I have a questions for the ladies???

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I got a friend though who is horrible with women. Girls tell him that once the girls mature, they will stop going for the bad boys and start going for him. You women shouldn't say that. It just adds insult to injury. Your basically telling him that he will only be able to get women once they have been all used up by the bad boys. Your also saying that basically you just want the screw every hot guy possible till your tired of sex, and then use him for his money. Now my friend is an engineer with lots of money. I told him to never date a girl who doesnt have at least as much college education as you. Otherwise you risk getting stuck with a golddigger. He said he would take my advice. Sorry golddiggers.

Answer 1

So...what's your question?

Answer 2

I always hate this question because it's posted by both males and females. Guys always go for the hot girls who are b*t*hes and girls always go for the hot guys with an edge. If we would just read each others questions we'd be fine! However, you have to understand that both sexes grow out of this. Every girl I know has had a bad boy phase, most have grown out of it. I'm 24, and I grew out of it about a year ago, I now have the best relationship I could hope for with a sweet, amazing man. It's a viscous cycle! Nice boys want bad girls so good girls can only get bad boys and vice versa. People grow up at different times, and start to understand and know themselves at different ages. I was lucky (kind of) to have enough living in my 24 years to realize what I truely wanted. Be patient, your friend will find the right woman when it's his time. College has nothing to do with it, money has nothing to do with it, it's all about knowing yourself and understanding other people. Hope this sheds some light!

Answer 3

I don't know about never even dating a girl who doesn't have as much college as him. I may not have a ton of formal education, nor make a ton of money... but I am and have always been very self sufficient. I have always worked hard, enjoy my career, own my own single family home, and support myself. I dated a guy prior to my husband, who made a nice 6 figure salary, owned two homes and 2 cars. I often balked at him always wanting to pay for everything, and sometimes paid my own way, when I could get away with it. I stopped seeing him to date my now husband, who makes maybe $50K, and had an apartment.
And before you ask, they were same build, same type looks.
My husband just had a better personality, made me laugh, treated me better, and we had more in common. After 6 years, we still may not be rolling in the dough, but we are pretty happy compared to most couples I know. I guess the point is, perhaps he should find out about a girl's values when it comes to finances and work ethic..rather than judge by a simple degree.
Plus, I know people who partied through college and don't even work in their field, nor like it! LOL.

Answer 4

Hmm, whats the question again? You shouldnt be so tough on all women... We are not all looking for the bad-boy... Many of us are in meaningful relationships with ppl that we love. Maybe your friend is going after the wrong type of girls. He will find someone eventually; it just takes time. But if he has an attitute like you, he will never find someone. Just because you have a college eduation doesnt mean you are better than anyone else (that's what you are making it sound like).

Answer 5

so, what was your question? you seem like you are just looking for a bunch of women to lash out against your anger-filled comments...

just so you do know, not that you are actually going to believe/listen to me anyhow....

generally speaking, women really do start to mature & they realize that the bad boys are stupid and are not worth their time. they begin to have different goals in mind-- that being a man who is stable, mature & ready to start a family. with this in mind, that is why the bad boys who have never even gotten past their first year of college become really unattractive (or those who don't make something of their life through other means). it is around this stage of life where the party guys start to be loosers instead of cool because they are not doing anything with their lives. the nerdy guys start to be that much more attractive because they are successful. it is not the money (though it is a plus & there are some girls that do see the money, and i am not talking about them anyhow), but rather the stability provided by having money & a good job. their intentiions of just having a good time change from making their future. usually, this change happens about the time when a woman establishes her own career & realizes she doesn't want to date the losers she had in the past. she doesn't want to support him, but would rather date an equal as far as education & success are concerned....

granted, there are women who ARE gold diggers, but they are pretty obvious!

Answer 6

i'm also 18, and a mom to a 4.5 month old infant. - I breastfeed - which i have been advised is 'revolting' because i'm youthful. - I study at college by corrospondence. - My daughter is positive presented for, my better 0.5 owns his own employer and residential, we actually have 4 autos between us (at the same time with artwork utes) - i go out decrease than women around the following who're 30 and function youthful ones youthful than my daughter i imagine i'm a good mummy, my daughter is chuffed and healthful and that i do not imagine my age might want to play an element in being a mom. Granted, a good type of stripling mum's ARE ineffective, and their own moms finally end up raising their youthful ones - yet human beings ignore about the mummy's like us, youthful, yet doing the purely right pastime we can, and doing it nicely! i'm sorry for this idiotic female and for you, i comprehend how a lot it hurts - you do not favor to educate your self to all people!

Answer 7

Personally I don't think women change who they are attracted to as they get older, more like some priorities change, and probably added responsibilities, but yeah, these girls should not say that to him, because for one it sounds like a cheesy let-down lie, and it's kinda like a mother telling a geeky son that it's their loss if they can't see what a handsome man he is. So either way it's insulting all around and patronizing to boot. But maybe forget the college education and advise him to go with a girl who will treat him with respect. Assuming he treats her the same way of course.

Answer 8

the reason y girls go for the bad guys is cos they think that they may be able to change them, and if they say once they stop going for them, it means they are done with bad guys. im not the type who would go for a bad guy. i would more go for a guy who's sweet, passionate, kind, cute and who shares at least one of my interests. i would never b a golddigger because it's not who i am. i once met this guy who was sweet, passionate, kind and cute, and i liked him because of that. my friend told me that he comes from a rich family, is aboriginal, and his father is president of the ALP, and he's related to Anthony Mundine, but i didnt really care about that. once he stopped being sweet, kind and passionate i stopped liking him. i guess not all girls are the same. they want to go for those bad guys, and like i said, they want to try to change them to do some good. plus, at the same time, could turn them into a different person.

Answer 9

I agree with the part that he shouldn't date girls with at least as much education than he, but only because couples should have the same intelligence levels. Of course even some "smart" girls only date the bad guys just for sex. There are tons of nice, intelligent gals out there, is he just looking for a college-educated super model? Well, not many of those.....Maybe he should look more for what a girl has to offer other than sex.

Answer 10

He needs to find a women(not a girl) on his level. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. He has not found the one for him yet, but he can. He should try an ignore the little vain obnoctious girls in this world. They can be cruel and callause. He needs to be around more real people. Tell him quite haning out at TGI Fridays

Answer 11

There is always going to be the girls who never get tired of the bad boys (I'm one). You should not be telling him what you did about education. He will eventually find someone who loves him for himself, not his money. If he takes your advice, he may miss out on his soulmate.