I have not yet had the other kind...from intercourse...how is it different...and how can I have this happen? If my b/f is going deep, I often have to have him pull out b/c of the pain...do I just need to hold on longer...whats the secret here? Thx
2006-12-02 13:18:25 · 8 answers · asked by earthwhisper 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask him to take it slow....sounds like he might be too aggressive_
2006-12-02 13:19:37 · answer #1 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your waiting for something that is not an Alaskan pipeline, so tell Stud muffin to quit drillin and stay closer to the surface.
Once. For me once!! I shoulda kept that man. As usual men think it is all about the depth, the thrust, it all feels good, but nothing turns the TV on like the power button. If he stimulates you orally, take it and then fake the rest, they never know the difference.
I know that sounds cold, but I have tried giving direction and hints, and I get the "All the other women got off". Okay dude whatever. It takes effort to fit together just right, not antics.
ETA: Thumbs down to truth? I think not!! Truth hurts sometimes.
2006-12-02 13:26:25 · answer #2 · answered by Hatem 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I used to question that too. Finally it happened to me. But it was with a exboyfriend that was small and he was on top. Then later with my husband, it, only happens when i am on top and me doing most of the work. Its like if he messes up my rythme he can keep me from orgasming. It is a great feeling. If it doesnt happen to you its no big deal as long as you got the other method. Its not something that he can just find automatically it just happens. Its like a tickling sensation and not so much movement on his part. If you ever feel anything like that tell him not to stop that motion or maybe you can explore it.
2006-12-02 13:39:57 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think your alone in this. Oral sex is the only way I've ever experienced an orgasm. That's not saying it doesn't feel good having regular intercourse. That's why i make sure i get mine before he gets his.
2006-12-02 13:24:36 · answer #4 · answered by Karen M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women cannot get an orgasm unless there is some kind of clitoral stimulation. Have intercourse in a position where one of you can stimulate your clitoris
2006-12-02 13:22:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn where you G spot is and have him stimulate that in foreplay then do intercourse, but more gently. Use a vibrator on your outside button while he is inside and that should work.
2006-12-02 13:21:46 · answer #6 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, there are many women that cannot climax during intercourse, so don't worry about it.
2006-12-02 13:24:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may only be able to with (outside) stimulation. Have him to rub it when you do it. or before to help.
2006-12-02 13:21:14 · answer #8 · answered by noseygirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋