Family & Relationships - 2 December 2006

My ex dumped me recently. I was just gettin over him & it was great. I mean, other than the fact that he was holdin hands w/ my friend & stuff like that. Then I checked his myspace (he updates it often) & it said 'I love Collette...Do you?' (thaz my name)
I wana know what's goin on here. (I'm not even sure he & my other friend r goin out, but they like each other enough to b holdong hands)

2006-12-02 15:32:08 · 10 answers · asked by Collette F 1 in Singles & Dating

where exactly are you (State...Country??).. doing a survey

2006-12-02 15:31:55 · 29 answers · asked by Morena 3 in Marriage & Divorce

If you were dating a guy for a couple of months and really got to like him and then find out he hasn,t seen the sun in five years and has the worst farmers tan you have ever seen would you just kick him to the side or stay with him? I know this may sound silly but please answer honestly and sincerely and please no smart answers.

2006-12-02 15:31:37 · 20 answers · asked by an_actual_good_guy 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-02 15:31:24 · 5 answers · asked by vix 2 in Family

one night, i was going to watch a contest with my bestfriend. she promised me she'd find me but she didn't come.I felt so bad and angry. I went to my other friend. she was part of the contest. I just passed by to say gudluck and all... then she asked me where my bestfriend is, who I was with..I didn't answer..my tears really wanted to fall already and she noticed that.. I tried to pull away from her and went to the nearest water fountain. I told her I'm ok, she became more worried bout me so I told her "Who am I to you that you should care?" I totally regret it. She left me and she looked sad like her energy faded. when I went home, I cried and cried that night even in the morning I still cried. I want to stop crying but it doesn't stop. I feel so bad and angry at myself. dont know if i'm depressed or anything but I just don't feel like myself. I'm mad at my bestfriend and I really regret those things I said to my other friend.

2006-12-02 15:31:17 · 22 answers · asked by crop_chop 1 in Friends

2006-12-02 15:31:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I can't believe how rude she was being. I was trying to sip my tea and read my book on Oliver Cromwell and then she comes over and starts taking off her clothes and doing some lap dance. How ridiculous was that? This isn't the first time she has done things like this. I was eating biscuits the day before and she did it and the day before that I was polishing my shoes. In fact while I was taking a shower this morning, she walked in on me! How rude is that?! I love my girlfriend very much and she is such a pretty lady and very sweet, but sometimes she can be like this. How can I get her to stop this unbecoming behavior without being boorish?

2006-12-02 15:30:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm wondering if I should gain some weight.

2006-12-02 15:30:49 · 6 answers · asked by tlakkamond 4 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend's ex wife, who tried to kill herself when she found out that he had someone else, (They broke up almost 2 years now)mailed him a letter recently, telling him that she is sorry for everything that has happened between them, understands why he cheated on her and forgives him. She also wrote that he "will always be her first love". (she didn't write a return address) Does anyone have any idea as to why she decided to write this letter? And could it be that she is trying to be with him and still loves him?

2006-12-02 15:30:28 · 30 answers · asked by KerryAnn 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I've known this girl for a little more than a year and we have been really close friends. I have told her all of my darkest and deepest secrets and from what I know i beleive she has told me hers as well. We ran track together most of the same races. I talk too her whenever I get a chance after class after school I even go to her moms store and talk to her. Most of the time when we talk on the phone She calls me and we talk for hours. I have asked her out twice the first time she said I don't know not right now and the second time she said I'll think about it. I asked her later if she actually thought about it or just didn't want to hurt my feelings but she said she actually did. I wrote her poems that she liked and all that stuff. I told her That I loved her on the phone once and she broke up with her boyfriend 2 or 3 days later. I really like this girl but I don't know what to do. Should I settle being her friend or should I ask her out a third time?

2006-12-02 15:29:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it possible to love someon even after they cheat on you?

I was cheated on by my ex-bf, and yes, i was upset and heartbroken, but i still loved him. Well i think i did, well and do. He always asks me how i can still love him after what he did to me. I never seem to be able to really answer that question. I ponder and ponder it forever with no relief. I know he's sorry for what he did. I just need to know, is it possible to love someone that cheated on you?

2006-12-02 15:28:36 · 6 answers · asked by yourheart888 1 in Singles & Dating

My finace and I got engaged in October. We've been dating for 6.5 years. We are planning on getting married 5-9-09 because I still have 2 years of nursing school left. When would be a resonable time to start planning? Thank you!

2006-12-02 15:27:38 · 12 answers · asked by hayley2192 2 in Weddings

2006-12-02 15:26:47 · 13 answers · asked by lala 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok first those of you against threesomes etc please dont answer. I know not everyone agrees with open relationships and I am aware of the reasons why.
My boyfriend and I have been together a long time and have had threesomes before. We are both fine with them as long as all the rules are followed and everything has always been ok. However tonight he asked me if I would be willing to have a threesome with his childrens mom. I am really messed up on this one. To me its one thing to have a threesome with someone else and its another to have one with "her".
My question for men is why would he want to do it with her and I? He says its because he knows she is open and he doesnt have any other females right now that would and he wants to do it again.
My question for women is would you do it?
Its always been better for us to do it with someone more impartial. And I dont know how I feel about seeing him with her again. Help!!!

2006-12-02 15:25:51 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-02 15:24:44 · 11 answers · asked by Mansour Karami 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

This guy likes me and today I had a varsity invite for gymnastics and he showed up. If you weren't competing, you had to pay to watch. it was only like 5bucks tho.Guys would you really pay to see a varsity gymnastics meet??

2006-12-02 15:23:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

where would people go to talk on MSN without having to buy a membership it gets harder everyday to get into Yahoo

2006-12-02 15:23:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

When you make eye contact and smile at a guy you like,and he just walks right on by without saying anything,do you assume that he is just shy,playing hard to get,or has lost interest in you all together?

2006-12-02 15:23:14 · 19 answers · asked by Nick R 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-02 15:22:38 · 18 answers · asked by edward b 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband and i are seperated and he is going out for surgery and i have 2 kids...../?

will i be able to collect social security on my kids... because he won't be paying me child support while in surgery

2006-12-02 15:22:26 · 7 answers · asked by aerg a 1 in Marriage & Divorce

will i be able to collect social security on my kids... because he won't be paying me child support while in surgery

2006-12-02 15:21:59 · 5 answers · asked by aerg a 1 in Marriage & Divorce

okay so there is this guy that i have liked for a long time. i am pretty sure that he likes me too but i need help to see if anyone else thinks so too. we were at a basketball game yesterday because we are both in band and he surprised me by coming. the whole time we talked and when he went to go say somthing to our friend and i would look at the game for a minute, he would check up on me and ask if i was okay. then he would stare at me and smile and act really goofy. it was really funny. and laugh at everything i said but not when we were being serious. but i don't know [i have a really good feeling that he does] what do you think

2006-12-02 15:21:35 · 21 answers · asked by MaculaMaster 3 in Friends

I've got a '66 Mustang, straight six 200, three on the floor, and I'm trying to find some styled chrome rims for it. Problem is, it's got that characteristic, hard-as-hell-to-find 4-lug bolt pattern. Any ideas?

2006-12-02 15:21:05 · 5 answers · asked by Aaron B 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-02 15:20:28 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok, so two of my BEST FRIENDS dont like each other. Like we are in the same clique and they jsut HATE each other. Now, i kno that they both hate each other but the they dont kno that the other one hates them. now i kno that if they talk about it they can probably solve EVERYTHING but i promised both i wouldnt say anything and they are both so mad that it just might make matters worse. Basically, im caught in the middle nd not sure what to do... anyone gone through this b4 and have advice??

2006-12-02 15:20:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Should i stop being such a wimp?
please read..i like a guy i want to tell him i like him(love him) i really dont know him should i just teel him?
and how? do i just tell my friend to tell him cuz im shy?

2006-12-02 15:19:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i am getting married in 25 days. it is an arranged marriage & i know her since nearly 4 months. i have an on & off alcohol problem. y´day on the phone (i am in uk, she is in india) i abused her verbally. i cannot remember what exactly i told her b´coz i was heavily drunk. but she is still agreeing to marry her, however she never told me that she loves me, but that she likes me & cares about me. she says she is marrying me b´coz to keep her parents happy. is she sticking with me b´coz she like me that much (despite me abusing her on the phone y´day) or b´coz she loves her parents so much & wants to keep em happy.? by the way, otherwise i am such a good person. ie i am a very nice person. it´s only when i am drunk that i am terrible.

2006-12-02 15:19:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Do people who have lots of siblings live happier lives? I think they do, because they usually are much closer and you learn a lot from your siblings when you are growing up that really helps you out in the real world. I'd love to have a bunch of siblings, I mean yeah, you'd have to share a lot of stuff, but you'd have so much fun all the time.

2006-12-02 15:19:16 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Put in order..Most important to least important......Big heart, Big sex organ, Big bank account or Big brain............

2006-12-02 15:18:44 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I think no one will ever want to go out with me.

2006-12-02 15:18:17 · 15 answers · asked by zztopspin 3 in Singles & Dating