I know I'm straight (I love one of my guy friends) and I know I'm not lesbian because I've never been attracted to a woman and the thought of me kissing another woman or doing anything sexual with them makes me unhappy to say the least but when I see something on tv or hear something or read something thats like two women having sex makes me like...exctited. Is this normal? Because I'm 100% sure I'm not homosexual but I don't know why that makes me excited. Is it normal?
2006-12-11 13:41:34 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sure its normal and it doesn't mean you're lesbian. Anything sexaul at all can stir you up but unless you actually want to participate no worries. Its kind of like, well this isn't the best example, getting all riled up about how cool it would be to be a movie star when in all honesty you would never seriously want to be. But it is still exciting to hear or dream about. Like I said not the best example but that is the best example that I can think up off the cuff. Seriously though don't worry, completetly normal you are.
2006-12-11 13:47:50 · answer #1 · answered by perfectlypreppy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's normal. Have you heard of the Kinsey scale. It rates heterosexuality(check it out). Explore your sexuality don't lump yourself into a societal view that renders anyone outside of a certain sexual "norm" a deviant. Remember, its only wrong if it interferes with your daily life. Explore a bit, have some fun, you might find out its right up your alley. I think you may have some bi-sexual leanings and I hope you explore it before it's too late. There's nothing worse than missed opportunity. So, in conclusion there is nothing wrong about these feelings, you are very normal.
2006-12-11 22:02:10 · answer #2 · answered by manbearpig 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are excited the same way,when you see a man and a woman having sex,or you read something about it,then you are okay.
2006-12-11 21:45:21 · answer #3 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is normal. Many women experience this. I think it is because the female form has become so sexualized these days by the media.
2006-12-11 21:43:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A psychological study was done in which they attached things "down there" to both men and women, and then had them watch three types of pornographic films. The things they attached read level of excitement.
Men were generally aroused during most guy/girl, a bit less during girl/girl, and least during guy/guy.
Women were aroused equally during all of them!
So, it's normal. No worries. :-)
2006-12-11 21:45:01 · answer #5 · answered by Esma 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They say girls tend to be attracted to other girls just because.. but being attracted to girls ONLY is different, when you feel disgusted when it comes to a relationship with a guy(except little girls, litle girls hate little boys and also the other way around!) then you are a homosexual, but you like boys right! You're a GIRL!~^-^ yay~ <3
2006-12-11 21:47:35 · answer #6 · answered by ♥クロミ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the presentation of the scene that makes it glamorous. When you put a hot chick flowing with coolness as she lights a cigarette, you feel like smoking too. But once you light up you start coughing and having bad taste in your mouth.
2006-12-11 21:44:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is normal. It is the thought of sex that arouses you not the gender doing the sexual act .It is like whan you watch 2 ugly people doing it .You are not attracted to them. just the thought of pleasure.
2006-12-11 21:43:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My opinion, We as rational animals seen by science
We are so advance humans that we can be what we want to be or do. But we are able to control our behavior? let say they advertise cigarette- that makes you feel you want to smoke it? or you see chocolate do you want to have chocolate.
So there is no right or wrong answer but what kind of life you want to live.
We do thing in life just to see how it feels but sometime we get caught up in that experience that we can get out.
A good example, is lying, have you ever try lying to someone else.
What happened? did you continued lying to that person?
Our mind works with chemical activities so any visual or smell stimulation we all humans would get arouse- so is controlling the
sensation-is what keeps us human and not animals. just learn how to love thyself before loving others.
2006-12-11 22:03:53 · answer #9 · answered by ed c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are lots of things that are exciting about sex. And just because it tickles, dosen't mean you are homosexual, then again it dosent mean you are heterosexual either.
And it is comepletly normal to respond to what excites you. Maybe its just the "taboo" thing. Who knows.
Try a three way.
2006-12-11 21:45:56 · answer #10 · answered by sterlingentertainmentgroup 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋