Family & Relationships - 11 December 2006

My sister-in-law just got divorced. She had been cheating on her husband for 2 years with her current boyfriend. During her seperation from her husband (which lasted about a year after she told him about her affair), she continued to see him. He was cheating on his wife as well. He still hasn't divorced his wife, although he's been promising to do so for over a year.

Luckily, my sister-in-law is beginning to see him for who he really is. She admits that she doesn't really love him anymore and wants him out of her life.

But she has asked her parents if she can bring him over for Christmas. She says that she feels sorry for him, because he has no where to go for the holidays. (He's seperated from his wife, and apparently not welcome there for Christmas!)

2006-12-11 15:32:00 · 9 answers · asked by MountainChick 3 in Marriage & Divorce

have meet a wonderful lady, she professes she loves me dearly, and do believe her, marriage is in the works, yet whenever we go out I have always paid the bill, constantly, and I have told her how much money I have, but she won;t reveal her's, maybe she is broke and ashamed to admit it, I do love her dearly, just want her to be honest,

2006-12-11 15:31:10 · 17 answers · asked by jan_dxtr 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 15:30:40 · 1 answers · asked by Indievoter 2 in Singles & Dating

ok... i was running for track and field training today with some friends, and this guy named kevin who i like and i think is really sweet "accidently" bumped into my chest. he was running, and he was pretty far away, but then he started running closer and closer. i was standing at the finish line. and he came across and bumped into my boob so hard thats its sore, and he smiled. i think he likes me too cause he touches me alot, and smiles and stuff. did he do this on purpose, or was it an accident??? thanks!

2006-12-11 15:30:37 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 15:30:10 · 12 answers · asked by kewtber 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

just looking for some small ideas that wont cost much , but to give them some kind of a nice christmas? even home ade stuff maybe?i am starting out with nothing so some thing had to be better then nothing? i am open to segestions. please help .

2006-12-11 15:29:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

This is a series of questions that I need answered to have an appropriate judgement on a situation. After you answer the following questions, please explain why you chose your answers the way you did. I will average the answers and pick a best from that and also from the best justification.
1) Is it ok for a 24 year old male to date an 18 year old female still in high school?
2) Is it ok for a 30 year old male to date 24 year old female?
3) Is it ok for a 24 year old female to date an 18 year old male still in high school?
4) Is it ok for a 30 year old female to date a 24 year old male?
5) Justify your answer.
6) Are you a male or female?
7) What is your age?

Thanks!

2006-12-11 15:29:14 · 15 answers · asked by thpsguy 3 in Singles & Dating

srry but i know this is random but my friend just said that questiion randomly she wants to know . I guess......

2006-12-11 15:28:50 · 5 answers · asked by _cuteangel562_ 2 in Singles & Dating

or should i just let her eat her pasta by herself

2006-12-11 15:28:06 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so this guy i dated a couple of times about 2mths ago,just called me out of the blue and left a message asking me to call him to meet up again.I had tried to contact him a few weeks ago but he never replied and now says sorry and that he was busy. I still think about him all the time cos i like him a lot, should i call him back or is he just jerking me around?

2006-12-11 15:28:04 · 12 answers · asked by ella 1 in Singles & Dating

but i have a problem. my family is huge. and all of my friends. which are all close to me. help please.

2006-12-11 15:27:47 · 8 answers · asked by avery's mommy 3 in Weddings

I have a drum teacher who I liked for awhile, but the problem was that he is 8 years older than I am (I'm 20). Our relationship has always been somewhat complicated. He used to give mixed signals.

He borrowed one of my drumsets the other day for a performance and I went to go pick it up and I brought a my friend Zac with me to help move it. When we got their, my teacher didn't speak to or acknowledge Zac's presence, but the other people there were talking to him. I finally introduced him to Zac, and he just said hi and then continued doing whatever he was doing. He made it a little awkward for Zac
After moving the set, my teacher made it a point to stand there and talk about when my next lesson was and when he was going to see me and stuff even though he knew when it was.

I couldn't tell whether he was mad because we were a little late (15 minutes -- it would be unlike him to get mad about that) or if he was jealous of Zac...

2006-12-11 15:27:00 · 6 answers · asked by jdrum311 2 in Singles & Dating

I broke up with my boyfriend in august because i was emotionally unready for a relationship (previous BAD relationship) but he was the best thin that ever happened to me. He likes somebody else now but i just cant accept that i threw away the best thing that ever happened to me. HOw do i get him back? PLEASE HELP!

2006-12-11 15:26:58 · 8 answers · asked by Lauren 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend and I have been broken up since March. We have been trying to work on getting back together. She can't even commit to being in an exclusive relationship with me and yet she wants to talk about marriage and kids with me. I don't get it and we also argue over what I wear. When i go out I like to dress up and feel sexy. I go out with my gay guy friends and what I wear is always a problem. I likw to wear sext tops r short skirts, but I never show more than some cleavage. Is this insecurity or is it just plain she has to be in control? Should I just leave her?

2006-12-11 15:26:30 · 4 answers · asked by crazy 1 in Singles & Dating

I've just done 3 years with a girl and it was a nightmare split up and i went through hell... However, a year later i'm about to fall in love for the first time which this new girl at my work. I have a feeling that its not going to work between us (As she is young, flirtacious, good looking, and works in the club industry so she has been dating alot of guys) She even has a boyfriend who she's just about to split with as she's not happy with him. How do i know she wont do the same thing to me? Is it me being paranoid?

2006-12-11 15:26:14 · 5 answers · asked by Limeyb 2 in Singles & Dating

It's not just lust I'm feeling for the other person - I want to know how to stop myself falling harder for this 'other guy.' I feel awful, I'm not cheating physically but emotionally..

2006-12-11 15:26:08 · 10 answers · asked by axix9 3 in Singles & Dating

Guys, when you stare at a girl when walking pass her, do you think she's pretty?

What are the reasons why a guy might contantly look at a girl, like being able to pick herout of a crowd, and make eye contact with her...then when the girl looks at him, he doesn't look away?
When you walk pass her and stare at her, what would be the main reason? What if the girl was an acquantance, a total stranger, or a person you see once in a while around school? (Boogers don't count) I don't think he's staring at me cause of my looks because I don't think I'm pretty at all. We made eye contact three times before. The first and second time, he looked at me first, and the third time, I looked at him first, then he looked at me for one second, then looked away. Why do you think he looked away this time?

2006-12-11 15:25:20 · 5 answers · asked by asdfjkl; 1 in Singles & Dating

So after realizing that I NEED to transfer colleges earlier this semester, I met a really cool guy at work. We became pretty close as friends, but I knew he was kind of a wh*re so I was just fine being one of the guys and occassionally flirting.

But now I' m realizing that he is exactly what I'm looking for in a boyfriend. He's normally an asshole but something is developing: I grabbed his @ss the other day and now he's always around me and blushing and stuff.

The problem is this budding romance has little chance I'm leaving this school on Thurs. and transferring to a school 2 hrs away.
Is there a chance? He means a lot to me and I kind of really want to keep him.

2006-12-11 15:25:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok would you rather date (or hook up) with a guy who is romantic?? and why???

2006-12-11 15:24:52 · 12 answers · asked by ailatan92 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 15:24:31 · 5 answers · asked by Tneciter 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-11 15:24:28 · 9 answers · asked by sheesnhan 2 in Singles & Dating

ok bestfriend love of my life been talkin off and on for 11yrs he was my first have had other relationships but they ani't nothing liek what i feel for him now when i tell him how i feel he says he got trust issuses with me casue i lied in the past it was bout small stuff liek i didn't tell him he was my first lil childish stuff nothing major.do u think he like me or just leadin me on?

2006-12-11 15:23:38 · 5 answers · asked by YOSUGABABY4LIFE 2 in Friends

ther stair at me and smile

2006-12-11 15:23:22 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Pretty, like makes your heart melt and you want to hold her forever and not let anyone hurt her, or hot, like big boobs, dosnt play hard to get...hot?

2006-12-11 15:23:12 · 5 answers · asked by miekaonfire!™[NObama] 4 in Singles & Dating

that I do not want a 1989 Geo Metro, that he found?

2006-12-11 15:22:32 · 15 answers · asked by Foxtrot 2 in Family

There are about 6.6 billion people on Earth and more than half of that number are women. Why is it virturally impossible to find a woman to love? Why is it that at 44 suddenly a man's not worth anything to women? If I were a billionare and a mean person I would have more women in my life telling me how much they "love" me, but as an average guy making good money I'm not a desirable pick.

Why is it that its impossible to find a woman to love in this modern day society?

I expect maybe one good answer out of this question, but I also expect most people who respond will only have something hurtful to say. Oh well, it's the way of Yahoo Answers.

2006-12-11 15:22:26 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am going to move to the south. I am Hawaiian male and I am wondering if the people in the south will accept me to be a part of their family? I am moving their for college. Either in Tennesee or Arkansas. And will the girls in the south like a man thats not white or black? I love southern girls.

2006-12-11 15:22:22 · 11 answers · asked by Go For Broke 3 in Singles & Dating

I got a friend though who is horrible with women. Girls tell him that once the girls mature, they will stop going for the bad boys and start going for him. You women shouldn't say that. It just adds insult to injury. Your basically telling him that he will only be able to get women once they have been all used up by the bad boys. Your also saying that basically you just want the screw every hot guy possible till your tired of sex, and then use him for his money. Now my friend is an engineer with lots of money. I told him to never date a girl who doesnt have at least as much college education as you. Otherwise you risk getting stuck with a golddigger. He said he would take my advice. Sorry golddiggers.

2006-12-11 15:21:20 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We text all day and evening. He hardly calls though. I have known him 2 weeks and we slept together. Should I be concerned if he skips a night and does not say good night?

2006-12-11 15:20:42 · 13 answers · asked by angelsweet 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex and I have been apart for close to 2 months and I have been trying to get back together with her. We broke up because I kissed someone else while we were broke up at an earlier time. During the relationship I did all of these things for her and put myself on the back burner. I took an extra job and more responsibilites in my senior year of college to make things easier for her. I spent most of the money i earned on her, and tried to take her out to eat as often as possible and buy her things. There were times I would come in from work after being on my feet for six straight hours or longer and give her a back of foot rub because she asked. Now she tells me after being apart for almost two months that it isn't worth it, and doesn't want to get back together. I know her ex before me treated her badly, but she stuck with him for a while? Did I go wrong? Should I have not been so willing to give of myself? If I ignore her, might she come back?

2006-12-11 15:19:44 · 18 answers · asked by Jason N 1 in Singles & Dating