My bf has a problem with me being friends with my ex boyfriend's family. We dated for 2 yrs and I became close to his family. I have 3 kids ( none by my ex or my current) and my ex's family has kids and over the 2 yrs they have gotten close. Well now that we are split up my current bf feels like I should not talk to them anymore and one of his sisters has become my best friend. She is glad that I am with somebody and that I am happy but my current bf looks at her as my ex's sister. Is it fair for me to think that he should accept our friendship or am I being unrealistic about it..
2006-12-07 06:07:03 · 13 answers · asked by Sarah G 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Someone who is telling you who you can be friends with or not is bad news and controlling.....doesn't he trust you???? Controlling and lack of trust....sounds like he should go not your friends. Lovers come and go good friends are forever plus why take your kids away from some of their friends if it is not necessary..shouldn't they come before your lover?????
2006-12-07 06:14:52 · answer #1 · answered by Mom of Four 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a new BF you need to cut ALL ties with the old. Nothing puts more stress on a relationship than the EX if he is still in the picture. For as long as you still associate with his family, your current BF will be subject to that.
2006-12-07 06:10:53 · answer #2 · answered by Joe K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
course you dont could be acquaintances, sure honest sufficient she may well be a very good guy or woman and the previous is the previous yet why the could be acquaintances together with her. And in the experience that your husband is a minimum of telling you shes phoning and issues there is not something to be nervous approximately, i might purely placed a grin on my face and relatives purposes say hi and thats it
2016-10-17 22:57:12 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not?
Breaking up with the "Ex" doesn't mean you must be enemies w/the family too...
You have the right to be friends with whoever you want (as long as they don't keep trying to hook you up with your Ex again...)
2006-12-07 06:09:43 · answer #4 · answered by Sairax 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those are your friends. Yeah i understand where he is coming from but you have the right to have friends. He has got to learn how to except that.
2006-12-07 06:09:24 · answer #5 · answered by snowhawk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to reasure him that he is who you want to be with. Let him know if you wanted to be with your ex he wouldn't be your ex. Next time you go to visit take him with you and let him meet who you are hanging with
2006-12-07 06:09:58 · answer #6 · answered by 女性ウルバリン 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u an yo ex r still friends
2006-12-07 06:10:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is ok. The new boyfriend is showing signs of being a "control freak". Please be careful and watch for other signs.
2006-12-07 06:10:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's against the law
2006-12-07 06:09:30 · answer #9 · answered by John Scary 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course, what does that have to do with anything? you're friends with them because you like them, they like you. and that's it.!!!
2006-12-07 06:09:20 · answer #10 · answered by Maximus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋