Today i went to the christmas dance @ my school. about 3 months ago my ex John and i broke up, when i still loved him!!! He knows how i feel yet he seems to not care at all, espiaclly at the dance!!! He took one of my friends Kyleih ( his new girl friend) to the dance as thier first date. I never knew it'd be so painful to watch them together on a date that i whould be at!!!! I started crying during this one song that we had danced together last year!!!! How can i show him that i still care without crying infront of him?!?!?! Plz help!!!
Kelse
2006-12-08 17:02:38 · 4 answers · asked by Kelse 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm so sorry to hear about this, and I wish you the best of luck! We have all been down this road, and there is no feeling like it. I am not sure how old you are, but you learn the ropes eventually. My best advice to you is, (IT MAY NOT BE EASY BUT BELIEVE ME IT WORKS!) PRETEND LIKE YOU DON'T CARE WHO HE IS WITH OR WHAT HE IS DOING! He will only feed off of it, and do it more if he sees that he is getting to you, Do not let him see you cry no matter what! He knows how u feel about him in his heart, but as soon as you act like you have moved on and are over it, HE WILL COME RUNNING! But even then if you still take him back (which U can find someone better than that, u should be happy and not hurting!) play hard to get, and make him try even harder. You never know a good thing till its gone, and he will realize that. Oh and always keep your friends closer than your enemies, remember that. Whatever you decide sweetie, I wish you the best of luck. Keep your head up and stay strong. I wouldnt sweat him, someone better is in store for you and will come when u least expect it! Takecare!
2006-12-08 17:13:14 · answer #1 · answered by TIJA-71118 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't show him that you still care. Why? Because you don't. If you did you wouldn't be worried about "crying" in front of him.
Take some advice...drop this little competition you have with the new girl (that's why you want him back after 3 months), move on and don't "fall in love until your at least 25 or out of college (whichever comes later)"
2006-12-09 01:11:47 · answer #2 · answered by J S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to? He obviously has moved on and that is what you should do too. If you keep moping around him and showing him that you can't get over him, he'll just think you look pathetic. Act like it doesn't matter to you. I don't know how close you are to the new gf, but if you are good friends, you might want to mention to her that it bothers you that she is with your ex. I know it seems like the end of the world, but really, it will be ok and you'll soon be on to your next love. You are probably too good for him anyway.
2006-12-09 01:16:25 · answer #3 · answered by Leslie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said that he knows. What's the point of showing him if he doesn't care? You're tomenting yourself by showing up to the dance and watching him with a girl with your wounds still raw. Don't do that. Stay away from him, or find things to do to occupy your mind on other things. Let him go. He let you go.
2006-12-09 01:06:54 · answer #4 · answered by sweeta : 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋