my crush likes both me & this other girl, lets call her judy.
well i think he likes judy only by her appearence,
but he likes me personality.
bc to be competely honest, judy doesn`t really talk @ all
& she doesn`t really have that much of an exciting personality.
but she does have the body.
so yeahh. i feel really sad,
i can`t change my appearence.
i`m really happy with how i look :)
ugh i really wish he could see that..
is there anything i can do to make myself feel better?
<3
thank you!
2006-12-11 13:16:37 · 10 answers · asked by Taylor. 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
awwww. you sound really sweet and cute.....I feel your pain, I always tell this to my friends that have the same problem. Never be second to anybody. Never change urself for someone either. If you want someone, they should want u back just as much and they like you for you. When you change urself for someone then ur changing the way you are, the person that you been for a long time. Tell this dude.....do you want to be with me or this girl judy...if he say i dunnno, then tell him....fine..and then move on...find somebody that deserve you. Never be second to anybody!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-11 13:21:33 · answer #1 · answered by aznromeo4ever 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey, don't feel down. Personality will win over looks in the long run every time. So unless you're only looking for a quick relationship, I don't see what your worried about. Even if he does get with this 'Judy' he'll probably get bored and dump her after a while. So yeah, don't stress, and go with the flow. After all, it's most important to believe in yourself and to be yourself. That's what really matters.
2006-12-11 21:23:09 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't blame him for liking Judy. ITs natural to be attracted to what visually stimulates us... we all do it to one degree or another. The important thing is that you said you're happy with how you look! So many of us aren't and some of us hurt ourselves over rotten self images. For instance...I'm a recovering bulemic.
Eventually, your positive attitude WILL pay off. Maybe not with your crush... but don't look at that as your failure. Its his! I'm pretty sure that embracing that fact will definitely help you feel better.
Let him go do whatever stupid thing he's going to do anyway... and keep your eyes open. With your positive attitude and personality, you might be distracted by your crush from realizing that you're someone's crush, too!
2006-12-11 21:24:48 · answer #3 · answered by gooniekim 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Looks mean very little if they guy isn't into your personality. I've been left before by a past boyfriend for the most chubby, ugly girl I've ever seen in my life...But she was more compatible for him than I was. She was willing to have sex right away and would sit around getting completely plastered with him every night. Looking back on it, I'm very glad we broke up when we did. XD
So, yeah, if you're a good match for him he'll see this and pick you.
2006-12-11 21:25:10 · answer #4 · answered by Eri 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself, if it meant to be then something will happen between u 2.
so be ho u r.
it important, if u do that with this guy, u will learn to love who u r without question. why?
b/c we usually try to act different in front of some one we like so if u say what the hell, this is me, take or leave it. i all that self confident with that no one will walk all over you.
be urself, her beauty will fade.
U SEE JENNIFER ANISTON IS VERY BEAUTIFULL AND THAT'S IT. i am not trying to make anyone mad i adore her.
it not all about beauty.
2006-12-11 21:29:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, it's his problem if he chooses beauty over personality. It won't get him far when they're old and gray!
If you like the way you look, keep telling yourself that. Don't let the situation lower your self esteem. You are beautiful. Very beautiful. Keep telling yourself that.
2006-12-11 21:21:17 · answer #6 · answered by ICan'tThinkOfAGoodName 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Looks arent everything. I dumped a dude because he was boring, but he was nice to look at.. just not allot going on upstairs.
I got soooo bored with him, he was eye candy and it got old fast..
He is dating his older cousin now.. they are very happy.
2006-12-11 21:30:08 · answer #7 · answered by Little Bit the Ferret 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry just remember that if he chooses her based on appearance then he's shallow and not worth your turn
2006-12-11 21:22:39 · answer #8 · answered by kat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U R CONTRADICTING URSELF BUT I THINK OF THIS. WHEN IT COMES DOWN TO IT, PERSONALITY REIGNS OVER LOOKS!
2006-12-11 21:22:12 · answer #9 · answered by missbronzebeauty09 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nope sorry. oh maybe.....................................no sorry.
2006-12-11 21:19:09 · answer #10 · answered by dragonfly 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋