when ever i meet new people i dont understnd what to talk about with them... i cant socalise easily... if its a girl what should i talk about... and i am boy so i know what to talk about with boys.... pls help me.... girls can help me cos they know what they expect a boy to talk about when they meet for the 1st time....
2006-12-11 15:52:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The best way to build rapport with people is to talk about them. People love to tell other people about themselves. If you are interested in them, they will find you likeable and want to continue to chat. Of course it depends what the situation is, you don't want to just start firing random questions at them!! But asking what they thought of what went on that day, or how they're liking a certain class, or what they do outside of school is a good start. If they start to tell you about, say, a hobby they do after school, be interested, really listen, ask follow up questions about it so they know you're really hearing them. The more you chat with people the easier it is, I promise!! Good luck!!
2006-12-11 15:57:19 · answer #1 · answered by alwayslarat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is easy and you will be surprised to find out why......the trick to talking to girls is to start off with a simple topic could be anything even sport weather...usually movies or music is the easiest
Then ask her for her opinion and let her do all the talking....your job is to be polite and do all the listening....girls love a good listener. And they LOVE guys who are thoughtful so while she is talking be sure to remember what she was saying so that you can refer to it later. Any decent girl who is really genuine will love that you listened. Then when the time is right ask her out if thats what you want.
...you dont need to be overly clever or anything just be yourself. If you are shy thats ok, if youre with a nice girl just tell her you dont normally talk to girls because youre usually too shy ...most girls will be flattered by your honesty.
2006-12-12 00:15:16 · answer #2 · answered by Babloo2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First learn to smile. When you smile at some one it means you appreciate the other person. If your smile is genuine you can make others smile at you too. Try to learn to make small talk. If you are a quite person doesn't matter. When others talk to you respond with enthusiasm. You will be in circulation. If you are more comfortable with girls talk to them. It will give you confidence.
2006-12-12 00:07:20 · answer #3 · answered by rams 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jst act urself i mean like usual conversations like hobbies and wots her kind of stuff and maybe if u guys r into the same thing u'll have much more to say... so jst flow along the conversation and dnt try to pretend sum1 who ur not gd luck!
2006-12-11 23:58:12 · answer #4 · answered by xxshoppoholicxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend u r very simple. Change your nature. Speak with any body frankly. U r very small (in age). U not see word. Go throe Experience we can teach how to act with others.
u see film like munna bhai MBBS & lage raho munna bhai ( munna bhai is best cheracter).he act with other peopal very good. he show how to act with other.
2006-12-12 01:57:32 · answer #5 · answered by Sunil J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just smile and say hai and if its a girl tell her she looks preety and her dress is very beautiful and you would like to be her friend
2006-12-12 22:44:36 · answer #6 · answered by tiger 2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am a 16 year old girl and i feel the same way too......so i've been looking for a guy that i can talk to by e-mail so....if you want you can e-mail me on
kelsey_hcks@yahoo.com if you want and we can talk
hope to hear from you soon...BYE
2006-12-12 16:35:45 · answer #7 · answered by Kelsey_blair 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a good friend of yourself first, love your innerself....Just listen & smile if you are unable to talk, gradually you will learn what to talk & what not.
2006-12-11 23:58:26 · answer #8 · answered by ana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GIRLS like to talk about these topics:
*favorite types of candies.
*what they want for christmas.
*Their favorite holidays.
*Their dream wedding ring.
*They love to here complements about themselves. I would just hug someone if they said "Oh, why, you have lovely eyes".
2006-12-11 23:56:09 · answer #9 · answered by Miss USA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok hi its kripa the ans is u can talk in manny ways u can ask about his/her likings or dislikings.what kind of nature she/he is what r their favourate dishes,what does she /he do in the free time, what kind of the persons she like,favourate outing place,in india or abbrod etc etc etc.
2006-12-14 02:37:38 · answer #10 · answered by niki d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋