Family & Relationships - 7 December 2006

I want girls to like me. But bad past experiences with them (especially in the attraction field) has led me to dislike and fear of them. My life seems to revolve totally around being popular with women. More than anything else. But with the looks I have I know I won't be validated. It makes me angry. People walked all over me in the past, and arrrrgh, I just want my revenge on them. Make they pay for their judgment and shabby treatment of me, like I don't have feelings. I create these fantasies about shooting people or killing them with the worst methods possible. Is life so bad that I am made to feel these terrible things? I am severly depressed at the moment. My mum and dad and tell me not to be silly.

2006-12-07 06:11:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well hes cute but before we met I dont kno who he has been wit and he may have a disease because he loves sex

2006-12-07 06:10:39 · 14 answers · asked by ambalam 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Relationship advice. PLEASE?
ok, here's the deal.
(its very complicated, so please be patient)
im totally in love with this guy named brian. well he started ignoring me after he found out. so then I got interested in my best friend paul(who i've had a crush on for years) but i realized i liked him AFTER he started dating my VERY BEST friend since kindergarten, but i love him. so who should i keep going after, brian(the guy that started ignoring me) or paul(who likes me, but neither of us want to hurt my friend)

PLEASE HELP ME!!!

2006-12-07 06:10:24 · 21 answers · asked by once_upon_a_dream 2 in Singles & Dating

The rate of divorce in the US has reached new heights and is climbing each year. Are people just getting tired of the thought of lifetime commitment, or are they making bad judgements as to who their mates should be or is there more to it than that?
What do you think?

2006-12-07 06:10:04 · 13 answers · asked by michael g 6 in Marriage & Divorce

i love love

2006-12-07 06:09:52 · 44 answers · asked by First L 1 in Singles & Dating

A girl that i pretty much hate told my GF stuff, idk what she said, but my GF won't tell me what that girl told her. What should i do?
PS. I know its somewhat about me cuz the girl i hate said so, and she keeps laughing at me cuz of the secret! :-(

2006-12-07 06:09:47 · 2 answers · asked by da man 3 in Singles & Dating

This person isn't a close friend. In fact we've never met in person. But I do consider this person a friend.

2006-12-07 06:09:43 · 3 answers · asked by Barak 3 in Friends

I asked a question and every time there is a rasist remark by a white guy, is it just in there nature or what? I bet I get some stupid remarks for asking this question, just watch

2006-12-07 06:09:07 · 40 answers · asked by alley_bagget04 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-07 06:08:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Would I make the perfect boyfriend?

I'm decent looking, people tell me i have gorgeous blue eyes, i'm smart, funny, mature, sweet, charming, and not sex crazed. I'm a christian in every sense of the word. How do I get other girls to realize this?

2006-12-07 06:08:18 · 11 answers · asked by packerswes4 5 in Singles & Dating

I really like this guy but i txt him and kinda flirt with him and even invite him 2 play basketball his fav sport but he acts wierd and doesnt respond. whats with him?

2006-12-07 06:08:11 · 1 answers · asked by SexyAmby 4 in Singles & Dating

(For those people in a long term relationship only please)
How and WHEN did you know that you had found "the one", your so-called Soul Mate?

2006-12-07 06:08:06 · 14 answers · asked by Princess~C 3 in Singles & Dating

a black n decker hand grinder/sander & a leather coat & a generator what would you say?

2006-12-07 06:08:06 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

well last year i liked this guy and my friend told me she was going to help me get with him but that didnt work out cause he like her and now i like this new guy and i just dont want the same thing to happend again cause i really did like that old guy but now i really really really really like this new guy and last year it was right around this time when this happend with that old guy but i do reallly like this new guy alot and uuggghh do you kind of get what i'm saying? just please help me

2006-12-07 06:08:02 · 11 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiance has his friends in town for a week.Before i go into more detail let me paint you a picture.He does not drink, does not dance (unless i beg him to), & not a party goer.Well we were suppose to meet his friends over the weekend.I was practically packed & ready to go when he tells me his friends would rather it be a guys weekend.Disappointed i said fine i will stay home. They spent the weekend bar & club hopping.They get back into town on Tuesday & again do the same.Right before he leaves he tells me they will be going down to Miami for the rest of the week to do the same.With me he wont go clubbing or drinking because he says that is not him.Right after he told me he was going to Miami I became upset.He is acting like all this partying is OK & i have no reason to be upset.He is not a single guy like his friends so I think he should stop trying to act like one. Why with them & not me? I 'm not the type of girly girly who gets offended easily.I get along better with guys than girl

2006-12-07 06:07:18 · 7 answers · asked by Shorty 1 in Singles & Dating

My bf has a problem with me being friends with my ex boyfriend's family. We dated for 2 yrs and I became close to his family. I have 3 kids ( none by my ex or my current) and my ex's family has kids and over the 2 yrs they have gotten close. Well now that we are split up my current bf feels like I should not talk to them anymore and one of his sisters has become my best friend. She is glad that I am with somebody and that I am happy but my current bf looks at her as my ex's sister. Is it fair for me to think that he should accept our friendship or am I being unrealistic about it..

2006-12-07 06:07:03 · 13 answers · asked by Sarah G 3 in Singles & Dating

A young man called Paul invited his mother for dinner, during the course of the meal, his mother couldn't help but notice how handsome
Paul's flatmate, Simon, was. She had long been suspicious of a relationship between the two, and this only made her more curious.

Over the course of the evening, while watching the two interact, she started to wonder if there was more between Paul and his flatmate than met the eye.

Reading his mums thoughts, Paul volunteered, "I know what you must be
thinking, but I assure you, Simon & I are just flatmates".

About a week later, Simon came to Paul saying, "Ever since your
Mother came to dinner, I've been unable to find the frying pan, you don't suppose she took it do you?" "Well I doubt it, but I'll email her just to be sure" said Paul.

So he sat down and wrote:

2006-12-07 06:06:38 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

short and to the point.

2006-12-07 06:06:31 · 16 answers · asked by bubbles_n_ar 2 in Singles & Dating

i am 16 an just started going out wit dis guy 3 days ago he's pretty much got everything ipods, xbox, playstation etc. (his mom gives him money all the time) and i dont want 2 give him my viginity so wat do i give him and i dont have a lot of money 2 spend

2006-12-07 06:06:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A girl in High School

2006-12-07 06:06:03 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I dont know what to do or how to tell her. Ive tried before but then i get choked up! ... i cant help liking him an we've become so close ... she keeps telling me that she likes him a lot and its weird ... i know she doesnt have chance ... because he told me ... but what if i do?

2006-12-07 06:05:57 · 7 answers · asked by Taylor M 1 in Singles & Dating

should I put him out or keep putting up with his lazy ways

2006-12-07 06:05:26 · 14 answers · asked by yvette h 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Last night I was at a partay and this hot guy came up to me, we started talking and I really liked him. Then, he asked me about myself, I said I was 18 and he was like “Oh ho! I’m 25.” BUT, he kept talking to me! Like eww, obviously he’s some kind of sick pedo because he KNEW I was 18 and he’s like my father’s age and he was still hitting on me! So eventually I was like “I gotta pee,” and I left. I can’t believe I was hit on by a PEDOPHILE.
How do I report this pedophile to the police? I’m scared for my life!

2006-12-07 06:04:48 · 71 answers · asked by Kortney 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-07 06:04:28 · 4 answers · asked by fsalomon06 1 in Friends

2006-12-07 06:04:06 · 8 answers · asked by DB_Curious 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-07 06:04:03 · 2 answers · asked by Jessica H 3 in Singles & Dating

If he does not want any more children and does not have a moral problem with extramarital sex.

2006-12-07 06:03:55 · 9 answers · asked by Captain Jack 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Would you tell a recent ex girlfriend (you broke up with her) at the ned of a phone conversation that she should call you and that you two should get together for coffee sometime.....just to be nice....or would you mean something more by it?

2006-12-07 06:03:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im a twenty year old female and i have a broad range of friends. the issue is i have a couple of gay male firends, and my mother is accusing me of being a lesbian or that i may become one what should i do?

2006-12-07 06:03:05 · 8 answers · asked by youngj042004 5 in Family

2006-12-07 06:01:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating