If you were dating a guy for a couple of months and really got to like him and then find out he hasn,t seen the sun in five years and has the worst farmers tan you have ever seen would you just kick him to the side or stay with him? I know this may sound silly but please answer honestly and sincerely and please no smart answers.
2006-12-02 15:31:37 · 20 answers · asked by an_actual_good_guy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
:) well i may play tease him about it but i certainly wouldn't break up with him for it. the guy's personality and qualities are way more important than his looks.
2006-12-02 15:36:15 · answer #1 · answered by it's me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, we all have issues when we are unclothed, i have never had a tan anywhere, not even a farmer's tan.I'd like to have one. if she likes you she will not care about such a vain thing. i can't believe this is bothering you. Out of everything in the world that could be "different", this is a pretty insignificant thing. Just say, "Look a like a little color on my face, but am concerned about skin cancer, and don't want to take the risk" Or just say "I am such a hard worker, I rewally don't have time to tan". I am sure it will be ok.
2006-12-02 15:40:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,its what personality that counts not his tan. Even though it might look fake or you assume hes lying for all you know he isn't. The real question you would need to ask your self is would you dump a guy because of his tan?
2006-12-02 15:34:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on how you feel if you want to stay with him even he's far different from others. If there is doubts then don't look forward being with this guy. You might fall out of love at the end and will hurt him later. You dont want that to happen don't you?!
2006-12-02 15:40:14 · answer #4 · answered by cuties 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hasn't seen the sun in five years? i'm sorry, but how do you manage that?? and if i really liked a guy, i wouldn't care about his farmers tan
2006-12-02 15:34:59 · answer #5 · answered by Yours Truly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what you mean? How can he have a farmers tan if he hasn't been in the sun?
2006-12-02 15:34:00 · answer #6 · answered by Merrily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all! What does his farmer's tan have to do with his heart? A tan can change, but character is constant.
2006-12-02 15:32:47 · answer #7 · answered by Rebecca 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends WHY he hasn't seen the sun and has the worst tan...
2006-12-02 15:34:28 · answer #8 · answered by Secret Agent of God (BWR) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I really liked him I would stay by him het maybe you could go to one of those spray on tan booths(pro) or get some tanning lotion(more expensive cuz you want it to work great)
good luck
2006-12-02 15:33:58 · answer #9 · answered by sam_roxmysox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I truly deeply loved him i wouldn't care what he looked like or how "tan" he is i would love him for who he is not what he looks like .....i know that is like a famous saying an all but it is true...
2006-12-02 15:34:02 · answer #10 · answered by Brookeee(: 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋