Family & Relationships - 11 December 2006

Why have men become so wimpish. They are a bunch of blubbering twits. Where have all the men gone?????

2006-12-11 15:44:25 · 26 answers · asked by JadeNicole 2 in Singles & Dating

my wife cheated and left me for my best friend. now ex best friend. i have a baby girl 6 months old with this women who is making my life hell. I feel men have no rights.

2006-12-11 15:43:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We have been married 20 years and 6 months ago she got caught by my son with a guy from her work kissing.Lying on her bed at her apartment 3 days after she left me unannounced. She had been staying out late and making excuses why she didnt call after work. Then she up and moved out while i was at work. I found out from my son he walked in on them at her apartment .she was seeing a guy she works with While i worked at night. for 6 months we talked,argued and hated each other. Then she came home to try and work it out. My biggest concern is that i am willing to work it out but she wont wear her ring. I want her to let all the guys at her work know she is now back with her husband.She doesnt think that matters to guys but i think it does.Especially now that the guy she works with is going to tell all the other guys he f**** her and she cheated on her husband already. I asked her to wear it and she always has excuses like oh i just put lotion on or i snagged it on the wall at work. HELP!!

2006-12-11 15:43:05 · 16 answers · asked by The Loss of Love 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm Italian and I have a thing for European women and there is'nt many of them in america.
I grew up in America and i love it here, its just I want to find a European girl I can date and the only way i can do that is if I move to Europe.
Sooo...should i move there?

2006-12-11 15:42:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so, I started seeing this guy, like dating sort of. and things were really good and everything was going nicely. he broke up with his old girlfriend of about a year about 2 1/2 monthes ago (they broke up and got back together like 11 times during that year). and this last break up, they ended on really relaly bad terms and then now they're friends again. and they talk al the time. and I don't want to be one of those people who are all "you cant talk to your ex blahblahblahvlah' but I don't know. I really don't know what to think. he's sort of backed off lately. and I don't know what to do because I like him. and he liked me. and now I don't know how to act or if I should talk to him or something. what should I do? what shoudl I say to him?

2006-12-11 15:42:46 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 15:41:48 · 33 answers · asked by Hey Girl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance and I got engaged 4 months after we started dating. Since then I have been dreaming about the BIG day. He says that the reason we haven't taken the big step yet is because he wants to be more financially stable and we can afford it yet. So, is it just me or should I be wondering WHY he ask me so soon, if he wanted to wait SO VERY LONG. Oh and another thing he doesn't like talking about it. What the hell am I suposed to do?

2006-12-11 15:41:43 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My bfr. basically said he doesn't want to commit. I really don't want to stay in this dead end relationship, but I have to go to school for another yr. or so. Do u think it worth it to stay and finish school or should I move back to my parents and go to school there. I'd lose a year but I'd get BSN instead of ASN, again I hate to lose a year. Do u think it worth it?

2006-12-11 15:40:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, there's this guy, and we've been friends since Halloween or so, but I've known him since about 2 years ago.
He was dating my best friend, Nikki, and they broke up a few days ago. When they were dating, when I was still at that school, he would sit with her and his friends, and she would sit with me and some more of our friends. He would face the other direction from her and talk to his friends, and only turn this way to look at me.
I told one of his friends that I like him, and he said "I'm dating Nikki."
He didn't give a yes or no.

We got to talking last night, and we talked about music, smoking, friends, love, drugs, etc.
I was like "We should hang out sometime."
He said "sure, tuesday[tomorrow]"
He told me that he might be going to his friend's house, and he might not be able to make it, so he gave me his number.
I said after that "psht you should come over to smoke with me."
He said "okay i'll sneak out, where do you live?"
I told him, but he didn't end up coming over.

2006-12-11 15:39:09 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I started talkin to a guy and my friend knew him since high school well they hooked up and she messed up with him. He now wants me and I need to know if its okay to date him.

2006-12-11 15:38:11 · 23 answers · asked by Jennifer D 1 in Friends

This teacher looks at me like he wants to kill me. This other teacher looks at m eand smiles a lot.

2006-12-11 15:37:52 · 4 answers · asked by deni2darri 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What kind of girls are good with guys, if she exists?

2006-12-11 15:37:40 · 6 answers · asked by DN 2 in Singles & Dating

what's something special i can do for my boyfriend.. he's 17 and i just wanna do something kinda hot for him and i don't know what.. anyone feel free to give me ideas, guys too! that would help! thanks!

2006-12-11 15:37:25 · 1 answers · asked by Janelle 1 in Singles & Dating

What kind of guy is good with girls, if he exists?

2006-12-11 15:36:58 · 18 answers · asked by DN 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is depressed and worried and stressed from work and BILLS! what can i do to cheer him up?

2006-12-11 15:36:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

weve been together 8 years and just found out he cheated on me with my friend I babysat for for 2 years, he didnt wear a condom. Then everyone comes and tells me about like 4 other women, two being mother and daughter (daughter 15!) Then my 15 year old sister and my best friend tell me he hit on them! He only admits to the first one the rest he has an excuse for (just flirting) he calls it! But I have a gut feeling its all true. He seems truly sorry and has been REALLY kissing the ground I walk on! But I wander if its just cause he got caught?! The only reason I'm considering staying is cause I do still love him and we have 2 kids together. Every day I feel different it hurts SO bad and I dont know if I can get past it! HELP!

2006-12-11 15:36:26 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He knows I like him, but he's danced around the subject. I suspect he likes me too, but I think the age difference scares him a bit(17 years). How can I talk to him about this? We've become really good friends and we have a lot in common, we talk everyday. I just wish I could get him to talk about it.

2006-12-11 15:36:14 · 16 answers · asked by L♥G 5 in Singles & Dating

OK look i was going out this girl named karli right but i broke up with her today then she keeps telling me plz give me another chance but i want to go out with her friend kristen and we like each other a lot it jst every time one of us is single the other one is dating some one. so today i broke up with karli and then kristen said she was going to break up with her bf louie but then louie asked her if she wanted to kiss him which go me pissed off and then kristen said maybe then she is e-amiling my friend saying she dosnt have a chance with me becuase i am with some one but now that a broke up with karli she tells me to get back with her. then she says we will never be able to go out becuase u are always with some one. come on what the F@#$ is that. i need ur help plz

2006-12-11 15:35:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 15:35:39 · 6 answers · asked by babygirl 1 in Singles & Dating

How do girl like the guys to be. Really nice or act like men and pull back our shoulders and walk with attitude. How do you know when you can ask out a girl that you like?

2006-12-11 15:35:21 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like watching it with my boyfriend and HIM ONLY i dont find it intersting when im watching it alone!...Only problem is i dont like him watching it or viewing it on the net when he is alone it makes me feel he is more into that than into ME! what should i do? should i quit all together or what? please HELP

2006-12-11 15:34:11 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Would she have to adopt her back from me? Or, could I sign some type of guardianship paper giving her custody? In the end, I want to have NO legal responsibility for the child. It would be like reversing the adoption I suppose. We are trying to get this done with the minimum of expense.
Thank you all for any advice offered.
L

2006-12-11 15:34:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Are we approaching a period where there will be no difference between men and women except for genitals and beasts?

I mean men are becoming more sensitive (especially those raised by single women), lasering body hair, getting hair transplants, getting botox etc.. Educated men are also more into raising kids than ecucated women in many cases (or at least equally as interested).

Most women are becoming more athletic (female athletic sporting records are regularly broken), more career oriented, less inclined to cook, more aggressive, more demanding etc...

I understand equality of sexes, but are we approaching a time when there will be just one sex for all intents and purposes?

2006-12-11 15:33:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He tell me he does, he takes time on me, were so apart together he's somewhere eles im somewhere eles, i love him alot its hard he far aways waht should i do?

2006-12-11 15:33:51 · 9 answers · asked by Mary N 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We've been together for 2 yrs. Recently I brought up the marriage subject. His reaction was "I am not ready, my business is not doing well, I can't give u what I want to". Is he making excuses, since he didn't have nothing when he got married for the first time with his ex.
Do you really have to feel secure to get married.

2006-12-11 15:33:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

if a guy tries everything to make a girl laugh does he like her? he even goes as far as taking her things and pulling her desk towards him.

2006-12-11 15:33:41 · 7 answers · asked by confused 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay, my fiance really wants to get married in Vegas. I'm okay with that. He wants to do it at the drive-thru ... that I'm not sure about.

My question is, when should we do this? Our best friends (who we want to come with us) are still in college, so we can choose between their Easter break and their Christmas break.

So. If you were getting married in Vegas, would you do it in April? Or in December?

We're okay with any kind of temperature and things like that. It doesn't actually matter which season we get married in. We just don't know Vegas ... which time will there be fewer people? Which time will there be better hotel rates? Etc.

So which one is better, and why?

Also, if you live in Las Vegas or got married there ... any tips?

Thanks.

2006-12-11 15:33:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My boyfriend and I are kinda in a rut. How can you spice up a relationship? Get the spark back and make it exciting?? And besides spicing it up, what are some sweet things I can do for him?

2006-12-11 15:33:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My question is my bother and sister in-law lives in the same town, Most of the time they don't have much to do with my mother and step father unless they want some money. my mother said they have given them over 20,000 this year and that was most of the savings. Now my sister in-law is taking care of my step father he has been sick and can't walk very good and has a hard time signing his name, other then that he is in good heath. My mother in ICU and my sister in-law is telling the the hospital that she is my sister and is signing papers work for do test and she even sign to put my mother on life support if she needs it. She would never want to be on life support. Is that legal?

2006-12-11 15:32:40 · 4 answers · asked by lon126 2 in Family

I just started seeing this guy, and we're both indecisive about what to do. What about stuff like ice skating, bowling, etc.? Are they fun or not? Any suggestions?

2006-12-11 15:32:03 · 7 answers · asked by ucd_grad_2005 4 in Singles & Dating