We text all day and evening. He hardly calls though. I have known him 2 weeks and we slept together. Should I be concerned if he skips a night and does not say good night?
2006-12-11 15:20:42 · 13 answers · asked by angelsweet 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What do you want to do date him or hog tie him ,,,, And two weeks is hardly enough time to start something intimate with someone you've just met ,,,, You are presenting yourself not only to him but to people on this forum as being really easy ,,,, Don't be surprised if contact eventually starts getting less and less ,,,, Right now the way things are you present no challenge to him at all ,,,, Be prepared for when he decides to move one ,,,, You probably don't have to really worry much longer about how often he makes contact ,,,, You went into over kill with this guy ,,,, They like that for a while but they tire easy and start looking for other challlenges ,,,, It doesn't necessarily have to follow that he feel any loyalty to you just because you put out to him ,,,, You are one in a line is all ,,,, If he had any true feeling or respect for you he wouldn't have agreed to be with you sexually ,,,,, or at least not this quick ,,,,,
2006-12-11 17:03:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are thinking way TOO much. And I dont blame you coz it is quite normal. We call it control. It happens after having an intimate relationship. You now want a little bit of control, a sort of commitment. Relax. Give him some room to breath.He is just probably busy or sick or something!
Then againdon't completely blame yourself for the lapses. Subconciously be aware of his next moves,not to the point of being paranoid but like,he skips more night and is not sweet anymore and calls you just to have sex with you then LET GO! He now has turned into a player and a user and loves your body not your heart.
In the meantime it is still too early to tell let's just hope you are not his one night stand. And stop thinking that you are one. Have some self respect if he is an axxhole then kick him with grace there are more men out there.
2006-12-11 15:31:01 · answer #2 · answered by wolfass 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh this is not good. You slept with him after only 2 weeks and you don't really know how he feels about you.
What ever happened to getting to know a person a lot longer than two weeks before you share yourself with him.
At this point him skipping a night is the least of your worries....I predict he got what he wanted and this "relationship" won't last too much longer.
2006-12-11 15:25:54 · answer #3 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Ignore the jerks who are chastising you for having sex. If he is still communicating through texts, he must still want to see you. Generally, most guys do not have the need or desire to talk as much as girls. I have been with my boyfriend for a year and we do not talk every night. Talking less often makes it more special and I can call him anytime I feel like talking. We are both busy, so it's not unusual to miss a day or two, but we always keep in touch through email.
The only problem with having sex early on is that you may end up regretting it if things do not work out. Otherwise, have fun and do what feels right to you.
2006-12-11 15:31:20 · answer #4 · answered by schweetums 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
U have known him for 2 week and ALREDY SLEPT TOGETHER?
WTF IS WRONG WITH YOU?
now he is blowing you off because he got what he wanted and saw how easy you are and so doesn't want another peice of that you silly sl*t!
Text message is easy, he is probably already with some other girl now!
2006-12-11 15:25:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
take the Initiative and start calling him to make sure he's not trying to avoid you. I've been in your position (except the whole sleeping together issue) and honestly when that happened to me, he drop me. =( i'm not saying it's happening to you, but you always have to make sure for yourself and not from others. =) Then you know if he is trying to avoid you, you'll always find another guy who could make you satisfied because i did and i'm happier. word of advice, don't sleep with someone asap to make them like you because it's only making him think that it's ok to sleep with u and u wouldn't do anything about it.
2006-12-11 15:26:25 · answer #6 · answered by lady hiphop 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
"two weeks and we slept together."
Oh, he will call you. as soon as he needs you.
but first he needs to call his brother, his cousins and his baseball team. to brag. Shame on you.
2 weeks?
2006-12-11 15:28:10 · answer #7 · answered by to tell ya the truth........... 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, sometimes it slips our mind (we suck at remembering stuff)
Matter of fact I need to call my gf...
2006-12-11 15:22:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I think you are reading too much into that. He's probably just busy or tired.
2006-12-11 15:22:22 · answer #9 · answered by Chuck J 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
guys hate calling 0n the ph0ne unless its sex related !! i w0uldnt w0rry ab0ut it at all. im happy with sex and n0 ph0ne calls !!
2006-12-11 15:26:04 · answer #10 · answered by sexypunkgrrrl 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋