how do you define a guy who gets very physically intimate with ANY girl out there, (fat ones, short ones, ugly ones) such as putting his arm around their necks, touching and fiddling their hair intensely, but just won't even to touch the girl he has a crush on? (the girl whom he confessed to be hot and pretty, and admitted to his friends that he was head over heels with her) how do you explain this?
sorry the second part. i mean, as in, he just won't go physically intimate at all with the girl whom he is sooo attracted with.
how do you explain this guy? why does he do this or what does he want?
2006-12-08 16:46:55 · 11 answers · asked by rachel 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because to him, she is a goddess, he puts her on a pedestal. He places her above all others with great respect and admiration.
Becoming physically intimate with his goddess would only knock her off that pedestal. Destroying the image of perfection he has created for her.
2006-12-08 16:57:54 · answer #1 · answered by Spandito 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Masculine wiles. He's doing whatever it takes to gain your attention. In this case, he's acting out to make you jealous. Or perhaps to show you that he is capable of attracting other females. Again: do you love him? He is head over heels in love with you, and he doesn't want to get hurt.
If he is reading this, you are sending him mixed messages. Remember you are a player, and by prompting him to make a hasty move, you aren't giving him a fair chance.
Don't be surprised if he comes on to you like a lovesick puppy. Look, you obviously appreciate him; do you really want him to embarrass himself?
I honestly think love doesn't always happen at first sight. It happened to him, but not to you. He repelled you by moving too fast, and you have forced the relationship to evolve on your terms.
Somewhere along the line (as you were stringing him along --- not your fault, he didn't give up), something registered: this guy has qualities you do in fact cherish. You obviously need to be in control, anyone would understand that.
It makes good sense to be fair, to yourself and to him. You should tell him things have changed, now you do have feelings, please take it slowly, and don't embarrass me!
2006-12-08 20:28:58 · answer #2 · answered by Lightbringer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
brutally honest here, give this man sex or you will lose him or he most certainly will cheat. men are wired this way. i've been married 21 years to a wonderful woman, and sex can be mechanical,lukewarm, or just plain hot and wild , or full of love. my wife learned along time ago that twenty minutes of sex is easier than two hours of begging, or two days of pouting. at five years you two should still be going at it like rabbits, are you on anxiety meds, that could explain your lack of desire, talk to your doctor maybe different meds would help. do you have any older women with many years of successful marriage you could talk to? i would if i were you. withholding sex is passive agressive and like a weapon towards a married man, he wants whats his, from an animal perspective. you need someone to explain men to you, we are animals we are dogs, we ain't happy where we are at we'll go sniffin around somewhere else. It is not cliche,it is a fact, it was your fault.
2016-05-22 22:13:09 · answer #3 · answered by Marjorie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a guy but I think its cause he is just flirting w/all the other ones feeling studly and they mean nothing to him but the one he really wants he wants to respect and not mess it up. In reality if the one he wants sees how is w/all the others might just ruin his chances w/her since she doesnt want to be w/a playa or some egotistical chippendale.
2006-12-08 16:51:26 · answer #4 · answered by Ivory_Flame 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a flirt and wants every girl to want him but is to childish to know what to do once he has got one. its the thrill of the chase
2006-12-08 16:51:51 · answer #5 · answered by hmwh_mwc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In just 5 words :" he's a blind stupid idiot " that's all has nothing to do with you .
2006-12-08 16:51:55 · answer #6 · answered by I'M JUST TRYING TO HELP YOU 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him and you will get the best answer than u gonna get here
2006-12-08 16:50:36 · answer #7 · answered by jose m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's afraid of rejection. he doesn't know if u like him or not. so go express ur attraction to him already.
2006-12-08 16:48:52 · answer #8 · answered by 2dogs 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
is the girl willing to go "physically intamate".......if she is then i can tell she aint showin it.
2006-12-08 16:51:37 · answer #9 · answered by Nunzzz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He maybe shy and unsure how to proceed....
2006-12-08 16:49:04 · answer #10 · answered by JohnS 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋