I want girls to like me. But bad past experiences with them (especially in the attraction field) has led me to dislike and fear of them. My life seems to revolve totally around being popular with women. More than anything else. But with the looks I have I know I won't be validated. It makes me angry. People walked all over me in the past, and arrrrgh, I just want my revenge on them. Make they pay for their judgment and shabby treatment of me, like I don't have feelings. I create these fantasies about shooting people or killing them with the worst methods possible. Is life so bad that I am made to feel these terrible things? I am severly depressed at the moment. My mum and dad and tell me not to be silly.
2006-12-07 06:11:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to a counselor. It's not normal to feel this way and I'm sure you're a very good person somewhere inside. It's a shame that society makes certain people feel the way they feel and I can tell by this that you are worried about your own feelings and you know this isn't normal. You seem like you could be a very sweet person once you got all your stuff worked out- do yourself a favor and move in the right direction towards improving your life so that you can show the rest of the world that there are good guys left. ;) I'm rooting for you..
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Also, as far as worrying about your looks goes, if that's your picture- you're a nice looking kid. I'm married and certainly not interested- but somebody WILL BE. If all the girls you meet are only out for some clone of some celebrity they're fixated on, then they aren't who you need anyway. You're an intelligent kid, find an intelligent mate.
2006-12-07 06:16:00 · answer #1 · answered by Jennifer F 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Killing other people is not goin to make you feel any better about yourself, you'll probably end up killing yourself as well. Its seems like you are the one judging yourself more critically than everyone around you.You need to stop being so hard on yourself, women like a man with confidence, and if you are goin around thinking your looks are not the best, girls are goin to notice that. If you would be more confident and assertive with the ladies you'll have alot better chance with them, and maybe people will stop walking all over you.
2006-12-07 06:24:31 · answer #2 · answered by gremlin1422 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I truly understand your problem but violence is never-never-never the answer because once you act out on these things your life is over and the problem was never solved. You just added on new problems. You shouldn't ever care what people say about you because for some reason they see something in you that they don't have. People who do these things are miserable and they want you to be miserable. Enjoy life my friend and focus on you and how to improve on yourself. You need to also learn how to love yourself and counseling isn't such a bad idea. Life is never that bad where you need to use violence. There is a lady out there for you but you have to work on yourself first. It won't be easy but you will benefit in the long run.
2006-12-07 06:28:48 · answer #3 · answered by uneekqamar2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about your looks; most women aren't as fixated on men's looks as men are with women's. You'll find someone, it may just not be today.
Having a few fantasies is fine as long as you don't follow them through. If you're worried about it, see a counsellor, priest or therapist. Otherwise, relax; your life may suck right now, but it'll get better eventually - probably with a new beginning, like going away to college, getting a job, or moving to a new home.
Good luck!
2006-12-07 06:18:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Violence is never the answer. As for your fantasies remember they are just fantasies. we all at one point had similar fantasies. It's part of our human psyche , but if you cannot decipher fantasy from reality then you need to seek medical attention before you or somebody gets hurt. Dude, there are chicks out there who probably like you for who you are and you just haven't realized it and don't be selective. You need to build up your self-esteem and confidence. Your friends and family should be doing that if not seek therapy. You're probably in a slump and you'll get past this phase. Please email me if you have questions.
2006-12-07 06:26:34 · answer #5 · answered by KUZIKAN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, blood and gore is extremely minimum and not something like the GTA once you cut some one head off and blood gushes from that's head like a water fountain. you could pass most of the factors that are violent and blood is in simple terms produce once you end killing somebody.with some drops of blood. i substitute into ask your self it substitute into rated mature. So it secure to play even in case your mom and father are around, as long as they do no longer stare on the show. very final tip, placed on headphones as they're some swear words in the interest.
2016-12-18 09:18:18 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't you think that we allow people to treat us certain ways because of our values of ourselves? if you don't like the way people treat you, then change your own behavior and if someone treats you poorly, then you need to stand up for yourself then..not take some violent action later..that's just dumb and no solution
2006-12-07 06:14:50 · answer #7 · answered by Tek ~aka~Legs! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is not your answer
2006-12-07 06:16:56 · answer #8 · answered by rock n roll all night.. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋