl I'm in a similar situation. I wish I knew the answer to.
2006-12-11 14:09:13 · answer #8 · answered by lady bug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't control who loves who first, and I'm sure you'd like to tell him, but you gotta know it mutual, cuz how do you feel about someone when they tell you they love you and you don't love them....? but mens feelings are so unclear, so who knows maybe he love you too---just take your time
2006-12-11 14:08:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with what your heart says if you know you love him you do and if you dont you dont if you really love him he probly loves you back
2006-12-11 14:08:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋