I like this girl. We flirt, hold hands, things like that. She just won't tell me if she likes me, considering I don't ask.
We've only been on one official date and are going on a second one tomorrow but we've hung out every day for like the last two weeks.
Should I ask her if she likes me?
Is it weird after one date to ask her that?
If she said "Sure" to a date both times, is that a sign?
How does one initiate a kiss? (I know how to kiss, although not very good)?
When talking tonight about personal issues, I thanked her and she said something like "You're welcome. Isn't that what friends are for?!"
Does that mean she only wants to be friends?
Thanks
2006-12-08 16:59:07 · 10 answers · asked by dowboy98 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
shes letting you know she likes you by being your friend. start by being friends first going to fast will turn her away. The kissing part will come in time. good-luck
2006-12-08 17:04:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that she likes hanging out with you and enjoys your close friendship. You could go ahead and ask her if she likes you in order to clear up your confusion. Depending on what she says, you can decide when to kiss her- maybe not tomorrow though, that might be kind of weird after asking if she likes you.
by initiating a kiss, you have to wait for the perfect time-probably sometime near the end of the date when you bring her home. Make sure you are clear that she LIKES you first or else you could wreck a good friendship and make things really awkward.
2006-12-09 01:06:05 · answer #2 · answered by BeachBabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great going buddy.
1st Get into the mood, mate. Ur on a date so enjoy it.
Hold her hands,
Put ur hard around her shoulders. see if she is leaning on to u or away from u trying to keep the distance.
After check ing her reaction remove it from her shoulders & if she was leaning on to u then wait for a long while before puting it around her waist. (she should want or beg in her mind for u to put it again around her shoulders - thats why a long time).
This would be a clear indication of being close (more close than just friends) if she moves away as if she doesnt like it. U could joke on it by saying u didnt want her to catch a cold. If she didnt allow u to hold her by her waist I wouldnt advise u to pop the question.
But if she did not resist then the easiest way to her lips would to kiss the back of her hand (as ur now used to holding hands). By this u have announced ur love for her. No need to pop the Question. If she does not respond -vely. feel her face with the palm of ur rt hand, slowly run it across her ears into her hair slowly drawing her to ur lips by holding her lightly by the back of her head. Look at her lips at all time so as to avoid the embrassment. (& she will think that u love the look of her lips).
I think u ll succede.
But always have a plan B if she resists always discuss it, girls love discussing such problems. Tell her u love her & if she wants u just as friends then tell her U ll give ur life to have her as ur friend. U dont actually have to give ur life, its just a figure of speech.
Always keep a condom handy. Dont want u to get her pregnant. Cant say where both of ur hormons could lead u. U could get laid on the 2nd date itself.
Always be prepared, especially for the worse.
2006-12-09 03:33:18 · answer #3 · answered by jack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first , can you imagine a relationship that didn't start out as friends?there is no such thing as instant love, lust yes but not love.Does she like you, would you go out with some one you didn't like? as for a kiss, a peck on the cheek to start, is a good idea, wait until you are comfortable with her, and make sure she is comfortable with you, which brings up my final point you have to learn about each other, and that means communication, no mind reading, no body language, no her friend said or his friend said, you two talk, about the weather if that is all you can manage at first, treat her with respect, and you will get the same in return
2006-12-09 01:12:55 · answer #4 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likes you..Don't ask her, you'll look like a dork. Concerning the kiss, I'd suggest a light peck on the cheek to let her know you aren't afraid to be close but respect her space. If she's into you, she should respond with a lip kiss.
2006-12-09 01:02:27 · answer #5 · answered by fabrat1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you went on a date and now a second on tomorrow, so yes she likes you. go ahead and ask her if she does to make sure. sometimes girls will say "that's what friends are for" in a flirtaous way. just ask
2006-12-09 01:02:53 · answer #6 · answered by becca j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't ask her if she likes you, but tell her you like her and that you enjoy every minute you're with her..wow.. it would be a romantic moment.. you will be the one one to show and say first.. i'm sure her reactions are enough to color your world with love...
2006-12-09 01:08:32 · answer #7 · answered by odel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she only wants to be friends, so before you kiss her consider that it miiight ruin your friendship.
2006-12-09 01:02:46 · answer #8 · answered by laurennn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep
2006-12-09 01:02:25 · answer #9 · answered by Peachycreampie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHE LOVES U !
JUST ASK HER 2 BE UR GF OR WATEVA
2006-12-09 01:01:50 · answer #10 · answered by ♥R♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋