one night, i was going to watch a contest with my bestfriend. she promised me she'd find me but she didn't come.I felt so bad and angry. I went to my other friend. she was part of the contest. I just passed by to say gudluck and all... then she asked me where my bestfriend is, who I was with..I didn't answer..my tears really wanted to fall already and she noticed that.. I tried to pull away from her and went to the nearest water fountain. I told her I'm ok, she became more worried bout me so I told her "Who am I to you that you should care?" I totally regret it. She left me and she looked sad like her energy faded. when I went home, I cried and cried that night even in the morning I still cried. I want to stop crying but it doesn't stop. I feel so bad and angry at myself. dont know if i'm depressed or anything but I just don't feel like myself. I'm mad at my bestfriend and I really regret those things I said to my other friend.
2006-12-02 15:31:17 · 22 answers · asked by crop_chop 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Guilt can be a terrible thing. You were mad at one friend and took it out on the other friend. What you need to do is to talk to both friends about your feelings. Keeping it inside yourself will only make it hurt worse. Apologize to the friend who reached out to you and you'll be amazed how much better you will feel.
2006-12-02 15:35:42 · answer #1 · answered by mopjky 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take one day at a time.
A true friend will accept an apology.
A true friend will apologize and ask for forgiveness.
A friendship is only as strong as the ability to work together throught the good and bad times. These may be bad times, but if you stop for a second and realize that you can work from now on to improve and be better - and tell the people you like the truth about what you did - it can be put past you.
These things happen. People freak out sometimes. The difference is a decision by you that this was not you and not the NEW you. If it is the real you - then you will need new friends as the real you cannot deal with these people. If it is a one time thing, tell them so - tell them that if you do this again - or start doing this again - pull you aside as you do not want to act foolish again. Best wishes.
2006-12-02 15:37:03 · answer #2 · answered by Kerry Z 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me that it was your time of the month and you were feeling more emotional than usual. I am wondering why did your friend not showing up have such a dramatic effect on you. It could be something happened that made it impossible for her to come. Do you generally have issues with friends and people being loyal? Because it seems like you became upset with the other girl over your other friend's behaviour. If you feel like you are walking around with a broken heart all the time, chances are you are depressed and should talk to your parents, a school counselor, or a doctor. If you just had this one freak out experience, then it probably was your hormones were wacked out.
2006-12-02 15:41:25 · answer #3 · answered by graff_monster@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't justify your friends actions but you can yours. I would start by apologizing to the other friend that had some concern for you. Explain that you were already sad and angry and didn't think before you answered her. Don't loose 2 friends when you don't have to. Also ask your other friend what happened? She may have a legitimate reason for not showing up. Don't ever take things for granted. Know the truth as the truth will set you free which will stop your crying.
2006-12-02 15:47:06 · answer #4 · answered by Al B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You DO sound really depressed, and you should be talking about it with somebody. First thing to do is ease your conscience: explain to your friend that you haven't been yourself, say you're sorry, and ask if there's anything you can do to make it up to her. Then, you need to figure out what is going on that is making you get upset so easily, as missing just one get-together is usually not so much of a deal that people want to cry. I would suggest talking to a therapist or counselor about the trouble you're having controlling your emotions.
2006-12-02 15:35:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being a little too sensitive. Relax, take a deep breath. Call your other friend that you were short with and apologize to her, tell her you were just upset, and you didn't mean to take it out on her. Then, call your bestfriend and ask her why she didn't come find you and if she gives you a lame excuse, make your other friend your new best friend, because she seems to care a lot more about you.
2006-12-02 15:42:13 · answer #6 · answered by Lovebug123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really think the best thing you can do for yourself right now is to talk to your friends. Isolating yourself can only make you feel more miserable, because nothing has changed since you last spoke to them. If they are really your best friends they will hear you out and see the pain you are feeling, afterall they are your friends. Its the only way to get over these feelings of despair that you are experiencing. You need to hear why your best friend ditched you, give her the benefit of the doubt. Maybe there is a legitamate reason, everybody makes mistakes.
2006-12-02 15:42:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you're crying because you're unhappy. The only way to fix what happened is to talk about it with both friends. I know that's tough and cliche, but it's all you can do. If you don't, you'll remain to sit around feeling sorry for yourself. Apologize to the friend you were mean to and ask your "best friend" what happened -- maybe it was a miscommunication. Jumping to conclusions and assuming the worst always leads to the worst feelings.
2006-12-02 15:34:34 · answer #8 · answered by Julia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your problem is simple .Buy something for your other friend witha sorry note and deal with your best friend and just ask her why she didnt turn up .This is a very simple matter not a matter to spill tears over. You dont have depression or any thing you just feel bad and you are overreacting
2006-12-02 15:35:05 · answer #9 · answered by Shahzadi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 15:26:00 · answer #10 · answered by barn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋