Family & Relationships - 11 December 2006

what is the diff?same thing?

2006-12-11 15:58:47 · 5 answers · asked by lucy 1 in Singles & Dating

you can make a joke about it and that is fine i like to laugh

2006-12-11 15:58:34 · 24 answers · asked by lovj 2 in Friends

I and my husband are separated. I have my job and he has his job with bigger salary.Sometimes, I'm short with allowance because my salary is meager. Do I have the right to demand from his salary though he already has 2 kids with another woman and we have none?

2006-12-11 15:58:28 · 16 answers · asked by melz1328 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband is deployed to Iraq and today I received a Christmas card in the mail from his grandmother. There was a 100 dollar check in it made out to me as well as a 20. Then in the card says right away when you open it in a note all to itself said " I'm sending the Christmas check in your name only because Chris is not there to sign it himself. I hope you know that." I was deeply hurt when I read that. As I continued to the actual letter part of the card all it talked about was how the 20 was from a friend of theirs for Chris and since she already sent out her package to him she was giving it to me to buy him things with. I have sent him already this month 7 packages. Does she think I don't send him anything? Then there was another card, a thank you card and an already addressed to the guy who gave the 20 and addressed from us stamped and ready to go included just to be sure I would thank him!! As if I wouldn't do it on my own. I am very hurt and find this very rude.

2006-12-11 15:58:21 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Im confused about a girl?
im a little nervous. im 17 and im think im crushing on this 16 yr old girl. She is super sweet and beautiful even though she thinks she is not. I like her a lot...but i cant because she is someone that i cant like. i stay up talking to her all night and i find myself thinking about her quite a lot. i dont know if it is "love". i dont want to believe that it is. we played basketball yesterday and even though she pretended to be a girly girl...she was super cute. she was scared of getting the ball and she tried to guard me. it was cute. we both fell asleep in the living room...and i saw her smiling in her sleep. it was adorable. she has a great smile that can light up anyones day. she isnt just the typical giirl, she loves horror movies over the typical chick flick. i dont know if it is love?? but she lights up my day whenever she is around..and i dont see her that much. what should be my diagnose
the girl is my friends cousinn. and he is really protective

2006-12-11 15:58:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

(If you really liked the person and could drive to see each other on weekends) could it work? would you do it?

2006-12-11 15:57:46 · 10 answers · asked by hello hello! 3 in Singles & Dating

I had a cigerette (first in a long time and lied to my wife about it. It seems that I not able to be honest about it to her or me and she thinks that I want conflict in out marraige. I don't want to lie to her but I am a shamed that I can't totally quit. The issue is not the cigs but the lying. She doesn't trust me anymore. What I want to know is why I can't be honest to her and feel that I have to lie about it. It just seems that I have this destructive trait on this subject. It is destroying our marriage. We need to know why I am like this. What underlying problem would cause this. I have really hurt her and it is driving her crazy. I just want to know why I feel that I have to do this. I want our marriage to be good but I just for some reason can't be honest to her or me about this.

2006-12-11 15:57:02 · 14 answers · asked by Larry A 1 in Marriage & Divorce

She is always so nervous around me, even when we go on dates...

2006-12-11 15:56:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

CLOSE TO MEMPHIS PLZ!!!!!

2006-12-11 15:55:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I need to know what hand you waer it on i have had so many diff. awnsers can ya'll help? Is it your left hand or right hand? Thanks so much!!

2006-12-11 15:55:06 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

How do u find guys?? Arrogant, nice, kind?? Anything??? Just give me ur opinions about them!!

2006-12-11 15:54:49 · 6 answers · asked by animallover 2 in Friends

We've been together for almost a month. When we first declared to go on with this relationship, it happens so suddent. I don't even see it coming. He just asked me my feelings towards him. I just told him that he is special for me. That was it. I didn't say anything about wanting to be his girlfriend. But the next thing I know, he's already treating me as his girlfriend! It's my fault for not set things straight. To be honest, I was impressed by the way he's treating me. He is a nice guy, and that's when I thought that maybe I could give this a try. But just recently I realize that I can't love him. I only want to be friends with him. But the problem is, he's already introduced me to his parents and I've met most of his friends and he's very serious about this relationship. If I break this off, I would feel guilty for the rest of my life! And it's already been a month! If I want to break this relationship, I should've done it earlier, right? Should I be honest? Or give it another try?

2006-12-11 15:54:48 · 11 answers · asked by Kate 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

There's this girl at my school who is a year younger than me. i want to get know her so when prom comes around i can ask her, but i am a very shy person. i don't know if she knows who i am. she comes to watch my teams hockey games with her parents and this weekend we play a rival school. should i talk to her after the game. how should i introduce myself.

2006-12-11 15:54:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Please rephrase these sentences to sound better and I'll give you 10 points. I'm writing a message to my friend and don't want to sound stupid or repeat myself so please help to rephrase these sentences and I'll give 10 points the best answer!



I know what you mean. Yeah we kissed and it was a soft sensual long *** kiss but there wasn't any tongue action lol. He knew I was nervous and that's why I think he didn't french me but I'm relieved he wasn't one of those guys that cram their tongue down your throat on the first date. It was perfect and my cheeks turned bright red and he thought it was cute. I haven't been able to stop thinking about it. My mom was giving me weird looks because I had this stupid grin on my face when I walked inside. I think she knows we kissed but hasn't asked me. I'm excited about our 2nd date.

2006-12-11 15:53:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-11 15:53:29 · 24 answers · asked by paige s 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 15:53:14 · 10 answers · asked by icy 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm looking to buy a new plunger. I like to stick them to the floor,and then squat on them until my legs quiver.Lately all I've been able to find are the ones with wood handles,and those give me splinters in my chute. Where can I find one with a plastic handle?

2006-12-11 15:52:49 · 8 answers · asked by Jen's a whore 1 in Singles & Dating

when ever i meet new people i dont understnd what to talk about with them... i cant socalise easily... if its a girl what should i talk about... and i am boy so i know what to talk about with boys.... pls help me.... girls can help me cos they know what they expect a boy to talk about when they meet for the 1st time....

2006-12-11 15:52:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok well me and my boy friend broke up yesterday we have been dating for a year and a half and i am pg with his baby... but things just couldnt work out... so for christmas i was going to make him a cd.. a break up cd... so does anyone know some really heart touching break up songs i could put on the cd?? i want ones that would make him feel bad for doing it ( sorry but gatta ) not all of them but some.. so any idea???

2006-12-11 15:52:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a single mom. I fall in love quickly. I'm looking for someone who fits me, My other half. I just want to know if I will ever find the one that was meant for me or if I misses him along the way?

2006-12-11 15:50:19 · 18 answers · asked by Jennifer C 2 in Singles & Dating

this is my life, this is my hate
i cant stand the thought to contemplate
this lust inside of me
worse than sweet rape or sodomy
its something bitter, something grotesque
i cant believe i want her undressed
i pussyfooted out underneath the moon
and watched her sleep, a coma gloom
i unzipped the door and watched her
its so crooked, so repulsive, so impure
i wanted to steal her but instead
i just kissed her forehead
i slept inside her bed one night
she was so sweet and heedless
to what was in my head that night
i cant help it if the flower does not bleed
her flesh is programed inside, its what i need
if i could mutate, believe me i would
but the skin, the lips feel so good
im so loathed, im so lonely
shes my one and only
i am sorry for my curse
its in my vessels which makes it worse
in my tummy, shes so yummy
her muscles so chewy, oh so gooey
what more can become of me
this little secret inside of me
it rips me from head to toe
i wish this cancer would just go

2006-12-11 15:49:22 · 7 answers · asked by Lusted 1 in Singles & Dating

ok me and my bf have been going out for lyke 8 months and we say we love each other and i mean it when i say it but he sounds like he means it but when we talk on the phone he always starts a fight why is that does he love me or h8t me u all always help plzzz help me thank u ?or is he getting to h8t me or not i real;ly love him but does he love ps I LOVE HIM !

2006-12-11 15:48:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This christmas, i cant spend anymore money but i dont want to feel awkward when everyone else is exchanging gifts.
What can I get my family without spending money at all?


P.S. Its not that I dont want to spend money, it's just that I dont have any money to spend!!!

2006-12-11 15:48:44 · 11 answers · asked by whiteoleander3388 2 in Family

what do you think of love?
when is a relationship truly love?
your thoughts, please.

2006-12-11 15:48:05 · 19 answers · asked by mica rae 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-11 15:47:24 · 3 answers · asked by really shy girl 1 in Singles & Dating

my sister can't stand my mother but uses her when she needs her to watch the kids so she can go out and party all nite long. How can I help my mother to say no to my sister? She doesn't give my mother an ounce of respect and it ticks me off that my mom lets my sister treat her like a piece of s.hit!

2006-12-11 15:47:18 · 8 answers · asked by cutiepie81289 7 in Family

what does a man have to say or do in order to get your number when they first meet you, given that he may not get another chance to ask you for it if this is a chance meeting?

2006-12-11 15:47:14 · 3 answers · asked by j-chris 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

This answer may seem obvious...but I just want to be sure. All of my friends said "YES!" but just checking. Okay, so there's a guy at this school who's cute and everything and I like him. This is he's done/said so far to me:

-He thinks I'm cute.
-He thinks I have a pretty smile.
-He thought I looked good in a particular shirt I was wearing and mentioned it.
-He called me asking to hang out.
-He wants me to have his phone number.
-He ALWAYS complimented me on this one sport we were on the same team on.
-He looks at me everyday. (We have PE together)

And...Yeah.
So DOES he like me?

2006-12-11 15:45:57 · 16 answers · asked by Miss Q&A 4 in Singles & Dating

I realize my bfr. is not Mr.Right, I want to leave, but it's so hard, especially since I started school here and I don't want to quit what I started. Any suggestiong how to make it painless and hasslefree???

2006-12-11 15:44:52 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My wife just told me that she once had a threesome, while we were dating but before we were married, many years ago. Now that I think about this, in addition to being hurt that she would dump this @#$% on me, I think that I might be feeling a little sexually inadequate. Nothing exciting, or twisted depending on how you look at it, like that in my past and I'm trying to figure out why I can't get the image of her and the two guys out of my head. I DO NOT find the image a turn on in any way so don't go there. I know the problem is mine. I've got to get over, around, past, and beyond, this before I end up in a rubber room. Yeah, know I'm being childish but the feelings are present and real even though I realize that they shouldn't be.

2006-12-11 15:44:45 · 19 answers · asked by Paul S 1 in Other - Family & Relationships