my bf and i dated (and were engaged) over a 5 yr period. he broke up w/me in june b/c i was emotionally distant, selfish at times, etc. plus he found a journal where i had written about another guy (my boss). we were also long distance. after he broke up, i moved to where he lived, got an apartment, etc, said i would work on being a better partner. i gave him space. did not call him or his family (i am very close to them). in august he finally started calling; sept/oct we went out a few times; now in nov we are talking every day and he asked me to spend thanksgiving with his family (although he did ask me the day before); he helped me buy a new car, etc. BUT, in the six months (3 of which we have been hanging out) there has been NO intimacy. he will not hold my hand, kiss, nothing. he says he wants to take this slow and that as soon as we are physical it will mean we are back together 100%. i'm wondering if why this is taking so long? should i hang in there? 4 how long?
2006-12-02
13:32:03
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