2006-12-11 15:41:48 · 33 answers · asked by Hey Girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Completely depends on the man. My fiancee told me he loved me after about a month. But I had a boyfriend for 9 months that only told me it once, after we had been together for about 8 months.
I personally feel that if he is going to, it will be within the first 6 months. If he doesn't say it by then he either has commitment issues or he probably isn't ever going to love you.
2006-12-11 15:59:33 · answer #1 · answered by Nunya 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the relationship and how well you get along with that certain person if you two bond very well and have alot in common and share alot of things you could love theperson pretty quickly. Also there should be a bond between both of you that you will feel before telling the other one that you love them it doesnt not feel one bit good to tell someone you love them and get rejected or you break up. It has to be the right time!!!
2006-12-11 15:45:33 · answer #2 · answered by Mike P 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as it takes for him to start loving her. I would say a healthy amount of time would be a about a year or a little less than that. No woman wants to hear the big L word, unless he really means it. I promise you, if he's telling you he loves you on day two, he's full of crap.
2006-12-11 15:45:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
about 2 to 3 seconds.
2006-12-11 16:01:39 · answer #4 · answered by Scott G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the guy, and how much he loves her, etc. My fiance told me he loved me about a month after we met and soon after we started dating!! It took me a couple more months to tell him, tho. I had just been badly burned by a guy I was with for 20 years and didn't want to be burned like that again. It has been 18 months since we met, we are living together, are engaged to be married next year, and things are going excellent!
2006-12-11 16:10:24 · answer #5 · answered by honey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the man and the relationship. My boyfriend told me after 2 weeks, and that didn't seem soon enough! We both felt it immediately. Another guy I went out with told me at 1 month, but I didn't feel it, and my ex-husband told me at two weeks, and then proposed a couple minutes later. It just all depends!
2006-12-11 16:14:35 · answer #6 · answered by kameka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've learned in life that everyones love clock is different...some people fall in love at first sight...some take minutes, hours,months, years....it just depends...if you are the woman, just keep being you and eventually, he will tell you if he feels that for you...but beware...some people are the type who don't really "tell" you that they Love you....they do better showing it. Personally, I like the ones who show it because love is what love does...not what it says...ACTION speaks louder than words! :)
2006-12-11 15:45:10 · answer #7 · answered by ~*FreeSoul*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
7 days
2006-12-11 15:43:14 · answer #8 · answered by Medic 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He shouldn't say it if he doesn't. Screwing her isn't love, and dating her- even for a long time, isn't necessarily love. There is no requirement to say it in a relationship. It's used way too casually by kids today.
2006-12-11 15:43:38 · answer #9 · answered by lizardmama 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends if the guy really loves you. and show you he loves you. i've been married and it took a long time for my ex to even say the words. some men it's hard for them because they have been raised different and us women show it more, because we want to show them we love them.
2006-12-11 15:44:38 · answer #10 · answered by cutemay1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋