well hes cute but before we met I dont kno who he has been wit and he may have a disease because he loves sex
2006-12-07 06:10:39 · 14 answers · asked by ambalam 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
From the way you've posed your question clearly you're not ready for the responsibility of sex.
You're with someone whose past you're not even aware of. Why? When do you plan on finding out? That, no sex is your first priority.
Second, if it's been this long without sex why the sudden urge to do it now? Truthfully there is no reason after 4 celibate years to begin having sex. It won't make your relationship any better only bog it down. Sex will become the barometer by which your relationship will be measured. Do you want to exchange the 4 years you've had for that? It's not a good trade.
Say no, if he can't understand, it's not easy but it's best, move on.
2006-12-07 06:15:50 · answer #1 · answered by simm 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You're at different points in your lives. A seventh graders brain is way different from a sophmores brain. It's not illegal, but honestly, a teenager has some raging hormones and sex is the only reason I can think of that a 15 year old would date a 12 year old. Just be careful.
2016-05-23 04:02:09 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have any reason for not wanting to have sex with him other than the fact that over 4 years ago he may have had sex with another person?
If you do not want to have sex because you simply don't want to or for religious reasons or something like that you do not have to, if however you want to have sex but are concerned about his health you can both go be tested together and know you are starting clean with each other.
2006-12-07 06:14:33 · answer #3 · answered by mraandmisse 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you're not sure, don't have sex.
If you DO end up having sex...make sure you use protection, a condom for sure, and you do have the right to demand he get an STD test (and show you the results). Plus, if you end up having sex, it should be on your terms, not his. Don't let him pressure you into doing something you'll regret.
2006-12-07 06:22:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if your'e unsure about having sex with him, then don't. The choice is up to you. OR you can go with him to a doctor's office so he can be checked for STD's and an HIV test done. If all is well and if your'e on birth control, then give it a go.
2006-12-07 06:15:05 · answer #5 · answered by Common_Sense2 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's good that you want to be a responsible lady and not give it up wait until you get married, if you man has dealed with it for 4 yrs, how do u know he loves sex.
2006-12-07 06:13:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you need to do what you have said which is not to. If he chooses to leave you then I guess he wasn't worth it. I don't believe in sex outside of the covenant of marriage anyway.
2006-12-07 06:14:05 · answer #7 · answered by JAM 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
uh sweety if u dont no that stuff u havent been going toghter for 4 years come now its common sense and if u have its not a very good relationshiop
2006-12-07 09:53:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Very simple, if he loves sex and he is not getting it from you, he is OBVIOUSLY getting it somewhere else, no MORON waits 4 years. You must really hate sex if you have no desire for it. Why dont you just become a nun!
2006-12-07 06:14:32 · answer #9 · answered by marisanj 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
wait a min let me get this right you been going with him for 4yrs and you have not had sex but he loves sex well i can tell you not to worry about it because he is getting plenty of action
2006-12-07 06:16:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋