Do we have a chance?

Question

So after realizing that I NEED to transfer colleges earlier this semester, I met a really cool guy at work. We became pretty close as friends, but I knew he was kind of a wh*re so I was just fine being one of the guys and occassionally flirting.

But now I' m realizing that he is exactly what I'm looking for in a boyfriend. He's normally an asshole but something is developing: I grabbed his @ss the other day and now he's always around me and blushing and stuff.

The problem is this budding romance has little chance I'm leaving this school on Thurs. and transferring to a school 2 hrs away.
Is there a chance? He means a lot to me and I kind of really want to keep him.

I DON"T want to marry this kid and I'm not in love yet but as far as personality, values and horniness he is what I've been looking for to get experience and feel safe with.

Answer 1

*** anything can happen...up to u to decide whether or not u want it to.

wanna hear my story? i'll make it quick.... i met a guy in college...he was a player~a flirt~a schmoozer...we were buddies but there was no way I was gonna let it become anything more. no way *I* was gonna become another notch. just b4 the school yr ended I finally agreed to go out w/ him...i was leery cause I knew his reputation. he immediately stopped being the player...heck I didn't even think he COULD stop...and treated me like I was the only woman in the world. he let everyone else know it too. I had to switch colleges a few months later, and had no idea what that would mean for US. He drove the 3 and a half hours to come see me nearly once a week for the next year and a half. Then I got a job & a transfer 14 hours away, and he quit his job and followed me. I've been w/ him 4 years now.

ANYTHING can happen.

Answer 2

For a guy who really hasn't acted like he is in for a long relationship, I would say no. Couple of reasons, first , blushing does not mean love, and 2, college is such a big, great, wonderful experience, you want to be single for at least your first 2 years. There really isn't enough time for the two of you to start a "relationship". I just wouldn't try to make anything of it. Just keep in touch with him, and if he stays in touch with you, then who knows, it might work out. Good Luck!!

Answer 3

I wouldn't put to much effort into this relationship. You said he was a wh*re? Chances are he wont be faith full to you. You have to be honest with yourself, you already know this. Stay good friends and when you come back maybe something will develop but until then I wouldn't hold my hand on my tush for it to work..sorry

Answer 4

Let it go! You've already admitted he is an ***. Everything else in your question sounds goofy. Why would you be looking for a whore anyway? Please go off to school and leave this loser behind!!!!! Get accomplished what you want, learning wise, and do not put men above your brain. Men are to be played with and enjoyed, for the moment. There are bound to be new friends in your life, don't take trash from the past into your future.

Answer 5

As far as my views can stretch on this is that if u guys are really meant to be then god will work it out but heck i say go 4 it live big cause we are not even promised tomorrow

Answer 6

Explain to him what your situation is. He just might be the one for you, or he might let you out of the relationship. First thing you need to do is pray, seek God's counsel, and He will give you the answer you need.

Most important, Pray!

Answer 7

if u know he is a who*re why do u want to date him. honey u need 2 leave him alone and find a new guy at the new college.

Answer 8

Long distance romance? Nope!

Answer 9

I'll probably be just as lucky or unlucky as the next person, will have to wait and see. Best wishes, B :)

Answer 10

I think you answered your own question in the second paragraph when you say he's normally an a**hole. Do you really think you deserve someone like that?