okay heres the deal: my dad and mom own a bowling alley. Now, their both getting stressed, and i dont think that they will stay together. my mom is getting really mad at my dad, and the other way around, too. i dont know what to do. im 13, and i dont want my parents to split up.
2006-12-02 13:21:29 · 13 answers · asked by April 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Sounds like they need some outside counseling. Tell your parents that you are feeling stressed and worried because of their behavior. Tell them that you want them to stop and get counseling before it gets too late. Money can cause a lot of problems and that may be the reason they are arguing so much. I'm sorry you're in this situation, it's not nice. Tell your parents now before it's too late and you may all be a nice, happy family once again. -Good luck.
2006-12-02 13:27:05 · answer #1 · answered by Lidya D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is really hard on you. But your parents are having "grownup problems" that have nothing to do with you. You don't know the whole story, and it is probably best for you if you don't. You can't do anything about it.
The most important thing you can do is take care of yourself. Study hard and have good friends. Talk to other adults that you trust. Don't do anything that will hurt yourself in the long run. I say this because a lot of teens do, when they are stressed.
If you can, stay on good terms with both parents.
Take care of yourself.
2006-12-02 13:28:48 · answer #2 · answered by The First Dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 11 when my parents split up, and i was in denial about it at first.
I was mad at both of them for "destroying" our family, but as you grow up you realize that it happens for a reason. Our parents have a life too, and they deserve to live it happily. After a while, you'll start to notice that your parents are happier alone, and although its gonna be hard to get used to the change, it'll all be fine in the end. There is nothing you can do about this, except for be at their side throughout this all, they are gonna need you.
2006-12-02 13:27:00 · answer #3 · answered by Faby'07 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry sweetheart but there is nothing u can do except do what your suppose to so u don't put anymore stress on them.I am truely sorry what is happening to your parents but alittle pray will never hurt. I hope that everything is okay and it is all in your imagination.
2006-12-02 13:27:42 · answer #4 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry that you're going through this. If my children were concerned about me and their father (my husband) splitting up, I would want to know about it. Would you be able to sit your mom down and talk to her? Or if you're closer to your dad, you can talk to him as well. Tell them your concern in a mature and adult way. Good luck!
2006-12-02 13:27:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You couldnt do anything. You could tell them be act a good role model. Good luck. I think you better dont stay in the house too much.
2006-12-02 13:27:19 · answer #6 · answered by ♥♥Pro♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask both of your parents to talk to each other about everything. Tell them how everything makes you feel. I know you want both of you parents in your life and together. tell them how you feel about the whole situation and that you want to help. Make them both talk to each other about everything and you have to sit there.
2006-12-02 13:27:06 · answer #7 · answered by jalmond87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my parents split up when i was 9 after my mom had promised me she will never divorced my dad.Let things go the way theyll go.wether your parents split up or not.youlls still see them and you never get what you want in life.its a lesson from GOD to show us how to appreciate life.pray shwo God how you do appreciate life and what you have.let things go the wya God wants them to go.he does thing for a reason.
2006-12-02 13:48:54 · answer #8 · answered by lohanaddict 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
always remember parent have the right to be happy.and if they not happy together then there better off making there life.and its not so bad .....in there heart they always love you. it hard when parents are stress out....cause life is full of stress.......talk to them and let them know how you feel.......
2006-12-02 13:36:39 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents won't split up, or if they do they will consider you of course. Things just have a way of working themselves out.
A simple and sweet answer.....
2006-12-02 13:32:34 · answer #10 · answered by Love Help Here For You! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋