I'm a single mom. I fall in love quickly. I'm looking for someone who fits me, My other half. I just want to know if I will ever find the one that was meant for me or if I misses him along the way?
2006-12-11 15:50:19 · 18 answers · asked by Jennifer C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Can this really be planned? Hardly. The last thing you want is to become one of those desperate creatures who obsesses about the need to be married. Gear your planning toward enjoying yourself and at the same time increasing your exposure to potential mates.
Instructions
•STEP 1: Trust your instincts when it comes to knowing what you want. The older you get, the more discriminating your taste in potential mates becomes. This is a good thing.
•STEP 2: Cultivate a wide circle of friends. Use e-mail, phone calls and birthday cards to keep in touch with as large a group as you can. If possible, be a social hub, the kind of person who brings different groups together. Instead of waiting for things to happen, get on the phone and initiate activities. Join a softball team or enroll in tennis lessons.
•STEP 3: Control your anxiety about not having a mate. Your life is not on hold just because you haven't found someone. Take the time to enjoy yourself today.
•STEP 4: Move slowly and keep assessing compatibility. Don't try to convince yourself someone is Mr. Perfect when he might really only be Mr. Available.
•STEP 5: Dump Mr. Not Right immediately. You'll be much more successful in meeting someone appropriate if you're not carrying around the anchor of a failing relationship.
•STEP 6: Exploit gender concentrations. There are numerous guy dominated activities where you will stand out. If you can ride a motorcycle, pilot a boat or argue about baseball with any skill at all, you'll be virtually worshiped by groups of men.
•STEP 7: Join a gym. In addition to helping you get fit, you get to see lots of active people in skimpy outfits. Gyms are basically like nightclubs but without all the pointless standing around.
Overall Tips & Warnings
•If your friends don't like your mate, it's probably not a good match. They may be reluctant to be completely honest with you, but look for clues that there's a problem.
2006-12-11 16:04:10 · answer #1 · answered by Christine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you didn't miss him. Being a single mom, it's hard and you want that final piece of the puzzle , which is normal. I also have fallen in love quickly in the past and found that to be a huge problem. Once I relaxed and quit looking at every cute guy as 'The One', I met a great guy. Is he perfect? No. No one is, but what a difference from the past! Know what you are looking for and be patient. The 'right' guy is there and looking for you too!
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2006-12-11 15:56:01 · answer #2 · answered by MRJACK 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I am not the best judge of character myself, but I do my best (as I keep busy to get in trouble).
I happen to work for a TV station and see a lot of stories where some relationships go drastically wrong.
Hopefully, we can get in touch with each other and at least talk as friends.
God Bless!
2006-12-11 15:54:59 · answer #3 · answered by jmbarcus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Following your policies, I fall below a "real guy." i'm additionally in college and on the same time as not married, I even have been relationship my female chum for 3 years faithfully. the three roommates I stay with are additionally "real adult males" and all of us have facial hair. we are additionally all Christians. looks such as you basically stay in a position the place the ratio is slightly decrease. stay actual however, and congratulations on not falling into stereotypes. playstation : We additionally artwork to stay at college, some throughout college.
2016-10-18 03:45:20 · answer #4 · answered by mcfee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good single mom for good single father, or single men
2006-12-11 15:53:19 · answer #5 · answered by Mat D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It took me 30 years to find mine , he will come to you when you least expect it ,but even if you missed him the first time he will be back
2006-12-11 16:01:57 · answer #6 · answered by shelly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are maybe 5 or 6 good men out there. If we find one, I get dibs! ;o)
They are out there, but you have to sift through the crap to find them.
Best Wishes,
Sue
2006-12-11 15:52:06 · answer #7 · answered by newbiegranny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, I hate to say I got the last good one ;-) just kidding...
someone will come along when you least expect it, don't give up. I believe everyone has a soul mate.
good luck and god bless
2006-12-11 15:54:55 · answer #8 · answered by bobbie v 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you say good men im definattely one but you would probally just turn a guy who was good down anyway since women are attracted to bad asses without knowing it, so dont ask this question again.
2006-12-11 15:54:35 · answer #9 · answered by michael h 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hmm good men well i don't personally know any. but if u find any lemme know. good luck to u though. i hope that u find all that Ur heart desires.
2006-12-11 15:55:23 · answer #10 · answered by lilmisspriss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋