OK- the back ground for this question is in my last post. To make it short- my bf said he was going home b/c he was tired. I just tried calling him- he is not at home! What should I do????
We have been dating FOREVER w/ no move towards the "m" word, and he has pulled some other crap before (bailing out on the last minute, not calling, etc).
2006-12-02 13:26:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like he has trust issues . I'd have a serious talk with him.
2006-12-02 13:28:39 · answer #1 · answered by Joe Prosnick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm..... He may just not be interested in a "serious" relationship. And when you say FOREVER how long is that exactly? Or is it that you no longer remember so you use that word? It may be helpful to know because I could try to give a better response to your question.
He's done this before. If it's like 5+ times.... That's not such a good sign. I say, yes, be angry at him. This is just my opinion but I would be too. Bailing at the last minute is terribly frustrating.
2006-12-02 13:29:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes! you should be po'd @ him! my advice is; dump him! confronting him face to face is better, but harder. tell him it hurts your feelings when he ditches you. let him know how you feel! ur bf should love(or at least like) you enough to say he's sorry or give a good excuse. to make sure it's not made up, tail him or ask his mom/dad where he is when you call.
2006-12-02 13:30:35 · answer #3 · answered by elphie44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he definately not at home, or is he just not picking up?
I'd give him a chance to explain himself, but if he's not paying you the attention you want, you need to talk to him about it.
2006-12-02 13:30:12 · answer #4 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys, don't like it when girls call all the time! Jus talk 2 him about it
2006-12-02 13:29:17 · answer #5 · answered by Boo21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont jump 2 conclusions. calm down and try to call agian you shouldnt be mad until u no wuts really going on. who knows it could be nuthing. maybe he was in the restroom!
2006-12-02 13:30:07 · answer #6 · answered by claire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your bf is playing with you
2006-12-02 13:31:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him about it.
say you're concerned.
if he gets really upset about it.. he's probably keeping something from you.
2006-12-02 13:29:35 · answer #8 · answered by greysanatomylover3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he is cheating you better find out!
2006-12-02 13:28:24 · answer #9 · answered by Nightchild 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is up to no good ! don*t take that off of him !
2006-12-02 13:29:17 · answer #10 · answered by Barbie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋