I am 13 and my cousin is 14. I was sleeping over her house when she kissed me, my chest and touched my private. She told me not to tell or she would say I did it to her. My mom and dad make me hang out with her all the time. I feel horrible and violated by my own family member. What should I do?
2006-12-02 13:26:42 · 24 answers · asked by A girl. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Tell your mother about it...this way you wont go over as much_
2006-12-02 13:29:12 · answer #1 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you need to tell your mom. Also, if you are forced to be alone with her again, then take a video camra, and record it. She is likley to do it again if she did it once. If you dont feel like you can tell your mom, tell a priest or something. This IS consered molestatiln, even if it IS your own cousin. I am really sorry for what happened. If all else fails, then tell the cops.
2006-12-02 21:50:51 · answer #2 · answered by April 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell ur parents the truth with evidence. They will believe u and back u up. If ur parents know the truth then they won;t believe what the other person says. Sit down and tell them CALMLY what happened be specific, don;t yell and the will see ur side.
If u can't tell ur parents talk to another adult u trust (friend, teacher)
If u want this to stop, then u gotta tell someone. It will be hard but u can do it. Best honey
2006-12-02 21:33:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mom or dad about it so they won't make you hang out with her anymore. If you don't tell them, they will think you don't have a good reason.
You are close enough in age that this is not considered molestation. You have the power to say "no" from now on. But you shouldn't have to be around her.
2006-12-02 21:33:19 · answer #4 · answered by The First Dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, get a camera. Then, come over again and hide it to record any funny business. After that, tell another family member, no matter what she says. This is blackmail with an exciting element of incest.
2006-12-02 21:30:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
hmm well i know how you feel! sorry if your own cous did that to ya I'll try my best to give you my advise. try to prove that your cousin touched you.have a video cam while you re by her,or you could just say please stop touching me I'm not a lesbian i understand you are but im not. maybe she'll stop. well try those things your friend,
kiesey p.s. sorry my user name is secret admire 4 u and stuff like that this was my brothrs
2006-12-02 21:36:32 · answer #6 · answered by secret admire_4u:) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell your mom what happened! Your mom will believe whatever it is you tell her. Don't let your cousin have control over your emotions, the decisions that you make, and your life.
2006-12-02 21:31:02 · answer #7 · answered by tonja20770 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell her it does not turn you on.
Then.....
Make an excuse that you do not want to hang around her.
You are sick or whatever.
Tell your parents that she worships santan in secret and you don't want anything to do with her.
I would not cause drama in the family right at this point.
Wait a couple of years and then tell your family.
2006-12-02 21:33:01 · answer #8 · answered by DRNoraSarasin 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow ur situation is a little messed up ! you should either tell ur parents the truth or just simply tell them that you cant get along with your cousin.
2006-12-02 21:30:02 · answer #9 · answered by Crazy Boy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL SOMEONE i think its wierd and stuff but tell someone who cares if you did it to her thats still wrong for her to do it tell someone immediately
and this may sound nasty but record it so you have hard evidence that way they know your not lying, unless you liked it then i cant help you
2006-12-02 21:30:50 · answer #10 · answered by The Eternal Warrior? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should tell your parents or if you feel unconfrontable with that maybe a school conselor can help you talk to your parents. but you need to do this NOW!
2006-12-02 21:31:10 · answer #11 · answered by jessejamesthegreat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋