Family & Relationships - 8 December 2006

Today i went to the christmas dance @ my school. about 3 months ago my ex John and i broke up, when i still loved him!!! He knows how i feel yet he seems to not care at all, espiaclly at the dance!!! He took one of my friends Kyleih ( his new girl friend) to the dance as thier first date. I never knew it'd be so painful to watch them together on a date that i whould be at!!!! I started crying during this one song that we had danced together last year!!!! How can i show him that i still care without crying infront of him?!?!?! Plz help!!!
Kelse

2006-12-08 17:02:38 · 4 answers · asked by Kelse 2 in Singles & Dating

Looking for a long lost friend...disappeared off the face of the earth better then 10 years ago.... took off to start a new life, left unfinished business at home....
Jeremy T..... where are you?

2006-12-08 17:01:50 · 3 answers · asked by Snoopy 5 in Friends

My parents are always arguing and I don't know why.My real father walked out on us a while back and it has been hard for me to trust anyone; let alone a man.When my stepdad came along of course I was skeptical.All they do is argue.Sometimes they don't speak for months at a time and I'm afraid they'll split up and yet another man will end up walking out of my life.The problem is, they don't know how much their arguing bothers and upsets me.Not only can I not get close to anyone but I am always so afraid that everyone I get close to is going to walk out of my life.My new boyfriend can't even get the love he deserves because I'm scared he's going to walk our of my life just like everyman before him has done.I have been doubting our relationship because lately it seems like my parents can never get along.I really want to love him and be with him, but for some reason something in the back of mine is telling me not to. What do I do, and do you think I could ever learn to love him?

2006-12-08 17:01:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ok, so this one girl @ my school, sends about 12 girls 2 the office, and now they cant even look @ her or theyll get suspended. and im her only friend, so they all h8 me! and my best friends h8s me 4 reasons that i havent even done!!! this is killin me, ive now been told what an awful friend i am

2006-12-08 17:01:26 · 10 answers · asked by NiChkoLe 2 in Friends

I've been in college for almost a year now, and all of the friends I've made are female. In high school, the majority of my friends were guys, so this is kind of weird for me. I don't mind down-to-earth girl friends, but for the most part I find that girls are way catty compared to guys and I don't want to deal with that. Gossip and other BS isn't my thing. The friends I made are ok, but not great, they're more like aquaintances.

In high school it was easy to make guy friends, since we all grew up together and/or were always around one another. But now I'm having a hard time making guy friends. A lot of guys either only want to be around a girl if he wants to date her, or assumes a girl wants to be something more if she shows interest in him. So how exactly do I make male friends in college without giving them the impression I want to date them? I heard guys assume that any girl that's friendly toward them wants them. :/

2006-12-08 17:01:18 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

we didnt have sexual intercourse till now.we both didnt have sex before marriage with anyone.in the earlier days of marriage he found my vaginal hole is too small and lost confidence in getting inside.but i have heard its usually small and its only through regular pushing it will get inside the vagina.i have told him many times but he is not doing it.he is used to masturbation and does that by rubbing on my body.what should i do?

2006-12-08 17:00:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I like this girl. We flirt, hold hands, things like that. She just won't tell me if she likes me, considering I don't ask.

We've only been on one official date and are going on a second one tomorrow but we've hung out every day for like the last two weeks.

Should I ask her if she likes me?
Is it weird after one date to ask her that?
If she said "Sure" to a date both times, is that a sign?
How does one initiate a kiss? (I know how to kiss, although not very good)?
When talking tonight about personal issues, I thanked her and she said something like "You're welcome. Isn't that what friends are for?!"

Does that mean she only wants to be friends?

Thanks

2006-12-08 16:59:07 · 10 answers · asked by dowboy98 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-08 16:58:40 · 10 answers · asked by adklsjfklsdj 6 in Singles & Dating

All right, there is this guy that sits next to me during Chemistry and I like him, however I do not know if he likes me back. I'm a sophmore and he is a junior. I do not want to outright ask him, since I AM a sophmore and I do not want to freak him out or anything since we sit next to each other so it would be really ackward and he is a really awesome guy, very funny and cool, and I wouldn't like to see our friendship spoiled because of that, however, I really do like him. The hard thing is that, he is cool with everyone, so I do not if I'm special or not, however, he has been talking to a lot me lately.I know that he doesn't have a girlfriend or anything since he has told us (we sit in a table). He is always trying to make me laugh, joking, teasing me, arguing.
Ex:We were getting our books, and I was passing them out since I got to them first and when I was going to give him one, he said "I'm a man, I can get it myself" smiling and a scant second before he started laughing.

2006-12-08 16:56:36 · 5 answers · asked by PinkAusten 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-08 16:54:46 · 4 answers · asked by Fateh 1 in Weddings

there is this guy i think is rly rly cute, and i'm new this year. Well, he doesn't rly know who i am (he's met me once but i wouldn't say it counted) neways, i want him 2 notice me and i want to talk 2 him, but he's into other girls. how do i get myself to talk 2 him or get him 2 talk 2 me?

2006-12-08 16:54:43 · 7 answers · asked by mo 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im 5'11 i have blonde hair blue eyes im on my highschool basketball team i play Foward. Are you a girl that lives in florida and your intrested tell me or look at my pix at www.myspace.com/nbaballerg23 OR U CAN IM ME AT NBABallerg23 ON YAHOO OR AIM OKi like all types of girls so dont worry bout your style or skin color a hair color or eye color

2006-12-08 16:53:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my guy friend tell me that i really need to grow up!
i fail to understand what does he mean? plz advise!

2006-12-08 16:53:25 · 6 answers · asked by Ruh 1 in Friends

2006-12-08 16:52:24 · 19 answers · asked by Schnickyyy 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-08 16:52:17 · 10 answers · asked by need2speed 1 in Singles & Dating

What does horned pillow mean???

2006-12-08 16:52:07 · 1 answers · asked by .:AM:. 2 in Singles & Dating

When is the best time to tell ur gf u love them..not that little LUV u sh!t u know like I like u like u..but im saying LOVE! cus me and my buddy was in JCP where she works and hes like..just tell her u love her so we can get going...but when can i say it..in bed? at the dinner table? in the car? in the bathroom? in the shower? in the movies? in the dark? where?

2006-12-08 16:50:25 · 24 answers · asked by Jeff 1 in Singles & Dating

My mom agreed with her. When i was walking to my room she told my mom i was so shy and my mom agreed with her also. My brother heard the whole thing, and i know he is making fun of me at this moment because we dont talk anymore. Did she perpously wanted me to hear it because right about when i was leaving she said it and it is pissing me off

2006-12-08 16:50:21 · 10 answers · asked by pillowpinogirl023 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

can someone tell me what is love is it a kind of friendship , sex, or what is it?

2006-12-08 16:49:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There's this guy named Mike who I've been friends with for a little while...we hang out in large groups on the weekends and I'm on his intramural basketball team (I'm in college, by the way). I always sort of had some feelings for Mike, but never pursued anything with him. But last weekend, he and his roommates threw me a birthday party in their apartment. After awhile, everyone left to go to a different party, but I stayed and we ended up hooking up. We didn't have sex or do oral, but we still went further than I would've gone if I had been sober. I told him that I used to like him and asked him what he wanted this to be, and he said "I prefer it just be a hookup," and I agreed, but he also said that we should do it again sometime. I've seen him everyday since then, and he hasn't been awkward or weird, and he's been really friendly and somewhat flirty, but I don't know what to think. I'm fine with us just hooking up, but he doesn't look at me the same way that he used to.

2006-12-08 16:49:55 · 6 answers · asked by bosox.girl23 2 in Singles & Dating

its not that im shy but i just dont know what to say to women. and how do i get a woman to go on a date with me without it being awkward

2006-12-08 16:49:11 · 9 answers · asked by go cavs 3 in Singles & Dating

This guy at school rly likes me...
hes one of my best friends & i dnt rly like him cuz he has an ugly face but a hot body, i know i seem shallow but thats the only thing stopping me from liking him...... what should i do???

2006-12-08 16:48:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-08 16:48:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

There is this girl that likes me and i dont like her..... i kind of despise her.....any way she likes me and she knows that i know that she likes me and she stares at me in class and shes ugly and she has like huge teeth......WHAT DO I DO?????

2006-12-08 16:47:58 · 6 answers · asked by Nunzzz 2 in Singles & Dating

how do you define a guy who gets very physically intimate with ANY girl out there, (fat ones, short ones, ugly ones) such as putting his arm around their necks, touching and fiddling their hair intensely, but just won't even to touch the girl he has a crush on? (the girl whom he confessed to be hot and pretty, and admitted to his friends that he was head over heels with her) how do you explain this?

sorry the second part. i mean, as in, he just won't go physically intimate at all with the girl whom he is sooo attracted with.

how do you explain this guy? why does he do this or what does he want?

2006-12-08 16:46:55 · 11 answers · asked by rachel 3 in Singles & Dating

If im so self centered and selfish i need help
how do i make people understand that im not anymore
i mean its not my fault i brush my hair in classes
but i just dont want people thinking im ditsey or self senterd
how do i get them to understand im not.. without telling them???




Another

i act like a blondiee
but im a brunette
people make fun of me and crap like that
how do i get them to be my friend but also think im normal not a genius not ditsey just perfect???

2006-12-08 16:46:30 · 3 answers · asked by ♥ angel ♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

would you rather date a non-smoker? are you grossed out with girls who smoke? please indicate if you are a smoker or a non-smoker.

2006-12-08 16:46:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he cheated and when i found out i put him out the house. i dated someone else and he went to live with the person he cheated on me with. come to find out they had nothing in common and he comes back to me telling me that he is sorry for what he done and he was stupied and he wants me back. this is not the only time he has cheated on me. i just forgave him and never bought it up again. he can't keep a job either. he just got another job and im afraid he is gonna loos this one as well. i love him and i feel he loves me to but i dont think i should forgive and forget him this time. what do you think.

2006-12-08 16:45:15 · 15 answers · asked by shon 1 in Singles & Dating

what is the best situation for a guy to approach a girl they think is bangin?

2006-12-08 16:44:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

shes mad with me AGAIN, I am to uptight and I need help because if I dont change things soon I think that Laura may leave me and thats not good, so I know I need to say something tonight to her but I also NEED help as to not be so god dam uptight all the time, I want to have some fun, I really really do but my serious side takes over and it screws the fun up and makes her mad and me upset with myself once more so please help me as this is what I see as urgent.

Mitch

2006-12-08 16:44:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating