ok, so this one girl @ my school, sends about 12 girls 2 the office, and now they cant even look @ her or theyll get suspended. and im her only friend, so they all h8 me! and my best friends h8s me 4 reasons that i havent even done!!! this is killin me, ive now been told what an awful friend i am
2006-12-08 17:01:26 · 10 answers · asked by NiChkoLe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
This girl that you say you are her only friend, is she the one that you say best friend about?
If you have a best friend who is falling out with you over something you haven't done. Tell her! I'm a little concerned about the one that you said had 12 girls taken to the office. Is she a nice person? was she getting picked on? It makes you wonder if she wants you as her best friend and might she have caused problems between you and your best friend.
If this is the case, tell her you will still be friendly with her, but that you don't like the fact she has tried to cause trouble and that you don't want to lose your best friend.
2006-12-08 17:09:59 · answer #1 · answered by Agony Aunt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stay true to what you know and be the best person you can be. If you can find out why all of this happened between the 12 and the 1. As far as your best friends go, if they hate you now then it is not something you have done but for who you are friends with. If they were your best friends would they treat you this way? or does it really show you what kind of people they really are. you have done nothing wrong but it is them that has the problem. Are the the type of people you really want to be around, them blaming you for something you did not even do and they know it.
2006-12-09 01:15:47 · answer #2 · answered by Will 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in a similar situation when I was in school. If they are open to discuss what happen be the bigger person and simply tell them "If er were ever truly friends than he least you can do is tell me why we're not friends when none of this has anything to do with me." I wouldn't do it with an audience. That will take away from the sincerity. Just put it out there. If they are worth having as friends then it will work out. If not, then your probably better off.
2006-12-09 01:07:31 · answer #3 · answered by Smoochie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your best friend really is your best friend he\she will get over it ,but the only way to truely know who your friends are is to go to prison for a while and this other girl sounds like she really needs a friend right now so be there for her she will appreciate it and it will pay off someday when you need someone to be there for you i know all of this to be absolutely mtrue i've been there
2006-12-09 01:09:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
School is always fulll of drama...you just have to rise above it and not dwell on it.. go to school and talk with your friend if shes not going anywhere or juding you then shes a true friend don't waste your time with the drama crew..do your own thing and in enjoy your youth...trust me it will fly by and life is too short to dwell on stupid petty ****.
2006-12-09 01:05:59 · answer #5 · answered by thereis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow you cats need to grow up, is there a good reason why she sent them to the office, or is there a reason why you're still friends with her? see which makes more sense and make a decision on whos part of your crew. and stop using numbers in your text its not cool j/k good luck with your problem, and like my good friend says "no f--- up the situation". lol
2006-12-09 01:09:00 · answer #6 · answered by Taze 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing I can tell you~RAWR~ is just to eliminate all of them H*** from your life and just start all over with new friends. Because if there is one thing in this life is worth having then not having is Friends so please just do the right thing.
2006-12-09 01:15:18 · answer #7 · answered by Big Momma KI 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sucks for you, Maybe try and become the evil ***** queen who controls the school by playing all the groups who hate you
2006-12-09 01:03:55 · answer #8 · answered by adklsjfklsdj 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm LEAVE THAT BIOTCH. 1 girl or 12. i would go with the majority theres obviously something wrong if they all hate her and ur just giving urself a bad reputation.
goodluck.
2006-12-09 01:04:02 · answer #9 · answered by tortl :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are wrong.
Anyone (whether at work at at school or anywhere) who dislikes (or even likes) someone based on who they like or don't like is MANIPULATIVE and selfish and childish.
Don't take their bull. Be civil to everyone, as much as they will "allow" you to. We are not to show favoritism to anyone.
2006-12-09 01:06:01 · answer #10 · answered by MandaPanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋